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                    I wonder if sometimes it isn't the other way...
                
                that it begins with respecting oneself.  If I 'm not loving me, I'm not going  to love anyone else, because I can only come to them full of my need and pain and sadness.  
                
                    posted by
                    Ciel
                     on July 15, 2005 at 7:05 AM
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                    yes, sannhet
                
                that is good. what made me understand was realizing that my brother is my self. he and i are not separate, and what i do with regard to him is what i experience. therefore, to strike him is to feel the pain (psychologically, which is far worse). great post.
                
                    posted by
                    avant-garde
                     on July 8, 2005 at 2:06 PM
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                    excellent post
                
                "I tell you solemnly, in so far as you did this to one of the least of these brothers of Mine, you did it to Me." (Matt. 25:40)
                
                    posted by
                    Metta
                     on July 8, 2005 at 9:23 AM
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                    sunnyj -
                
                Thanks. And thanks for stopping by.
                
                    posted by
                    sannhet
                     on July 7, 2005 at 4:48 PM
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                    Painter -
                
                So true . . .
                
                    posted by
                    sannhet
                     on July 7, 2005 at 4:48 PM
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                Nicely put.  Having spent some years researching just who were are IN HIM, I have gained a great respect for myself and others.
                
                    posted by
                    sunnyj
                     on July 7, 2005 at 3:54 PM
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                    and many times
                
                our respect for others reflects
our respect for ourselves.
                
                    posted by
                    Xeno-x
                     on July 7, 2005 at 1:14 PM
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