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Thanks for sharing, Moondawg
the only close real friends I have is my mum and cousin....I would trust my life in their hands...but I could not be like that with anybody else...I am always suspicious......if you have had no need, then nor do I,..
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 12:40 PM
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I've never had what you would
call real friends. Aquaintances is about as far as I go. There are many reasons for this one of them being the same thing you talk about here. The funny thing is that it has never really bothered me not to have those close friends.
posted by
Moondawg
on March 2, 2005 at 12:37 PM
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thank you for sharing, FactorFiction
your comment made perfect sense....I agree it is harder to make friends with females...but then men are more approchable...good news about your work....thanks for reading and sharing....take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 12:34 PM
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hehehe, thanks lovelyladymonk
I trust you...and yes we can talk .....thank you for sharing your thoughts and relating to me and always understanding
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 12:32 PM
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Symphony - I have found it hard in the past.
It's much harder to make a female friend than a male friend! (I won't speculate on why here.) But to find a good female friend it seems like you have to find a lot in common with someone. We are all so busy with kids, home, work, etc. We get very particular about how we spend time! Those who have old friends nearby seem content to stick with them and not branch out.
That all said I am on a roll because I started a business with a market that's 99.9% female 
That automatically gives me a lot in common with them.
posted by
FactorFiction
on March 2, 2005 at 12:10 PM
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Sweet Symphony,
In some ways, I understand completely how you feel...Many people have left me, too...It's okay to hurt, but try to let go of the bad stuff. Your mum, God bless her, is right...Take your time, but try to let people inside. I hope I'm not one of those you feel you can't trust...LOL
Can we chat soon?
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on March 2, 2005 at 12:04 PM
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thank you for the advice, Justsouno
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 11:58 AM
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sorry you can relate, jobella
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 11:58 AM
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thanks gypsyredhead33
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 11:58 AM
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Symphony
Take baby steps, don't go into a friendship tursting, just go a little at a time until the trust builds from both sides. Love and best wishes.
posted by
Justi
on March 2, 2005 at 7:29 AM
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SYMPH
I know exactly how you feel. I have been shit on major by a lot of girls. I havent made any new freinds in my new neighborhood either. Your not alone
posted by
jobella
on March 2, 2005 at 7:24 AM
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Symph...
Trust is a fragile thing. I willingly give it away but once broken with me it can never be repaired again. I hope you find a way to give your trust again.
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on March 2, 2005 at 6:41 AM
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thats a good point, Vibrance
thank you for sharing....
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 5:42 AM
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hello Tanoolicious...I am on the laptop and have not downloaded msn yet
I will swap computers soon....talk to you soon
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 5:42 AM
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Trust is earned. And you should not trust anyone until the test of time
has passed....my take on this subject. Love, Vibrance
posted by
Vibrance
on March 2, 2005 at 5:35 AM
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Sym I need to tell you something.... when youre free if you could come online... this thing has been killing me for days now
posted by
Tanoolicious
on March 2, 2005 at 5:23 AM
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Thank you so much for relating, Tanoolicious
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 5:16 AM
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Thanks for sharing scriber
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_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 5:16 AM
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Sym I understand you because you remind me of myself in so many ways and how people cna take advantage of a nice caring person..... no youre not alone and youre not set in your ways... the world is just too fucked over
posted by
Tanoolicious
on March 2, 2005 at 5:15 AM
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Symp--It is wise not to trust everyone, but a few friends can't hurt.
posted by
scriber
on March 2, 2005 at 5:13 AM
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Tanoolicious
Thank you so much for understanding me....sometimes I feel like I am alone and set in my ways..
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 4:30 AM
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Sometimes I thonk that way when I have given up on some people
I understand
posted by
Tanoolicious
on March 2, 2005 at 4:19 AM
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Thank you so much for reading, Cynthia
I agree my mum is the my most trusting friend....I also agree that women are very competitive and I also feel like you do in the fact they try to do you in....blogit is wonderful for me...I have many friends here and I think its because they cant hurt me or something..I am not sure....but thanks for telling me you have been ok without friends, it makes me feel much better....take care and enjoy your day
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 3:54 AM
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Symphony, sounds like your mum is your
most trusted friend, which is not bad. Also now that you have Blogit you may not feel the need so much for other people. In my youth I never had women "friends". I felt most women were competitive and no matter what they said their real motive was to do you in. I seem to have done OK without close women friends.
posted by
Cynthia
on March 2, 2005 at 3:44 AM
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thank you for reading and commenting L.E.Gant
if there was a friend out there like me...I would have a great friendship...hehehe only kidding...
but yes, I am a loyal friend, and I do keep to things and I am very trustworthy...I have always had really close friends rather than many...but in time they did the dirty on me.....meaning backstabbing me, or coming on to my husband and so on....so, no I would not look to myself...because I like to think of myself as a wonderful friend to anybody.....but I just have a hard time trusting those in case they hurt me....is that so bad?
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 2, 2005 at 2:36 AM
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As the romans had it: "In vino, veritas"
But reverse your question a bit: "why should you or anybody trust me?" Do YOU keep your small agreements? Are you really reliable? Or are your perceptions of everyone else really your view of yourself?
posted by
L.E.Gant
on March 2, 2005 at 2:11 AM
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