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Excuse me,

but from now on I'd  like to be refferred to as "Your one-hundred and thirty-fifth-ness".

 

posted by majroj on August 15, 2005 at 12:26 PM | link to this | reply

Hiya, May
catching up on reading. Not much to say on this one.

posted by Joe_Love on August 14, 2005 at 6:15 PM | link to this | reply

kindness does repay itself

posted by Vanidad on August 12, 2005 at 5:50 PM | link to this | reply

Do you realize that you are the #8 top blogger????
Yea for you!

posted by buttsup on August 12, 2005 at 1:06 PM | link to this | reply

MayB,

I am a firm believer that what goes around, comes around.  Good things  as well as the bad. Life becomes meaningless if we don't try to help others and whether we know it or not, we're helping ourselves when we help others.

posted by word.smith on August 12, 2005 at 12:07 PM | link to this | reply

That's great MayB!
And..I'll have to check out the one-liner idea! I'm about 2/3 through a book...I do have a notebook with one-liners but I'm dying to know what you've said about that....off to find it now...

posted by ginnieb on August 12, 2005 at 8:07 AM | link to this | reply

MayB--
kindness and being willing to help others builds good karma and attracts those same kinds of people to us via the like-attracts-like principle.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2005 at 7:03 AM | link to this | reply

NCWriter, it's true. I think it was being among so many writers in last week which made me see it more clearly than before. And here too, there are some encouraging and inspiring colleagues.

I also had to file a complicated piece to an editor yesterday and he was kind. He polished it up and told me he could see all the work that I'd had to put in. Small acknowledgements make all the difference

posted by Azur on August 12, 2005 at 6:44 AM | link to this | reply

Do let me know if the carp are running dave cryer.

posted by Azur on August 12, 2005 at 6:40 AM | link to this | reply

And like attracts like...
You're a good person helping a good person, so a good person, will soon help you. Isn't being a writer so much better when you surround yourself with other writers like yourself? The ones who applaud their peers as opposed to being in competition with them. Great read MayB.

posted by NCwriter on August 12, 2005 at 6:39 AM | link to this | reply

O me ga-d! Surely not. That wouldn't alpha cause me trouble and make me psi. I beta start learning it.

posted by _dave_says_ack_ on August 12, 2005 at 6:36 AM | link to this | reply

as always, good advice to heed

posted by SomeoneElse on August 12, 2005 at 6:03 AM | link to this | reply

Occasionally it only works in the Greek alphabet Dave Cryer

posted by Azur on August 12, 2005 at 6:02 AM | link to this | reply

Are you sure Dave Cryer? I just read about your frilly white knickers

posted by Azur on August 12, 2005 at 5:59 AM | link to this | reply

davec we could make you our honoury woman if you like .xxx

posted by mcbreeze on August 12, 2005 at 5:57 AM | link to this | reply

mayb that`s a good point yep most r lol.

posted by mcbreeze on August 12, 2005 at 5:56 AM | link to this | reply

I'm not a woman. Not last time I checked.

posted by _dave_says_ack_ on August 12, 2005 at 5:55 AM | link to this | reply

I also think it goes round in a circle: you help a, a helps b, b helps c, c helps d, and then one day, someone you've never met, z helps you.

And I think it goes in spirals = same as before only z passes it onto the next generation.

Same with lifts you got when hitchhiking and lifts you paid back when you got a car.

Same as a door opened for someone, or a car let out of a junction. Small kindnesses go a long, long way. In fact, they go on for ever.

posted by _dave_says_ack_ on August 12, 2005 at 5:54 AM | link to this | reply

and all are women mcbreeze.

posted by Azur on August 12, 2005 at 5:52 AM | link to this | reply

mayb
it is amazing how when you seem to be stuck amazing people seem to appear from nowhere and guide you through. xxx

posted by mcbreeze on August 12, 2005 at 5:48 AM | link to this | reply