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Hi Mia,
I believe everyone here knows what you should do, but only you can truly decide that. I also believe none of us want to see you get hurt again and the mere fact that you refer to him as "the jerk" should be all you need to know what you should do. Reil may be nothing, he may be something, but relax, have fun and find another. You are definately nice enough to get any man you wanted. As for men being liers, well, I can't speak for us all but as the hacker put it. We all lie sometime, right. A "Jerk" WILL tell you what you want to hear, especially if he thinks your "good". Stay strong and it will work out.
posted by
SomeoneElse
on July 20, 2005 at 4:12 AM
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I think you describe many of us over rational, too intelligent for their own good women.
posted by
Vanidad
on July 19, 2005 at 9:47 PM
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Mia
Not all me are like that.....but it sounds like this one is. Stay away!!
posted by
TIMMYTALES
on July 19, 2005 at 9:11 AM
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mia~
i agree, we do seem to have a lot in common. this sentence: "Yes, I am the type of woman that digs deeper than necessary. I also scope and probe where I shouldn't. And, I have difficulty leaving well enough, alone." describes me to a TEE!!!!! yikes....
but i think you know he is not a safe idea. entertaining it is not safe, because at some moment when you feel sad or lonely, he will pop up somehow and you may make a bad choice....
as for Riel, don't presume to know what he thinks. it could have been a bad day. it could have been anything....... hang in there....
posted by
mmm-w
on July 19, 2005 at 9:00 AM
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I believe that you have figured this one out yourself
The guy is a jerk, but not all guys are, nor are all guys liars. Its just harder to find honesty within people these days, but they do exist. Hang in there, when you least expect it, Mr. Right will walk straight into your life.
posted by
Sherri_G
on July 19, 2005 at 8:21 AM
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Mia
Are men liars? Come now, Mia, everyone is a lair =P. I cannot warn you strongly enough against The Jerk; he will do nothing but hurt you. You know that, but there’s that little feeling somewhere inside that makes you want to give him another chance. Maybe not because you think he’ll be alright, but just to satisfy some desire in yourself. Get around that feeling Mia, bad news bears all over the place.
As for Riel, don’t jump ship just yet, but if it becomes painfully apparent that he’s just not interested, I suppose the best thing you can do is move on. No sense in prolonging pain. Good luck, Mia, I’m rooting for you!
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on July 19, 2005 at 8:15 AM
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Mia, I think you know the truth of this situation and this guy intuitively.
Be careful.
posted by
Ariala
on July 19, 2005 at 7:57 AM
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