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- Go to BROKEN NOSE AND RIB.....ON NEW YEARS EVE......I CAN'T PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thanks you so much Ca88andra
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2005 at 2:51 AM
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beachbelle..yes thats true
but I could say I am somebody ....when really I am not.......
LOL...ok I am too honest for my own good....been told that one many of time......I am me and I let everybody know it
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2005 at 2:50 AM
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Good luck with the diet! No advice for your situation with your sister - I'm an only child so I wouldn't know!
posted by
Ca88andra
on January 5, 2005 at 1:51 AM
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Symphony, that's because you put yourself on the page
posted by
beachbelle
on January 5, 2005 at 1:42 AM
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thanks for reading corycc321
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2005 at 1:10 AM
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Moondawg .....my sister is a lot older than me
and has picked on me always.....she hates me...so I will write to her instead
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2005 at 1:09 AM
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beachbelle ..its funny how so many people
know me when they have never met me
.......I am going to send her a card through.....she is not a very nice person and I mean that...she will scream at me for not ringing her....she never can see her own wrongs...so writing is safer...thank you...take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2005 at 1:08 AM
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I know RachelAnna
it is so hard....they are your family ....yet....you cant even talk to them....so sad
I hope you get things worked out for you
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2005 at 1:07 AM
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thanks ben!
yes I will take a look.... thanks for the invite....I be passing your way soon
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2005 at 1:05 AM
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I hope your mom is ok. You should talk to your sister. She's your sister.
posted by
corycc321
on January 4, 2005 at 5:40 PM
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I hope that you give your
sis a ring. At least you will know that you have shown concern for her and put the ball in her court. When there are problems in relationships one has to make that first move towards making it better, if the other one is not willing to meet half way after that move then it's not your fault, you tried.
posted by
Moondawg
on January 4, 2005 at 4:56 PM
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Symphony
You are very kind so it is in your nature to phone I expect. If you do keep it simple and don't get into the why's and wherefores.
posted by
beachbelle
on January 4, 2005 at 12:51 PM
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That sucks...
My brother and I don't have a bad relationship, we just don't really have one at all. When I do call his home I don't talk to him, I talk to his wife. It's really odd because for awhile when we were younger we were really close. Then, life happened and he's ended up really resentful toward me for things that were beyond my control.
I would like to have a good relationship with him because once our parents pass away (which hopefully isn't anytime soon) we're all we've got, you know? It's hard to deny the bond that is there whether we nurture it or not. But, right now we are so far away from being close it's not funny.
Maybe someday...
posted by
RachelAnna
on January 4, 2005 at 12:46 PM
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Do what you feel is the right thing.
Your nose has the right instincts.
Would you like to visit my tandem writing blogs?
I'll do the necessary editing before posting again.
Thanks.
Ben.
posted by
A-and-B
on January 4, 2005 at 12:44 PM
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LOL...David1Spirit
thanks for sharing....I bet you don't
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 12:33 PM
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I went thru pretty much the same thing
My brother and I haven't spoken but once in 5 years. He broke his foot around Thanksgiving, I still haven't called to offer my sympathy. Just couldn't bring myself to pick up the phone.
Maybe I'll wait till it fully heals (couple more weeks) and then offer my congrats huh? 
posted by
David1Spirit
on January 4, 2005 at 12:06 PM
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lol....MerryAnne
you feel that bad?
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 12:05 PM
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LOL! Symph! That guy at the end looks just like me today! LOL!
posted by
MerryAnne
on January 4, 2005 at 11:52 AM
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thanks for reading void-is
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:51 AM
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lol...MerryAnne
I have plenty of coffee
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:50 AM
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I hope she'll be fine. Ouch!
posted by
void-is
on January 4, 2005 at 11:49 AM
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Hey you don't have to thank me .... You could send me some coffee though... ;)
posted by
MerryAnne
on January 4, 2005 at 11:46 AM
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thanks for sharing MerryAnne
and thnaks for reading and commenting
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:39 AM
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When my friend and I had a falling out I did call her when her father died (I know it's not the same) just to give her my condolences. But that was it - I didn't offer anything, or make any promises. I had to still live with myself one way or the other - ya know?
posted by
MerryAnne
on January 4, 2005 at 11:33 AM
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thank you for reading beezus
sorry you can relate
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:25 AM
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i'm sorry
about yoru sister. i have a similar pain.
posted by
beezus
on January 4, 2005 at 11:20 AM
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thank you so much Oceandancer
I really hope to loose weight...I still have the comment you left me before....about dieting and excerciseing...I will go back and look at that for a reminder...thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:06 AM
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hey what? what scriber
dull moment!!! damn do you want my life..
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:05 AM
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thank you so much lovelyladymonk
I think I may send her a get well card...and just sign it to know I acknowledge her....but I am not going over old ground because it makes me feel bitter...thank you so much for reading and commenting
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:04 AM
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you know your probably right Tapsel-T
it certainly does make sense......maybe a note...I will send her...but I wont mention nothing else
thank you so much for reading and for your advice
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 11:02 AM
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Sounds like you're doing peachy.
Sometimes it's best to cut off relations with the orrible relations.
Keep eating that breakfast! You're likely to lose some weight just by doing that. :-)
posted by
Oceandancer
on January 4, 2005 at 10:56 AM
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Symp--never a dull moment, hey what? good luck to the family. love s.
posted by
scriber
on January 4, 2005 at 10:54 AM
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Hi Symphony...
I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you. Just read your latest blog. If your sister doesn't treat you kindly, perhaps it's best not antagonize yourself. Her feelings are her own, but that doesn't mean you should feel guilty for not phoning her. God bless. Hope your Mum's surgery goes well for her. I'll say a prayer.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on January 4, 2005 at 10:50 AM
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SYMPH - It is the battling with yourself that is hurting you. From what you say, she may not care one way or the other and not even expect to hear from you. But, you care! You really do care about her and you care about doing what is right and good. That is why your mind and emotions are keeping you feeling guilty. Make yourself feel better--send her a little love note or just a quick call to say I love you. No need to apologize or go into excuses for not doing it earlier--just a quickie. LOL
posted by
TAPS.
on January 4, 2005 at 10:48 AM
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thanks Gheeghee
you know thats not a bad idea.about the card....maybe I could do that.....I will think on that...thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 10:30 AM
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thank you so much KlaraRoberts
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 10:29 AM
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wow that must have been a horrible blow to her gypsyredhead33
how sad and awful!!!....
I don't want to call her but I feel like I should and thats what I hate...I battle with my guilt....because I know its the right thing to do in the fact asking if she is ok....but I am very stubborn too and I know that she is in the wrong so I feel why should I budge
if she was not hurt I would never call her...so maybe that answers my question
her friend told we she was ok...so I think thats enough...thanks for reading.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 10:28 AM
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thanks roofpig13
yes thats why I think I have put so much weight on...because I skipped breakfast and lunch to do other things...then snacked on crap throughout the day.......so it was a little different eating proper today...I know its going to be hard getting use to...but I want to and going to........hopefully
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 4, 2005 at 10:25 AM
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hi symph... It's so hard, I've got a sister too...we didn't talk for 5 yrs!
recently, though, like over the past 8-10 months or so, we've been slowly communicating, and we're getting along much better now. Maybe just send her a card for now. hope everything else is all well, hon! ~
gg~
posted by
Gheeghee
on January 4, 2005 at 9:57 AM
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I do hope everything does work out eventually for you and your sis, Symph!
And I'm happy to hear your mom is doing better. Good luck to you on the diet!
posted by
KlaraRoberts
on January 4, 2005 at 9:33 AM
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Symph my favorite wood nymph...
scared the hell out of me thinking you hurt yourself! I'm sorry it was still in the family. It's ok not to call if you feel it won't help anything. I found out my sister's hubby told her on christmas day that he has a girl 5 months preggers and this is while the girl's hubby is in Iraq! I mark it down as the cosmo's getting her back for stating that I was a failure because I didn't save my marriage... Just be your usual sweet self. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if you still did check on her.
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on January 4, 2005 at 9:14 AM
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Good luck on your diet! Eating breakfast is the hardest thing for me because I like to sleep late in the morning and skip breakfast, but when you don't eat in the morning it screws up your metabolism. Not good for trying to lose weight!
posted by
roofpig
on January 4, 2005 at 9:00 AM
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