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Talion, no one else can do mushy words like my significaNT OTHER
posted by
Azur
on March 30, 2005 at 11:26 PM
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Me and my husband always emailed each other before we got married. It made our relationship stronger too.
posted by
tigerprincess
on March 30, 2005 at 7:56 PM
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MayB
My wife loves those mushy Hallmark cards that I (like most guys) find totally ridiculous. I could say "I love you" a dozen times, but that doesn't have the same weight as a stranger's words bought and paid for. I finally discovered how I can have the best of both worlds. I buy a blank card and write it myself. My wife gets the card she loves and it's my words and not a stranger's she cherishes.
posted by
Talion
on March 30, 2005 at 7:30 PM
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I totally understand you and once thought that way myself. I don't condemn
you for your way of thinking. First because I have no right to judge your thinking. I simply believe there is a time to be born and a time to die and both belong to God.
posted by
Justi
on March 30, 2005 at 11:54 AM
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Thanks Justsouno, it's nice that you do that. I guess it's down to a difference in designation. I get concerned when others designate that people should martyr themselves or be unable to make their own choices
posted by
Azur
on March 30, 2005 at 11:45 AM
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Jimmy68, I think many people forget to do that kind of thing because they get caught up in some masculinity bs.
posted by
Azur
on March 30, 2005 at 11:43 AM
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Oceandancer, it is making a little spontaneous journey
posted by
Azur
on March 30, 2005 at 11:41 AM
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Wildwoman Laloba, having said that I must find time
posted by
Azur
on March 30, 2005 at 11:40 AM
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Good idea!
and I so agree with you!
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on March 30, 2005 at 5:44 AM
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Hey, B, how's it going? Interesting to see what's going on with your blog.
posted by
Oceandancer
on March 30, 2005 at 5:42 AM
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love letter? I'm still waiting to find that special someone...
posted by
DarrkeThoughts
on March 29, 2005 at 8:47 PM
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That is so wonderful. My husband and I do that once in a while and it
is beautiful. I think some of the hate or vitrol as you put it is that the idea of life and death is a sacred place for most people whether they agree or not. The disagreement may appear hate and may not be that at all but many people, I for one do not want designation on death.
posted by
Justi
on March 29, 2005 at 8:35 PM
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I try to communicate that way...
particularly to my son...and I write of my feelings better than I can express them in words...maybe I should write that someone special...
posted by
jimmy68
on March 29, 2005 at 8:27 PM
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May, yes, and they act like puppies, not kitties...they respond quiet well.
posted by
Ariala
on March 29, 2005 at 8:26 PM
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I hope they purr in response Ariala
posted by
Azur
on March 29, 2005 at 8:24 PM
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I try to express words of love daily, even if it's just to my cats at times
posted by
Ariala
on March 29, 2005 at 8:18 PM
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