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Usual
They may be the nicest compliment I have ever received.  Do you know the Norah Jones song, "You Humble Me, Lord"? It floated into my mind.  I often think in songs...thank you so much.

posted by Krisles on June 21, 2005 at 10:26 PM | link to this | reply

You are so much.
You have so much to offer in the way of human-ness...does that make sense? Seems hardly fair for you to be hoarding so much richness of character when there are clearly many out there who are deprived....lol.

posted by UsualSuspect on June 21, 2005 at 7:47 PM | link to this | reply

smartdog_670
Thanks for the input!  It is a fascinating discussion because people are so different, aren't they.  And I can tell that a lot of people enjoy role playing from what I have seen.  I just never have, personally.  I think perhaps that even if it had an appeal to me I would be too inhibited because I could never stand to do  run-throughs on programs when I was a manager. I've never had a problem with public speaking, can get up in front of any sized group and speak without any notes - if it's for real; but try to make me do it just make-believe? I'm nervous, make the kind of mistakes most folks make when it's for real.  I probably need to tell the shrink about that one, huh?! Again, thanks for sharing.

posted by Krisles on June 21, 2005 at 6:21 PM | link to this | reply

Krisles
I have to admitt, I've fantasized about role playing and there is a certain primal appeal to it. It can be a rush - an unleashing of chemicals into your body by some instinctual response - but just like any other rush I think it can be addictive.

I have role played online and played the dominant role, but it always seemed to leave me feeling like there was something missing in the end.

anyways, interesting post.

-smartdog

posted by smartdog_670 on June 21, 2005 at 6:06 PM | link to this | reply

fwmystic
Then don't even peek at the others I've got out there right now or you might get scary! I saw that gun you have! Thanks for reading.

posted by Krisles on June 21, 2005 at 4:22 PM | link to this | reply

Your post made me want to look for my handcuffs

posted by fwmystic on June 21, 2005 at 3:46 PM | link to this | reply

Strat
Thank you...I was in a rather funky mood...as you can tell.

posted by Krisles on June 20, 2005 at 8:21 PM | link to this | reply

Wow. That did cover a lot of ground!
I think you hit 'em all right, too.

Good work, as always, in all your posts!

posted by strat on June 20, 2005 at 8:15 PM | link to this | reply

MsN

You go, girl!  I do love happy ending.....and ends that are happy! (sigh)

posted by Krisles on June 20, 2005 at 5:56 PM | link to this | reply

Bed has always been

a place to sleep for me... or a place to avoid because I didn't sleep well. But now...

well I suppose I could write my own blog about that!

posted by Transcendental_Child on June 20, 2005 at 5:48 PM | link to this | reply

Talion
Sounds like we can agree to agree on many, many things....as I've gathered before in our discussions.  Thanks for reading.

posted by Krisles on June 20, 2005 at 4:28 PM | link to this | reply

Krisles

Boy, you covered a lot of ground with this post. So much to comment on. Here goes:

  • The bondage thing is beyond me. I don't find the idea of helplessness exciting at all, whether it's me or the woman. And if it is the woman who's helpless, that would mean she's not in a position to influence what happens next. If she can't do that, it almost implies a rape scenario, which I find completely revolting.
  • I met a woman once, long ago in my single days, who said she "liked it rough." When I realized what she meant by rough, I got out of there so fast I didn't even say goodbye. Such things are not my cup of tea. Call me boring, call me inhibited, I don't care. You can keep the kink.
  • I've been in a couple situations, the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong people, when I thought there would be extreme violence. The kind when someone died. Surprisingly, that didn't frighten me at the time. What frightened me was my willingness to see it through without thought of the repercussions. There was no past, no future, only the present. Thinking like that makes it easy to kill. I realized I'm capable of it, so I immediately started changing things to make sure I'm not easily placed in those positions again.
  • I too am extremelt introspective and brutally honest with myself. You could even say harsh. It's not a confidence issue, but just the simple unabashed truth. If I can't be honest with myself, then how could I possibly be honest with anyone else?  

posted by Talion on June 20, 2005 at 4:24 PM | link to this | reply