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sorry to hear about your brother...he's just going down the road...
he''ll be back. Love, Vibrance
posted by
Vibrance
on March 2, 2005 at 5:27 AM
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posted by
Dark_Dreamer
on March 2, 2005 at 4:14 AM
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MiaElla
It may not help luv but you are not the only one. 
I have had a lot of people leave me including the one and only woman that I truly loved.
I survive by thinking that God really does choose people that can handle tough things.
He does tha so we can recognize love and beauty when it comes to us.
It will come to you. Keep looking at the flowers and not the pot luv.
posted by
WileyJohn
on March 1, 2005 at 6:59 PM
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A tough question Mia, a tough question
posted by
FreeManWalking
on March 1, 2005 at 1:44 PM
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Whether you know it our not--he didn't leave. He's in Wakely, smiling
at you and giving you all the kisses and hugs he never knew how to give before...
posted by
Renigade
on March 1, 2005 at 11:01 AM
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Mia - Being the one left behind is so hard. Everything changes and yet one doesn't have any choice but to keep on keeping on. Don't be afraid to grieve. Don't feel that you have to hide your tears. He was worth every one of them. Hold fast to your good memories. God bless you.
posted by
TAPS.
on March 1, 2005 at 10:51 AM
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Mia
Well.............it was nothing to do with you. Especially your brother. And maybe the power above you believes you are strong enough to handle this, and you will have your happiness soon. MAybe? I'm so sorry you hurt so much. I wish I could do something.
posted by
ladyofshalott
on March 1, 2005 at 9:58 AM
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THEY NEVER DID
They were meant to teach you something more about yourself in your own love and strength to move on but carry your love always for them to remember fondly...diane
posted by
TRULYBLESSEDDIANE1979
on March 1, 2005 at 8:47 AM
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Thank you Original
You have always been here for me. Much
posted by
MiaElla
on March 1, 2005 at 8:36 AM
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Mia...Thinking of you......
I have no answers....just good thoughts for you!
posted by
Original_Influence
on March 1, 2005 at 8:33 AM
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Ariala
Losing the person who was your reason for living...and who was the person you centered your life around is very difficult.
Especially, since we came so close to losing him so many times before.
It's just not fair....it's cruel beyond measure....and I don't even know if time can help.
posted by
MiaElla
on March 1, 2005 at 8:25 AM
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lovelymonk,
That's assuming there is a heaven and that's where he went.
It's funny... life to me is concrete and death is abstract. For those who are dead, it is the opposite.
posted by
MiaElla
on March 1, 2005 at 8:23 AM
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Thank you, MiaElla,
That's sweet of you to say.
posted by
TARZANA
on March 1, 2005 at 7:56 AM
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Mia,
I truly wish I could take away or at least ease your pain and sadness. Don't be ashamed of your tears...God is crying with you...And so am I. Your brother hasn't reallly left you...His spirit is forever with you. His is only resting now. You WILL see him again, and when you do, you'll be able to squeeze him for all eternity.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on March 1, 2005 at 7:48 AM
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Mia, I imagine the memories will always be there, and the pain will
come and go. I still grieve many who have come and gone from my life, but death seems to final and I have not lost anyone that close to me yet...grief is all part of healing, my friend...my thoughts and prayers continue for you.
posted by
Ariala
on March 1, 2005 at 7:46 AM
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posted by
lovelyladymonk
on March 1, 2005 at 7:44 AM
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Mia,
Don't be ashamed of your tears. God is crying with you. Your brother hasn't really left you...He's only resting now. You WILL see him again...and when you do, you'll be able to squeeze him for all eternity.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on March 1, 2005 at 7:44 AM
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YLF,
Here's to hoping he sticks around long enough to grow old with you.
posted by
MiaElla
on March 1, 2005 at 7:39 AM
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gyp,
I've always loved men...since I was very small...admired them...wanted to be like them...they seem so big and so strong when you are little. To this day, I still prefer the company of men, not in a sexual way, but in a comfortable, safe, secure way, I can relate sort of way. I was daddy's little girl. And my brother was my world, my universe, my inspiration, my voice of reason, my guide.
I am left with a sick mom, a broken hearted sister, and a niece I harldy see.
It's hard to see the good past all the sad. Sorrow is contagious, and hardly good company at all.
posted by
MiaElla
on March 1, 2005 at 7:38 AM
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I know how you feel. I know it too well, and too often, I fear my husband keeling over on me too.
posted by
TARZANA
on March 1, 2005 at 7:38 AM
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Mia...
Well, it could be everyone. At least you have your sister right? I'm sorry for your pain. I hope that you can start to focus on the good things you do have soon. And share them with that darling niece of yours. (Some of us don't have any good memories of family to sustain them at all)
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on March 1, 2005 at 7:33 AM
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