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Me, either...until on a long drive.....so many thoughts bubble up. I was thinking about my dad....and sitting in his lap when I was tired....and that led to just the comfort of sitting in laps in general...and so on. As soon as I posted this the other night, the memory of my old lover was fresh on my mind and I typed out the other post I have up about sitting in a lap; I was thinking about his lap...I miss him a lot since he retired and moved away. Thanks for reading. BTW...did you see my response on Coldplay last night?
posted by
Krisles
on July 24, 2005 at 11:02 AM
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This is not something I would have ever thought to post about
posted by
Azur
on July 24, 2005 at 10:57 AM
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Medusa
Thanks! Are you a lap gal? I know you were a Daddy's girl....bet you put some time in the lap! I hadn't really thought about it...maybe because it was one of those automatic things...that's the beauty of long drives...quality think time!
posted by
Krisles
on July 24, 2005 at 10:56 AM
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FactorFiction
Like I said...I'm very immature!! You must not have heard me get my panties in a wad, as Passion puts it!! I don't have any religion imposed stuff, just the same sense I always have of basic right and wrong for myself that I wouldn't presume to tell others...I think we all have it inside if we listen. I do have things I have learned are smart or stupid, make sense or don't that I will pontificate about if asked...sometimes if no - but I have done that since high school when I spent time on the extemporaneous team. I spent my career as a manager so I am a problem solver...that comes out and has nothing to do with age. Otherwise, if you read my about me page, my daughter agrees my friend did an excellent job of summing me up...I'm silly...I can be serious but dealt with too many serious things in my career to take life or myself too seriously(as I think some folks around here sometimes do)...hope that made sense. I don't put on a persona here. I don't use my name and try to conceal enough so that people who know me wouldn't know for sure it's me because I do talk about an unhappy marriage and some things at the end of my career that could hurt folks I wouldn't want to hurt. My husband has no idea I had a 17yr affair, nor does my daughter - I prefer to keep it that way yet be free to explore myself as I explore my re-emergence into myself here...okay, toooooo deep.
posted by
Krisles
on July 24, 2005 at 10:54 AM
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Hi Lap-gal, Krisles. A most interesting post....
Who knew one could write about men's laps?! Quite brilliant.
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
on July 24, 2005 at 9:29 AM
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hehe it's not the sensuality factor that puts me
in confusion...I have a positive role model for that in my own life... I think it is just your attitude toward life. You don't have that religion-imposed, getting older, time to develop a fear of God and start telling the younger generation what is right and wrong...also you are lacking the rundown of every ache, pain etc...
Now I know that a person chooses her persona here, but the impression that I get is as I stated....
That probably did not make any sense. Oh well, sorry, I am sortof out of it this morning 
posted by
FactorFiction
on July 24, 2005 at 7:38 AM
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FactorFiction
It's funny you should say that because I am thinking about doing a post about people's paradigm's about age. I have never had a problem with putting my age..haven't here because I started out doing so much in MA and may try to market that and didn't want to spoil any fantasies. I found that even though I've been very open about being retired and having grandchildren, many read right over that and kept thinking I had to be in my 20's because of my "sensuality" --please!! I had hormones and energy in my 20's, but not true sensuality..it would be really sad if we stopped developing sexually in our 30's. Anyway..I had a woman who worked for me when I was in my 30's tell me that if I was smart I would stop giving my age when I hit my 40s or 50s because people would start putting me in their box of what that meant, not seeing me for who I was...I thought she was crazy with the arrogance of the forever young BB's...but I am beginning to see that she was absolutley right. And that is especially true, I find, when they don't get a chance to really see you. It's very interesting. Anyway, I'm very immature!!!
posted by
Krisles
on July 23, 2005 at 7:55 PM
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Krisles, I have to say I am now completely
confused...(okay not completely) but I think I need like a timeline of your life or something. I know you have to be older than I am, but you don't seem it...
posted by
FactorFiction
on July 23, 2005 at 7:27 PM
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Kris
Yes it is and I can't wait.
posted by
Bel_
on July 23, 2005 at 7:24 PM
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Military_Wife
Every day you are that much closer to having your lap that much closer...it is that much closer...your lap is soooo close....
posted by
Krisles
on July 23, 2005 at 7:23 PM
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FactorFiction
He's a great guy and we had a long and wonderful relationship...I called it a lustful friendship. He was out of town when I had my heart attack and it was the closest he ever came to blowing our "cover" ...everyone was pretty shocked as I was a woman and so young. The nurse kind of freaked when she came in the room and he had me up there but it sure helped me...everyone had been treating me like I was made out of glass...actually, it hurt because my chest had been sawed open, but I didn't care!
posted by
Krisles
on July 23, 2005 at 7:20 PM
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SpitFire70
I am not at all surprised you are a lap girl!! And glad you are raising your little one right!!
posted by
Krisles
on July 23, 2005 at 7:14 PM
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mikebrown
Thanks for visiting me! I'm glad to see you are doing well...you don't need me anymore and I'm really not cool enough...I like country music sometimes...haven't been to a country music festival yet...am scheduled to go see Coldplay in September..but, I might get a wild hair and go to a country music festival...what would you tell your friends!!!
posted by
Krisles
on July 23, 2005 at 7:12 PM
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I loved that he held you on his lap in the hospital,
with your IV and all....
posted by
FactorFiction
on July 23, 2005 at 7:06 PM
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on laps
be sure to switch legs once in awhile so there's no falling asleepage.
and by the way, what happened to the standard krisles comment on the posts? whats the deal?
posted by
mikebrown
on July 23, 2005 at 6:58 PM
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Kris
*sigh* that's about all I can say right now.
posted by
Bel_
on July 23, 2005 at 5:51 PM
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Krisles,
I sit on M's lap when he pulls me over to him. Sometimes, me and our daughter (5 yrs old) sit on him at the same time.
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 23, 2005 at 5:17 PM
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Madame
Your eyes weren't playing tricks on you...I had left off the end of the words on the paste and fixed!! I think you should show your boyfriend that you are not the only one who likes the lap - I just posted in another of my blogs about laps if you need more amunition...there are plenty of laps in the...what...gymnasium!!!!(ok..I never pretended to be funny...)but, he should get himself some of that lap action...really!!!!Hugs and laps are just the best!
posted by
Krisles
on July 23, 2005 at 1:13 AM
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Vane
I pull my daughter into my lap anytime I think she needs it...and have even pulled my mother down for a hug. I have a young woman friend who I have adopted who started crying one time talking about her mother and I just held out my arms and she got up and came over and sat in my lap. I think it is a universal need that mostwomen allow themselves to continue to be in touch with. It can be for comfort and it can be for affection...smart men will be aware of that. And I don't think your mom and grandmother are creepy at all!
posted by
Krisles
on July 23, 2005 at 1:10 AM
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Nevermind, Krisles! I see it now.
No offense, Vane, but the idea of your mother sitting in your grandmother's lap is really creepy.
posted by
Mademoiselle
on July 23, 2005 at 12:52 AM
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I would love to sit on my boyfriend's lap more often, but...
he says it makes him feel "weird" like I'm his daughter or something. Go figure.
BTW, I don't get the last part, "and we get on rea" ... why does it stop there? Is the sentence missing something? Or, am
I? (Keep in mind, it is nearly 4 AM here.)
posted by
Mademoiselle
on July 23, 2005 at 12:48 AM
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I love laps too. There's something better about hugs in laps. I still sit on my mother's lap, and I'm taller than she is. It's just comforting. My mother sometimes sits on her mother's lap and I also sit on my Grandma's lap. I guess were a lap sitting bunch.
With guys its better, because you get to feel safe, wanted, and comforted. I'm a lap girl also.
posted by
Vanidad
on July 23, 2005 at 12:47 AM
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