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Spitfire,
I think that assessment is 100% correct.
posted by
Julia.
on December 22, 2004 at 2:09 PM
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Quirky, when you said,
" I believe that in order to see a reflection without, one must first see it within. So the fact that I was able to feel his love at all, meant that I had finally found some love for myself." It makes me think that he is/was not "there" yet for himself.
posted by
SpitFire70
on December 21, 2004 at 5:24 PM
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Vibrance,
Lovely to see you again...where have you been hiding??
posted by
Julia.
on December 21, 2004 at 10:44 AM
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Dave Cryer, thanks!
...And I'll be ready for it!!
posted by
Julia.
on December 21, 2004 at 10:43 AM
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Pickles,
Thanks for the lovely compliment.
posted by
Julia.
on December 21, 2004 at 10:42 AM
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good resolutions and GREAT Writing!!
Love, Vib
posted by
Vibrance
on December 21, 2004 at 5:39 AM
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One day, dignity will come hand in hand with love.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on December 21, 2004 at 3:30 AM
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you know quirky -
you really have a way with words - easy to connect with in an instant!
posted by
littlemspickles
on December 21, 2004 at 3:25 AM
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HolyGrail,
Thank you for reading tonight!
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 8:12 PM
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Alf,
Thanks for all of that. You are a truly exceptional person. When you are ready to pen that experience, I will read it.
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 8:11 PM
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loanlady,
what an exceptional comment--thanks you very much for taking the time to pen that!
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 8:07 PM
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Klara,
Thanks for reading, and for your wonderful compliments.
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 8:06 PM
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Quirky
Again, I could relate to so much of this.
posted by
Holy_Grail
on December 20, 2004 at 7:33 PM
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Quirky...
This series is perhaps the most well written piece I have come across on blogit. It doesn't hurt that the content was also riveting. I am glad you used this experience for self discovery. Many would have let it destroy them. You have made me consider posting my account of love gone wrong and what I learned...I don't think I am ready to though. Truly exceptional.
posted by
A_Norseman
on December 20, 2004 at 7:19 PM
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After reflection and introspection the mirror says: You are a person deserving of great love, you have the capacity to truely give the same. It does not matter that he was an inferior man of poor quality, sometimes our viewfinder gets clouded by love and hormones and chemicals and magic that is so more powerful than we understand when we are in it. Most of all you have to come out from the cave a woman dazzling in the light ready for another one true love. He will come, he may not be on the horizon today but you have to burn down the iron box around your heart with hot molten fire to be taken again and accept the world as offering something good. Many people never even have an experience meeting a soulmate, they are to afraid when the one stands near them. You have had a glimpse now ready yourself for a better man
posted by
the-loanlady
on December 20, 2004 at 5:35 PM
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Wow, Quirks. Such moving insights into your soul, with some of the best
writing I've ever seen. Moving beyond measure.
posted by
KlaraRoberts
on December 20, 2004 at 5:00 PM
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Ca88,
Maybe we are actually the same person?
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 4:01 PM
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beach,
none are needed, but thanks for reading.
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 4:01 PM
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Quirky - you could be writing about me in this post....
posted by
Ca88andra
on December 20, 2004 at 2:33 PM
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Excellent Quirky
I am unqualified to offer words of wisdom
posted by
beachbelle
on December 20, 2004 at 11:14 AM
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Quirky...
You are very welcome :)
posted by
SincerityAnna
on December 20, 2004 at 10:05 AM
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SincerityAnna,
Thanks very much for reading today.
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 10:02 AM
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Quirky...
Wow, that really struck a sensitive spot in my soul...been there, done that but not concerning a love...great post...very well written :)
posted by
SincerityAnna
on December 20, 2004 at 9:54 AM
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void-is,
LOL. Poor judge.
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 9:46 AM
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Here, here! And the judge too... Thanks Quirky! ;-)
posted by
void-is
on December 20, 2004 at 9:38 AM
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void-is,
but it (and you) sound positive to me, so screw "the jury," I'll bet that it was done well.
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 9:35 AM
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very true, Quirky! I've often said...
that it was the time I fell apart and thus got the chance to put myself together again...my way... The jury is still out on how well I've done that... :-)
posted by
void-is
on December 20, 2004 at 9:24 AM
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void-is,
Being in the cave can actually be a positive experience if you approach it right...and don't stay in too long, hehe.
posted by
Julia.
on December 20, 2004 at 9:18 AM
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I hear you...
spent a good couple of years in the cave myself...after a run in with some past life ghost...dark...dark times...
posted by
void-is
on December 20, 2004 at 8:42 AM
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