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posted by
LadyKenobi
on December 9, 2004 at 11:18 AM
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It was earlier tonight....lemme resend...
posted by
Temple
on November 29, 2004 at 11:47 PM
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it didn't make it
posted by
FreeManWalking
on November 29, 2004 at 11:45 PM
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yeah, sweetie, I got it....wrote you back already
to your work address....
posted by
Temple
on November 29, 2004 at 11:44 PM
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did you get my email
posted by
FreeManWalking
on November 29, 2004 at 11:40 PM
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It's so nice to see you here, Billy, I wish you would stay.
Disillusionment week....hmmmm....me thinks you should write me back. Sometimes old demons get in the way in new relationships, and all this emotion can be scary. You know what I'm talking aboot. ;) He's good, we're good. Complicated yes, but we're taking the steps...making a beginning. Take care, sweet boy. I'm worried about you.
posted by
Temple
on November 28, 2004 at 12:01 PM
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It's so funny you say that Jimmy....
I say that so much....give it to the universe, trust in the process....that now people say it back to me. It's true, but sometimes I'm like...hey, fuck the process, alright? ;) I think sometimes it does work out like we envision it in the end, that's the beauty in vision. Not always, but sometimes. Sometimes it's better, sometimes it's worse. But you're right, it's always as it should be....I can live with that. All we have is the moment, and happiness in it. The lessons bring more of that if we let them. I guess you are trusting your own process right about now.
posted by
Temple
on November 28, 2004 at 11:56 AM
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Rach, you have a great outlook yourself, doll....
The questions are what help me keep centered....make sure I don't forget what I'm doing. I think it's important for us to always keep asking ourselves the hard ones. Thanks for the faith and support, little sis. Whether things work out or not, I'm always glad I can say that I didn't get in the way....that I wasn't the reason they didn't. It's the hard way, but that's where the good stuff is.
posted by
Temple
on November 28, 2004 at 11:51 AM
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sorry to hear about you man but I'm glad you are happy...
this must be disillusionment week. I know I've had my tough moments too. The hardest part is when we feel alone but thats the person we have to live with the most.
posted by
FreeManWalking
on November 28, 2004 at 2:00 AM
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You know the routine...
trust in the process
Temple, it will all work out like it is supposed to in the end...note that I did not say how you envision it, it never does, but sometimes it turns out better than we could have hoped, and even when it doesn't, there are lessons there...you know this, give yourself permission to be happy...
posted by
jimmy68
on November 27, 2004 at 9:57 PM
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You've got a great outlook
despite your questions. I really envy that. I hope things work out. And if they don't, I know that you are able to let go and regain control.
posted by
RachelAnna
on November 27, 2004 at 2:16 PM
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Hollee, I'm glad this was something you could relate to.
I think we all can relate to it a bit from one time or another. The struggle, unfortunately, is where we grow and learn...hopefully there is a reward to come from that. I hope all goes well for you in your situations. Stop by anytime and call me anything you want to. ;)
posted by
Temple
on November 27, 2004 at 1:46 PM
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Wildwoman...
How funny....that last comment was at the exact same time. Yes, sometimes we to just need to let things be a bit and things become clear. Saying yes....it's the key to having what we want. We get hurt, too, but that's where the good stuff is. No problem with the minor mixup...just step away from the whiskey....lol :)
posted by
Temple
on November 27, 2004 at 1:44 PM
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Bella, well, I'm not sure what happened....
But they liked the post. :) I'l respond to comment appropriately later, I just had to give them a hard time. :)
posted by
Temple
on November 27, 2004 at 1:30 PM
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LOL
sorry again
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on November 27, 2004 at 1:30 PM
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Temple
I think they were - perplexed
posted by
beachbelle
on November 27, 2004 at 1:13 PM
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Is Taps here? ;)
You guys been drinkin'?
posted by
Temple
on November 27, 2004 at 1:10 PM
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Taps
Sometimes we just need to take a break from the struggle and things become clear. Your journey is good. I like your ending quote, we do just need to say yes.
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on November 27, 2004 at 7:31 AM
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The best thing of all is that your happiness is up to you
posted by
beachbelle
on November 27, 2004 at 4:25 AM
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Taps - this post really touched me - I am going through much the same thing
and it is good to read that someone else also struggles, though I wouldn't wish the strugjle on anyone.
Thanks dear.
Here's to life ...and love.
posted by
Hollee
on November 27, 2004 at 3:43 AM
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I am so incredibly bad with relationships that I won't even presume to give you advice. You have taken such incredible steps in your life that you constantly amaze me. I wish I had even a small part of your positive attitude to life. I think you will find the path that will take you on the next part of your journey.
posted by
Ca88andra
on November 27, 2004 at 3:24 AM
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