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because I'm so bored with books right if I picked up one...
I would drop like a sack of sledge hammers.
posted by
amazman
on November 28, 2004 at 5:27 PM
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beachbelle
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 4:02 PM
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Ca88andra
I would only its 12am, but I am going to the cemetary tomorrow
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 4:02 PM
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AnnAndBenjamin
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 4:00 PM
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tbgroucho
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 4:00 PM
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Symphony
Ca88andra is right. I agree you should make a little outing on his behalf - doesn't have to be anything mega. Sorry to suggest you should go out in the cold - put on a warm coat - but sometimes it is best. Take care
posted by
beachbelle
on November 28, 2004 at 2:27 PM
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Symphony, instead of staying in and at the computer, why don't you do something in his honor? Visit one of his favourite places or plant a tree or something.
posted by
Ca88andra
on November 28, 2004 at 2:16 PM
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The first few years are the hardest.
When we can't cling to humans,
we can try clinging to God and His promises.
Ann
posted by
A-and-B
on November 28, 2004 at 2:13 PM
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tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on November 28, 2004 at 12:38 PM
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Tapsel-T ...thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 11:23 AM
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DivineDiva ,thank you so much
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 11:23 AM
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Anniversaries of sad times can really be devastating, SYMPH -
Especially the first anniversary and sometimes, the second can be the worst of all. I don't know why but be prepared for it to really hit you next year. After that, things gradually become easier with time. I'm really sorry that this is a very hard time for you. Lots of {{{HUGS}}}
posted by
TAPS.
on November 28, 2004 at 11:15 AM
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Cherish yourself today Symph,
Try and do something for yourself if you can today - like going to the bathroom without both kids right beside you ?? 
Wrap yourself and the kids, if they'll let you, in a warm cover, and snuggle. There is no feeling so sweet as cuddling with a child.
Your brother is there with you Symph, and he'll be wrapped up with you and the children, keeping you close to him.
posted by
DivineDiva
on November 28, 2004 at 11:12 AM
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scriber, yes they were many many good times
stored and treasured in my heart......thank you sweetie
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 10:12 AM
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symp--think of the good times; there were good times.
posted by
scriber
on November 28, 2004 at 10:10 AM
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lol. Tanoolicious
yes it did...and I cant get back on....I sent you an
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 9:44 AM
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Yup I know where you are........ and ahhh can I say OOPS??? hehehe i think when i sent you the video online it sort of shut down the program?? sowwwy!
posted by
Tanoolicious
on November 28, 2004 at 9:40 AM
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thank you sarooster for understanding
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 9:36 AM
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Tanoolicious ..lol.....you got me
them little cats eyes are so cute...I want to take them home....im staying here ..if you want me..... you know where to find me..................aaaaaaaaahhhhhh so cute!
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 9:35 AM
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Losing someone so close to you is devastating.
I guess you can blog and read and do other things that take your mind away from him. Maybe you can do something with your kids. That might help ease your mind. Tomorrow you can give your brother a proper memorial and grieve then. For today, try to stay positive and occupy your mind with things that you really enjoy.
posted by
sarooster
on November 28, 2004 at 9:34 AM
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Okies ill make you laugh! Can I stand on my head??? No not good enough ,you will just pretend you dont know me... 
posted by
Tanoolicious
on November 28, 2004 at 9:32 AM
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Tanoolicious thank you sweetie
you are the best......but please make me laugh
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 9:27 AM
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RachelAnna I know
but today I just want to switch off
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 9:24 AM
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thanks Ariala my wonderful friend!
you don't happen to have or know of something funny to read do you?.....I so want to stop thinking
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 28, 2004 at 9:23 AM
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Sym, Im so so so sorry for your loss.... I know nothing i could possibly say could help the way youre feeling. Its so hard, yes, let it all out, cry as much as you want, its so painful to lose a sibling... im here for you **hugs**
posted by
Tanoolicious
on November 28, 2004 at 9:23 AM
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Let yourself feel and talk about it...
It's the only way to sort of move past it...
posted by
RachelAnna
on November 28, 2004 at 9:23 AM
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Symphony, wow...I imagine this must be a really tough day for you.
You're in my prayers, my friend.
posted by
Ariala
on November 28, 2004 at 9:19 AM
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