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MiaElla,
One step at a time, dear...
I wish I could give you more than that. You're in my thoughts...
posted by
myrrhage_
on February 21, 2005 at 4:23 AM
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Mia....
posted by
word.smith
on February 20, 2005 at 2:28 PM
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Miaella, I think we move through some cosmic fog of misfortune sometimes.
A few years ago I was arrested and my grand father died a couple of days later. I remember moping around work, waiting for the end of February. Other people put money in the coke machine and got what they wanted but when I put in my 50 cent nothing came out.
posted by
FreeManWalking
on February 20, 2005 at 1:02 AM
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Mia - you've had such sadness in your life recently. I hope there is a rainbow for you at the end of all the rain.
posted by
Ca88andra
on February 19, 2005 at 6:15 PM
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I was always told that it comes in threes
one gets to the point that there are no tears left. Hoping the next days are better for you.
posted by
StrickGold
on February 19, 2005 at 3:44 PM
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ThomasFranklin
It was raining the night he died and it rained the day of his funeral...not a normal rain for Northern Florida...but a bitter gray, cold rain...the kind that gets down deep into your bones...the kind that keeps you chilled for days.
posted by
MiaElla
on February 19, 2005 at 6:43 AM
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I lost friends myself.
I lost alot friends in the past 20 years. From sickness or alcoho. The one I lost I was in Love with. He died of Cancer. Its been about 14 years now. But I still miss him. I used to cry for years for him. But it will only hold their soul here. They have to move on as well. Only thing I can suggest is hold onto the happy memories and go forward. You'll get yourself sick. Your brother is there with you.
posted by
Experience
on February 19, 2005 at 6:35 AM
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Good connection using the umbrellas and funerals-about raining and pouring. Water from the sky and water from your eyes. Be strong.
posted by
ThomasFranklin
on February 19, 2005 at 12:49 AM
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MiaElla
You have my heartfelt condolences. Take care.
posted by
littlemspickles
on February 18, 2005 at 11:06 PM
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Mia
We're the ones grieving and missing those that went ahead of us. I hear One Sweet Day in my head and it comforts me, although it also makes me cry. You'll be together again, he's with you now. You've been given a larger share of grief with Joey too. You have my sympathy and I hope you find peace.
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on February 18, 2005 at 2:44 PM
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Mia,
I may see death more than you do, but I do not love, nor have any feelings whatsoever for the people who have died. You position is much more difficult!
Dealing with the living survivors is much harder than looking at the death. The dead are not in pain, but the survivors are. Like you..........I wish I could aenesthetize your pain, Sweetheart. Every day, my heart breaks for you all over again. 
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on February 18, 2005 at 2:03 PM
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what can i say that hasn't allready been said. Just trust it will get better.
posted by
SanitySlipping
on February 18, 2005 at 12:21 PM
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It's all too much sometimes...
...way too much.
posted by
ginnieb
on February 18, 2005 at 11:47 AM
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Mia,
I agree with you...It will take a long time for you to heal from your losses, but it will happen. My great-grandfather died nine years ago last month...and I still mourn him.
Peace be with you...I'm so sorry about Joey.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on February 18, 2005 at 10:10 AM
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void
lol...highly doubtful...I'm more likely to die than get married....ah...to each life its own catastrophe
posted by
MiaElla
on February 18, 2005 at 10:00 AM
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Geez, girl! Whatever happened to weddings? With that ethnic mix you pack,
there's bound to be one just around the corner... :-)
posted by
void-is
on February 18, 2005 at 9:56 AM
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Whammie
Thank you. I don't know how you do the job you do. You see death more than I do.
You must have a strong, loving, good heart. 
posted by
MiaElla
on February 18, 2005 at 9:47 AM
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Mia,
I wish that there was a potion to take away your grief, or even better, a time machine.
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on February 18, 2005 at 9:42 AM
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MiaElla--there are better days planned, for sure.
posted by
scriber
on February 18, 2005 at 9:21 AM
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gyp,
Thanks...but if not..I always have umbrellas...
posted by
MiaElla
on February 18, 2005 at 9:17 AM
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Scriber
Fate has been bitter with me.
posted by
MiaElla
on February 18, 2005 at 9:17 AM
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Mia... I hope the sun shines on you soon.
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on February 18, 2005 at 8:30 AM
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Fate is playing you hard...--love Scriber
posted by
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on February 18, 2005 at 8:29 AM
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