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Hmmm less tongue?
Well as long as you're using your mouth. I hate kissing women who present me with a permapucker.

posted by AlienInsomniac on August 9, 2005 at 11:19 AM | link to this | reply

MiaElla, I'm sorry about your shoe.
That happened to me in highschool, and people already thought I was weird so it was awful. Since then, I carry flipflops in my car.  You never know- right?  Good luck finding Mr. Right.  I don't think I'm so good at kissing, and someone told me once I wasn't. I didn't marry that guy- lol.  Take care

posted by Flumpystalls3000 on August 4, 2005 at 6:50 PM | link to this | reply

Mia,
I can see your points. Especially about the compatible kisser. I remember when I was young and making out with a guy, sometimes it was as if they were a dog drinking out of its bowl. Like, calm down, Dude!

posted by SpitFire70 on August 4, 2005 at 4:28 PM | link to this | reply

MiaElla,

Gawds, what planet have I been on?  It's good to hear that you survived the evening with your dignity intact.  But I had no idea you were a virgin.  That's pretty amazing this day and age.

I wish I had waited too, but it was meant to be I think that I didn't.  Otherwise I wouldn't have my oldest son, Philip :)

posted by myrrhage_ on August 4, 2005 at 1:20 PM | link to this | reply

MiaElla... I don't think that many will disagree.. if you're not compatible
kissers... it's wrong from the get go.... stick to being friends!  lol 

posted by -blackcat on August 4, 2005 at 10:15 AM | link to this | reply

blackcat30

Yeah...that's the tricky part. Once, I got the guy I was dating at the time to kiss just like me...it worked...and then he was like, "Ah wow....so this is kissing." I just laughed because he had been married and he wondered why his wife never wanted to have sex with him. It turned out to be a major reason she divorced him....

We ended up breaking up (but it had nothing to do with kissing)...lol

 

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

mmm

Good question. I wouldn't write a great guy off because we weren't compatible kissers, unless there were other compatibility problems...then I might question things. I guess all you can do is work at differences, until you can reach a happy medium. Hmmm.

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 10:01 AM | link to this | reply

Ohhhh... if you're not compatible kissers then end it now! I'm serious.
It's all downhill from there.  Heed the advice.  I spent the better part of 6 months trying to teach a guy to kiss better (less wet and sloppy) and then I realized, you either have it or you don't!  Move on.... the kiss is the most important part! 

posted by -blackcat on August 4, 2005 at 10:00 AM | link to this | reply

crappy day.... sorry to hear that....

but i completely "get" what you are saying in re: to kissing...... so if you are not compatible kissers, where does that leave your relationship?

posted by mmm-w on August 4, 2005 at 9:56 AM | link to this | reply

lol

Yer too funny!

Yeah, it sucks when you want to be head over heels for a guy but he just doesn't kiss well.  Ick.

posted by RachelAnna on August 4, 2005 at 9:33 AM | link to this | reply

LOL!

posted by Ariala on August 4, 2005 at 9:11 AM | link to this | reply

Timmy & Ariala
You too are sooo bad! LOL!

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 9:05 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala
Bathroom break!!!

posted by TIMMYTALES on August 4, 2005 at 9:02 AM | link to this | reply

Timmy, geez...don't say stuff like that...you make it difficult to sit here
and work when I'd rather be elsewhere.

posted by Ariala on August 4, 2005 at 9:00 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala

Me too! All the time. It's the 'real" reason I'm not married yet! LMAO

 

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 8:59 AM | link to this | reply

fwmystic

"Was it good for you?"

"Gee, I don't know, was it good for you?"

"Mmm...tweedle dee....tweedle dum."

Uh, no!

How could you even think that??????

Can't explain to you exactly what I say...because err...ummm....we are not "in the moment".

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 8:57 AM | link to this | reply

Mia, I've broken up with guys who couldn't kiss! LOL

posted by Ariala on August 4, 2005 at 8:56 AM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
I feel sorry for those people then!! I agree with Ariala.......to lay (naked) with someone (women for me) and to kiss and touch for hours is a wonderful thing!!

posted by TIMMYTALES on August 4, 2005 at 8:54 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala
Yeah...<<sigh>> that's the bad part about not being compatible with the person you are kissing..

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 8:54 AM | link to this | reply

Seriously, Miaella ...
do you really ask "Was it good for you?"

posted by fwmystic on August 4, 2005 at 8:52 AM | link to this | reply

Mia, I could spend most of my time kissing...everything else is secondary!

posted by Ariala on August 4, 2005 at 8:52 AM | link to this | reply

TIMMYTALES

But who am I kidding...most of the people I know skip all that stuff anyway and go straight to S...e....x....

LOL!

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 8:51 AM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
To think about it, you probably know more about the art of lovemaking than most people, even though you have not experienced the intercourse part. The foreplay, the touching, the kissing, all of the things that lead up to the final act are more important than the act itself. Or maybe I'm out of my mind.

posted by TIMMYTALES on August 4, 2005 at 8:49 AM | link to this | reply

Hopeless...err...JimsonWeed

I'm liking the new name. I take it you aren't "hopeless" anymore....lol.

posted by MiaElla on August 4, 2005 at 8:48 AM | link to this | reply

You are such an interesting person!

posted by SomeoneElse on August 4, 2005 at 8:41 AM | link to this | reply