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                    Exactly, Justsouno. I think that's the healthiest way to handle 
                
                such things. I don't ever click on the "hate bloggers" and I wish others would stop, too. But, that's their choice. Personally, I have enough stress and frustrations in my daily life, so why would I purposely bring more into it? 
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 7, 2005 at 4:55 PM
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                    There are some on here who have stretched the standard for sanity and
                
                appear to hate any and all things but I just let them slide off my screen. I am not going to spend my life arguing any point. I probably won't change my mind and they have every right not to do so either so if we can be friends under those conditions, (friends as bloggers go) fine otherwise. I won't read or comment to them. 
                
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                    Justi
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                    LittlemsP, not yet. I just got home from work, so I'm 
                
                catching up on comments first. But, I will definitley check it out. Thanks! 
                
                    posted by
                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 5:12 PM
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                    Thanks, Isis. Glad ya liked it.
                
                But, I wish I didn't have to write it in the first place. 
 
                
                    posted by
                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 5:11 PM
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                    And David, I DID mention those blogs that you were commenting about
                
                with scoop. That was the point about the "unmentioned by name" bloggers who continue to get read and fluctuate in the top ranks just by speading hate and negativity. Remember? I really want you to understand that. I don't want you thinking it's the Whammie stuff. 
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 5:10 PM
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                    David, No No No!! The "hate bloggers" is a separate issue from
                
                the other! I never said that anyone conversing with the Blogit staff are spreading hate!! Please understand that. 
                
                    posted by
                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 5:07 PM
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                    scoop, that's kinda how it seems.
                
                And an added note to all- I'm not trying to target anyone in particular regarding the emails and comments to the Blogit staff about Whammie. Just wanted to make that clear. 
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 5:04 PM
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                    Wow, Sass. Me is flattered!
                
                Thanks. (I've really pulled one over on all of you! Muuwwahahaha!) Did I just type that out loud? Damn. 
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 5:02 PM
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                    tigerprincess, yep. That's what I'm thinking, too.
                
                
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 5:01 PM
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                    yay! loved the post spitfire!
                
                Did you see majroj's post on the same issue?! 
                
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                    littlemspickles
                     on May 6, 2005 at 2:26 PM
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                    David1 I didn't see any hate on any of the Whammie blogs but I agree with
                
                the politics and religion they get real bad. I took a pounding during the elections. And I understand where you are coming from.
                
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                    scoop
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                Well said, Lady!
                
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                    Just my opinion, by the way!
                
                
                
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                    David1Spirit
                     on May 6, 2005 at 9:15 AM
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                    scoop
                
                But I see hate in all kinds of blogs, not just the ones dealing with the Whammie issue, or spinoffs of that issue.
  I find hate in the political blogs, and in the religious blogs, and many others too. Would have been nice to see those mentioned maybe!
                
                    posted by
                    David1Spirit
                     on May 6, 2005 at 9:14 AM
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                    David1 I disagree
                
                we do have and had, a few here that border on hate and try to hide it. Just my opinion.
                
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                    scoop
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                    Taking a certain stand on an issue doesn't neccesarily mean hate
                
                Just because a person is being forthright and very candid doesn't mean that person is spewing hatred, just strong feelings.
                
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                    David1Spirit
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                    Very good
                
                and very well said, time to move on, but there will always be those who have to fan the flames and I don't care what they say, they love to keep the shit flowing.
                
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                    scoop
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                    I knew you were an intelligent lady 
                
                and this post proves it!
   
 

                
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                    Sherri_G
                     on May 6, 2005 at 8:23 AM
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                Thank you!!!! I was upset about Whammie too, but eventually there has to be something else to write about!!!!!!! These bloggers that are devoting entire posts to the situation are getting old fast!
                
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                    tigerprincess
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                     Whacky46, I hope it happens soon!!
                
                
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 2:37 AM
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                    Sooner or later
                
                hate destroys  the one who hates while the hated can just ignore it. Can't wait to see this happen.
                
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                    Whacky
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                    I get ya, Temple. And, I do believe that some of the "rules"
                
                should be more detailed in description and definitions, but the other stuff is just self explanatory. Harassment is also an issue as far as communications with Shaycom, just the same as many hate blogs with aggressive & very negative overtones are displayed in some specific bloggers’ posts.
                
                    posted by
                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 1:32 AM
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                    p.s.
                
                A homeowners association would lose a lawsuit if they enforced rules with such a lack of uniformity, consistancy, and clarity.  I know, I've worked on them.  I don't think that's too much to ask, after all, without us, they wouldn't be here at all. 
                
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                    Temple
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                    It makes sense to me, too...
                
                But, just because this place is private, doesn't mean they can't be fair and uniform with their rules.  Let us know what's expected of us.  They've banned without warning, and in this last case what they banned for was not what even what they warned about.  I just think it's about integrity, ours and theirs.  
                
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                    Temple
                     on May 6, 2005 at 1:10 AM
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                    I hear 'dat, my brotha' Jimmy.
                
                If only others would listen, HEAR IT, and understand.... **sigh**   
 
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 1:04 AM
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                    Well, thank you, too, JJ.
                
                I just hope this makes sense to all who need it to. We'll see. 
                
                    posted by
                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 12:58 AM
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                    Thanks, HolyG. Glad you feel that way. 
                
                
                
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                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 12:56 AM
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                    Mark, well, we're probably talking at least in the 
                
                double digit thousands, at least. 
                
                    posted by
                    SpitFire70
                     on May 6, 2005 at 12:55 AM
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                    I couldn't have put it better...
                
                I don't complain to Blogit about anyone; but that is because I am still mostly bound by stupid codes that I picked up in my youth...nobody loves a snitch, and snitching might get you shot. I rarely even use My posts to rail against assholish bloggers, they don't change and their ratings go up when I give them free press. What I do instead is just stop clicking on them. I will leave them entirely alone until and unless they start being a bitch in my comments section, and a few I have just ignored no matter what...guess what? They stopped bothering me after a while of no response. 
  It is the only way to get along here, flame wars waste too much time and energy, and anger is bad for my digestion. I'm glad I don't have to deal with assholes like some here in my day to day life, I'd get arrested for bitch slapping someone. But then, if those noxious bloggers were in my real life, they'd probably keep their fucking mouths shut around me, and around most of you too. People like that are basically cowards most of the time, and don't want to have to get dentures...peace out upon y'all...
                
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                    jimmy68
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                    Spiff,
                
                You couldn't be more right.  I have no doubt whatsoever that the bloggers who have Mongrel Blogs, the negative ones that you describe, would quickly go away if they drew no crowds.  There are newspaper columnists who do exactly the same thing.  Readers hate them, yet they stay with the paper because they draw a crowd.  I have commented to this effect on Mongrel Blogs, but the crowd is too busy arguing to listen.  Ignore those you dislike, and they go away.  In short, don't waste time and energy making attacks upon the unpopular.
  As far as Shaycom rules, they are there for a reason,  It is a private corporation, and its objective is to operate at a profit.  It's that simple.  No one is going to work for them free, and their software, hardware, and office expenses have to be paid.  They can't afford to retain bloggers who are detrimental to their ability to pay for salaries, equipment, and offices.
  Thanks for making a little sense.... 
 JJ
                
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                    Jack_Flash
                     on May 5, 2005 at 7:22 PM
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                Here here!  
                
                    posted by
                    Holy_Grail
                     on May 5, 2005 at 6:37 PM
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                    Uh...exactly how MUCH moolah are we talking?
                
                Because an investment in tushy-smooching is an investment in the future.  Or at least the evening.
                
                    posted by
                    mark2556
                     on May 5, 2005 at 6:25 PM
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