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thanks Dark_Dreamer

posted by _Symphony_ on February 7, 2005 at 5:07 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY ...
I am really sorry that you have to deal with this garbage ....

posted by Dark_Dreamer on February 7, 2005 at 4:50 AM | link to this | reply

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR WONDERFUL KIND
comments and thoughts and emails of support, I can not thank you all enough....you are all wonderful

posted by _Symphony_ on February 7, 2005 at 4:44 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony, I know how you feel. Take care. :)

posted by Kelli on February 7, 2005 at 4:25 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY - This is pitiful.   I'm so sorry that this is happening.   It is so sad when ones trust in people is ruined by one person.

posted by TAPS. on February 7, 2005 at 4:20 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony,
Stay strong....we are here for you!

posted by Original_Influence on February 6, 2005 at 8:07 PM | link to this | reply

symph,
so sorry to hear about this situation, I've been gone over the weekend but scriber filled me in on the details...do take care... red

posted by redlunar on February 6, 2005 at 6:49 PM | link to this | reply

Symph...

As usual when stuff blows, it blows right by me. But anyway, I hope this is sorted out soon. Nobody thinks they'll be harrassed for being here so it must be disturbing. BB had to go partly because of the same crazy antics. Be strong, hang in there.

posted by word.smith on February 6, 2005 at 4:01 PM | link to this | reply

LOL...I'm so sorry, Symphony!!  I hope you feel you can trust me.  The best thing you can do for yourself if the harassment continues is to contact some upper member of the blogit staff and report what's going on.  Best wishes.

posted by lovelyladymonk on February 6, 2005 at 3:05 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony,
I don't know why someone would treat you in that manner because you are such a great person. It really doesn't make sense. I hope things turn out right in the end. Try not to mind those kinds of people so much.

posted by poeticspoken on February 6, 2005 at 1:42 PM | link to this | reply

Symph,
I'm sorry someone is doing this to you. You are too kind of a person for this kind of treatment. There are unfortunately always going to be a few bad seeds in every crowd. I hope you can still trust that there still are people here that care about you and care how you feel.  

posted by SpitFire70 on February 6, 2005 at 1:31 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony, I'm so sorry someone is doing this to you. Harrassment is
not something that needs to be tolerated.  I hope you can get it settled and that things get back to normal. 

posted by Ariala on February 6, 2005 at 12:37 PM | link to this | reply

Screw 'em!

Continue to write for Ann and Ben, assuming the issue is not with them.  DO what you want, carry on like you did before this person, and eventually they'll get the message.  Reach out to me... I'm here.  :)

posted by RachelAnna on February 6, 2005 at 12:35 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony,
That just sucks.  I hope if enough people complain about these kinds of behaviors, Blogit will take action.  I've learned that even if you meet someone personally it pays to be caustious about giving out personal information, like dating history, family history, etc. it gets twisted into hurtful ways.  Be careful but don't give up hope on all of us. 

posted by Blanche. on February 6, 2005 at 12:25 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony
Most unfortunate! I don't know what's going on in here.....I hope things are resolved soon!

posted by Wildwoman_Laloba on February 6, 2005 at 10:36 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony, so sorry to hear that. Chin up girl! I'm sure you will be fine...

posted by Ca88andra on February 5, 2005 at 7:37 PM | link to this | reply

Watch what you say!
I understand you have to watch what you say. I was in that kind of situation myself afew times. But not all people are that way. I say things myself that maybe I should of not. I sometimes get caught up in the moment  of emotions. Nothing Personal. I hope I did not offend you. If so Im sorry.

posted by Experience on February 5, 2005 at 7:17 PM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY,
Thank you for confiding in me!  Follow my advice, Li'l Sis!

posted by WHAMENATOR on February 5, 2005 at 6:35 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony

You have enough to contend with just managing your life, being single and having two babies. Report people who are harassing you. Don't lose faith in all people. There are very good people on here. There are some terrible people on here. I have run into both. Be careful what information you give out to anyone that may harm you if used. Don't lie down and play dead. You have a right to be on here. Remember these people are still an unknown factor, you have not met them, heard them or anything of the sort. Be strong, you have lots of friends here.

posted by Justi on February 5, 2005 at 5:54 PM | link to this | reply

You know I am trying to
get things going that would rid blogit of the more unsavory element that seems to have popped up here. There is no excuse for personal attacks taking place here. If I can help drop me an email.

posted by Moondawg on February 5, 2005 at 5:03 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony,

We are sorry to read about this trouble. We have no idea about what's going on. Bringing this out in the open shows how brave you are. That's all we can diplomatically comment.

Ben.

posted by A-and-B on February 5, 2005 at 4:51 PM | link to this | reply

Hope this helps sweetie...

About the Block List

Adding a Blogit member to your block list ensures that they cannot contact you via the Blogit email forwarding system or add comments to your posts. You may add and remove members from your list at any time.

Using the Block List

To add a member to your block list, click their nickname below a post or comment and click "Add to Block List".

You may review your block list by going to My Account and clicking "View/edit block list". To remove a member from your block list, click "Remove" next to the member's name.

posted by Slendah on February 5, 2005 at 4:48 PM | link to this | reply

All I can think of is be strong, don't be intimidated

You are a really wonderful person and writer.

posted by scriber on February 5, 2005 at 4:43 PM | link to this | reply

MiLady,
Nice seeing you here.  Hope you're still here to see this.  Gracías, de mi alma y mi corazón for your kind comments on my blog.  Puedo andar con más coraje.        JJ

posted by Jack_Flash on February 5, 2005 at 4:43 PM | link to this | reply

Wow, I'm glad I don't really email anyone on Blogit anymore.  

posted by Holy_Grail on February 5, 2005 at 4:35 PM | link to this | reply

Hope this won't ruin Blogit for you Symphony. There are some creeps here, but they are outnumbered by truly good people you can trust.

posted by Katray2 on February 5, 2005 at 4:32 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony,

He's Baaack.  Did you take your picture off because of the jerk?  I hope not.  Don't get freaked, get a gun.

I just wanted to let you know that your About Me picture isn't coming up.     JJ

posted by Jack_Flash on February 5, 2005 at 4:29 PM | link to this | reply

I've had similar problems.....................mostly I've been phased out by someone, because I guess I wasn't willing to do what they wanted..........

posted by ladyofshalott on February 5, 2005 at 4:27 PM | link to this | reply

I think it's horrible that someone should make you lose your trust.
I'm sure there are steps you can take. Don't let one bad apple spoil the bunch.

posted by Slendah on February 5, 2005 at 4:25 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony,

I understand your feelings.  I think Kat was right about not putting up with harassment.  If you get them to dump a person like that, you do yourself and all of us a favor.  But don't let one bad apple ruin the whole barrel.  There are nut cases everywhere.  Hop in your car and drive around for a bit.  I promise that you will see a whole bunch more.  They scream at you and try to run you off the road because they blame you for some act of massive stupidity that they pulled, and that barely touches the surface of the things that you see.

Be cautious, but be enlightened.  If you let your view of Blogit and everyone here be ruined by a JackAss, the JackAss has won.  Your life is diminished by his/her behavior, all because you failed to exercise enlightened caution.  Don't let the assholes win.

But you can trust me, baby.  Where can I contact you tonight?  <---Test your enlightened caution on that.         Sincerely........  JJ

posted by Jack_Flash on February 5, 2005 at 4:22 PM | link to this | reply

Someone recently did this to me as well (although I never divulged anything
personal) and now writes very "cryptic" responses to me when I ask why this person is so hateful.  I wonder, is yours a female?

posted by Renigade on February 5, 2005 at 4:22 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony
That's not right....this place is going to hell

posted by ladyofshalott on February 5, 2005 at 4:13 PM | link to this | reply

Who do I contact about getting awful Blogit emails?
'Cause I never get any, except from Chris2303, and those are more 'lurid' than awful.

posted by mark2556 on February 5, 2005 at 4:07 PM | link to this | reply

How horrible! Don't tolerate harassment Symphony; there are rules against it. I can't imagine why you are being dissed for writing with Ann&Ben. Somebody's twisted jealousy? Well, whatever or whoever, report it to Blogit. Nobody has a right to control you - here or anywhere.

posted by Katray2 on February 5, 2005 at 4:04 PM | link to this | reply