Go to MY PERCEPTIVE REFLECTION!!
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- Go to YEAH!!!!!!! OVER MY FUCKING DEAD BODY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will from now on Original_Influence
thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 17, 2005 at 1:24 AM
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lol...Moondawg ..yes thats how we say it
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 17, 2005 at 1:23 AM
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thank you lovelyladymonk
for sharing, reading and your advice...its a great idea.....I think I will...thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 17, 2005 at 1:23 AM
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LOL Vibrance ...thanks
your poetry is amazing
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 17, 2005 at 1:22 AM
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thank you SpitFire70 for understanding
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 17, 2005 at 1:21 AM
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thanks ben
maybe he is......but then why would he want the children to meet her?....who knows
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 17, 2005 at 1:21 AM
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Symphony,
Hang up the phone when you hear his voice.....please! Do not think about it, just do it!
posted by
Original_Influence
on January 16, 2005 at 4:04 PM
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Quit letting him pull the
strings. Don't talk to him, there is no good coming of it. He knows how to play on you and is just being cruel. From now on when he or his mother call tell them to bugger off. Isn't that how you say it there.
posted by
Moondawg
on January 16, 2005 at 3:18 PM
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Hello Symphony...
PLEASE STOP TALKING TO HIM...Both of my sisters were in abusive relationships with men and I know the longer you let him get away with these kinds of things, the longer he'll expect to be allowed to do so. I know the laws in the UK are different, but can you at least get a restraining order against him and his mum? If so, please do so. Also, you should consider changing your phone number to an unpulished one if it's at all possible. Killing the man would not do you or your children any good...Hang in there. You know how to reach me if you need anything. I'll keep you and your children in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on January 16, 2005 at 2:25 PM
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hey I share that fantasy as I often exposed in my poetry
but stop talking to him!!! You are not friends. You give him the ground to drag you down. And get the visitations organized by the Court. And btw, he'll be an asshole to his new girlfriends too. Love, Vibrance
posted by
Vibrance
on January 16, 2005 at 1:43 PM
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Symph,
I really don't blame you for how this makes you feel, but just stand your ground. Remember, he's
her problem now.
posted by
SpitFire70
on January 16, 2005 at 1:29 PM
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Maybe you should not take anymore of his calls. It maybe a trick to try to change your heart, by threatening you with another woman. He's playing games, mind games too.
Steady on, lady.
Ben.
posted by
A-and-B
on January 16, 2005 at 1:27 PM
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ThomasFranklin ...at first I may have done something silly like that!
and yeah I did feel left out..LOL
but I will rise above it....she is welcome to him...I feel sorry for her if anything
take care and thanks for reading
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 12:53 PM
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Are you reacting to his actions? Does this mean that your gonna go get yourself a boyfriend because he has a girl? Kinda feel left behind? Don't get to emotional and do something crazy.
posted by
ThomasFranklin
on January 16, 2005 at 12:45 PM
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LOL...renigade3...thanks for sharing
no!..I never read it..but it sounds great
thanks for reading and commenting....
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 12:17 PM
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FYI
Did you ever read the story about the wife (or was it husband, don't remember) who killed her spouse by beating him over the head with a frozen piece of meat? Cops couldn't prove a thing because they couldn't find any evidence. She was eating roast and mashed potatoes when they showed up, though.
Good luck. And don't worry... In no time flat he'll be treating this new one like crap, too. Assholes don't discriminate.
posted by
Renigade
on January 16, 2005 at 12:12 PM
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The_Devil
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 10:30 AM
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I guess you're right.
posted by
Rupert_Bottom_Paddler
on January 16, 2005 at 10:15 AM
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thank you jamryn
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 10:13 AM
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The_Devil.........hehehe... hello!!
behaving?...wheres the fun in that?
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 10:13 AM
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That's OK too - pretend untill it becomes real
posted by
jamryn
on January 16, 2005 at 10:08 AM
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I hope you're behaving yourself, madam.
posted by
Rupert_Bottom_Paddler
on January 16, 2005 at 10:08 AM
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thank you so much jamryn
for all your support and encouragment
I am going to stay as strong as I can...and if not...then I shall pretend
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 10:06 AM
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thank you gypsyredhead33
I will do my best....I suppose thats all I can do
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 10:05 AM
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thank you KlaraRoberts
I will certainly try
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 10:04 AM
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thank you ever so much for being kind ,sweet scriber
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 10:04 AM
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Like a timex watch....
that keeps on ticking Your ex is a creep that keeps on ( trying ) to creep you out. I agree with the others Stay strong - get on with your own life and say
NO ! to all his requests
posted by
jamryn
on January 16, 2005 at 9:57 AM
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Symph..
I agree with you. No need to confuse the kids even more right now. Just breathe and take things one day at a time.
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on January 16, 2005 at 9:48 AM
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Believe it or not, Symph, this will pass. Try to stay calm in the meantime
posted by
KlaraRoberts
on January 16, 2005 at 9:40 AM
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Symp--I've followed the story and you deserve better. He's a creep who
will make the same mistake time after time if women permit. You are strong in mind and beautiful in body. You are a real winner. love scriber
posted by
scriber
on January 16, 2005 at 9:34 AM
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thank you so much for sharing your story kingmi ...I don't feel so alone
it makes it a lot easier knowing I am not the first to go through this and I wont be the last.....
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 9:13 AM
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Sym, once I had gone thoroghly through the stages of griving I was able
to detach. I was able to hang up and not feel that I had copped out. I did not deserve that kind of treatment, I was not going back to that kind of treatment, and I didn't feel like having my kids exposed to it either. Turns out aaaaaaai was right! Hang in there.
posted by
kingmi
on January 16, 2005 at 9:10 AM
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LOL....DivineDiva ..thats a great vision
thank you so much for all your support and encouragment. and kindness.....I really do appreciate it...I can not thank you enough
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 16, 2005 at 9:10 AM
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Don't give him any of your energy Symph
He's trying to mess with your mind Symph- he found out you were too strong to take his abuse so now he's trying to find another way to be abusive.
You are right to keep your children from his g'friend. It is too soon for them to have to deal with that. He doesn't sound stable let alone having a woman he's just met come into the children's lives.
Be strong Symph - you deserve much better than him. Don't let him see that his abusive talk is upsetting you - say "I have better things to do that listen to this crap" and put the phone down. He needs to learn that if he wants to talk to you, he will need to be respectful.
After you hang up on him you can visualize him sliding down a banister of razor blades into a vat of iodine. Oops that sounds mean doesn't it 
?
posted by
DivineDiva
on January 16, 2005 at 8:39 AM
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