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LOL......FactorFiction
oooh yeah.......I would...it's nearly 3pm here...yum
I thought you would like a 
and a
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 18, 2005 at 6:44 AM
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Want a
pancake? It's brunch time here...
posted by
FactorFiction
on May 18, 2005 at 6:40 AM
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Thank you Hemlocker
welcome to blogit
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 18, 2005 at 4:52 AM
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LOL......FactorFiction
yes I was asleep...but, if you ever fill the need with your addiction an all..---...leave as many smilys as you like....
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 18, 2005 at 4:50 AM
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Thnaks for sharing, Ben.
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 18, 2005 at 4:48 AM
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most heartless comment
Symphony--
Was pleased to read your experiences. You are right on. You could save a life with that advice. Hope to read more of your stuff. Hemlocker
posted by
Hemlocker
on May 17, 2005 at 8:30 PM
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Thank you for so many flowers Symphony...
but by now you are most likely sound asleep...
(I love that one's face for some reason...Tanoo had better find me that Smileyholics Anonymous program soon!)
posted by
FactorFiction
on May 17, 2005 at 6:32 PM
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Great, new blog name.
There is the repeated abuse syndrome, the abuser-victim cycle, and many more problems. I used to carry telephone numbers of the various aid agencies to hand out to people like these. Many ask for personal help but I couldn't do it.
Ben.
posted by
A-and-B
on May 17, 2005 at 3:10 PM
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Thank you...renigade3
nice to see you...
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 12:34 PM
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mightyholywarrior ....you may be an in-perfect man...
but you are aware of it
and are doing something about it...and you sure are honest....and you know what they say..."honest is the best policy"....take care and thank you for reading
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 12:34 PM
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Wonderful post, Symph. Very true.
posted by
Renigade
on May 17, 2005 at 12:31 PM
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SYMPHONY, this post makes me a little guilty. I am a "very imperfect" man,
but I'm working real hard to improve myself.
posted by
Feenix
on May 17, 2005 at 12:29 PM
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Thank you for reading, lovelyladymonk
I really hope you are ok?...(after your dream).....please take care and I hope you sleep peacefully tonight
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 12:06 PM
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This is so true my friend...Until you've been in this same situation, you've no right to judge anyone. Thanks for sharing....God bless.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on May 17, 2005 at 12:03 PM
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Thanks for reading Quirkyalone
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 10:36 AM
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I don't have any personal experience with it, so in a way it is hard for me to imagine...but I do know that you are right, have eloquently described what it must be like for so many.
posted by
Julia.
on May 17, 2005 at 10:01 AM
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Thank you.....it is very sad...Justsouno ....thank you for sharing
I don't know why people let it happen...all I can say is maybe they don't like violence and are scared or just don't like to get involved...but it's heartbreaking....I have no idea if she is still with him...I hope she did get out of the relationship but she did leave with him that night..
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 9:55 AM
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Symphony this is so tragic. I know. Only those men in the Pub who
didn't respond to help her are sicker than he is. I can not believe people just stand around and let another human being beat up on someone, especially a woman. She has been fully conditioned to accept it as her fault. If some man had sorta left him to crawl from the place he would stop doing that to her. She should run, but perhaps she is too beaten down no to do so. GREAT POST GIRL~~~
posted by
Justi
on May 17, 2005 at 9:27 AM
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iSiSeYeSs ...Thanks for reading
thats the trick of emotional abuse...nobody is aware of it...make people aware....they soon realise...
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 9:25 AM
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ahhh thanks ginnieb
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 9:24 AM
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anthony1wiley
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 9:23 AM
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Symph,
Very well put, dear. This sound SOOOOOOO familiar. I am down to one friend now. He had sex with or alienated all the others.
The fists haven't started flying yet, but sometimes I think there are worse things. At least if he hit me I'd have proof of his abuse.
Thanks for posting this. People should be more aware of the dynamics in abusive relationships. People can be so insensitive!!
posted by
myrrhage_
on May 17, 2005 at 8:08 AM
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Your points are right on Symphony...
...so sorry that it happened to you too. I use to work at a shelter for abused women and they all had similar stories. Love the photo..you are so cute! :-)
posted by
ginnieb
on May 17, 2005 at 7:35 AM
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SYMPHONY
A great post luv, and yes my Joyce came from just such a relationship. The guy didn't treat men the same as he did his mate I can tell ya that luv.-;)
posted by
WileyJohn
on May 17, 2005 at 7:32 AM
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ahhh thank you so much FactorFiction
Thank you so much for the hug.....heres a few flowers to brighten up your window...
...I think thats enough, I don't want to spoil you too much....LOL
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 6:28 AM
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So sad...
And, while you may be sorry you stayed so long yourself, I am so glad you are free. You are way too nice of a person to be treated like that!
posted by
FactorFiction
on May 17, 2005 at 6:05 AM
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LOL...thanks offbeatpub
yes, it was the sign behind me but we can pretend it's a halo
...thanks for reading and sharing you are wonderful...Take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 5:21 AM
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Symphony
Your right of course, most women don't see men like that for the worthless pieces of shit they are until after the fact. To do something like that (slapped 4 times) I would have thought someone would have put his lights out.
On a lighter note..I love the way you picture is..looks like you have a purple halo over your head. Course I already knew you was an angel..
posted by
Offy
on May 17, 2005 at 4:22 AM
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MayB
That is correct....nobody will change unless they want too...offering them all you listed would be perfect...
Take care and have a fantastic day...
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 3:24 AM
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The least heartless comment (gettit) you can offer is a shoulder to cry on, a tissue to wipe up the tears, an open ear, or a place to go should they ever need it. It is pointless telling people to change because they won't until they are ready to and they may never change
posted by
Azur
on May 17, 2005 at 3:21 AM
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it was a long time ago, Hammock_Noweilz
I hope that she did get out the realationship.....the cops were called but she still went home with him...I guess if she don't want to press charges then theirs nothing the cops can do....who knows...??
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 17, 2005 at 3:18 AM
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:(
Geez, thats really sad about that lady. I hope she is ok. Somebody should have called the cops or something.
So sick, so sad.
posted by
Hammock_Noweilz
on May 17, 2005 at 3:15 AM
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