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marsallengraved
the biggest untruth is that we don't have love. we can prove this by giving. do we feel better or worse when we give. i mean give without a thought of getting anything in return. i remember one run i made at work. the guy was getting flown out by helicopter and the new medics were around. i love the excitement of working in these situations, but i remembered this truth and gave all the work to them. i was soaring with joy watching them gain experience and knowledge. it was truly amazing that by giving these things away, my joy increased. it really works.

posted by avant-garde on April 21, 2005 at 1:17 PM | link to this | reply

yea that's the way...
I like the sentence "love is for-giving"...i will try to improve this aspect in my life.

posted by Marshallengraved on April 21, 2005 at 12:30 PM | link to this | reply

metta
good to hear from you. thank you.

posted by avant-garde on April 20, 2005 at 3:23 PM | link to this | reply

excellent post

posted by Metta on April 20, 2005 at 3:15 PM | link to this | reply

saying no to abuse is love, as well appleworks
and when you feel that boundaries have been crossed, saying no is appropriate. this short-circuits anger. the bitterness comes when we feel we have been offended or taken advantage of, but we say nothing or worse still, try harder for acceptance. no is a very powerful statement of 'i am valuable.' but i see your point in what you did, and it is a very good thing. i have a mother who is much the same way. i disliked her for a long time until i decided to raise my awareness of what i was doing. it was after i had moved out, though.

posted by avant-garde on April 20, 2005 at 3:04 PM | link to this | reply

hi Avant

last night my mother spoke of my consistant coffee spills on the way to my room,all but last night I answered with a "I know"but what I said last night was,"it looks good where it is",this was said in a loving way,and the reply  again was the same,and more conversation continued in a good way.this writing is truely good for me,

thank you, appleworks

posted by appleworks7 on April 20, 2005 at 12:43 PM | link to this | reply

thank flowingchi, sannhet
it was his post that inspired me to write.

posted by avant-garde on April 20, 2005 at 11:27 AM | link to this | reply

Avant -
Great post! I like the paragraph about blocking the flow of love. You're right. Any "thing" will get in the way of that flow., unless we are unconditionally loving that "thing" (animal, plant, etc.).

posted by sannhet on April 20, 2005 at 10:58 AM | link to this | reply