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tbgroucho

yeah your right!

your too set in your ways

posted by _Symphony_ on November 25, 2004 at 3:41 AM | link to this | reply

jollyjeff
thank you so much, your making me blush

posted by _Symphony_ on November 25, 2004 at 3:41 AM | link to this | reply

wow RachelAnna
that sounded like it was meant to be my comment ...lol........thanks for relating...no actually I mean sorry for relating.....its nice to know I am not the only one though, thank you for sharing............take care...

posted by _Symphony_ on November 25, 2004 at 3:40 AM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious

posted by _Symphony_ on November 25, 2004 at 3:38 AM | link to this | reply

KlaraRoberts
yes thats good advice......thank you

posted by _Symphony_ on November 25, 2004 at 3:38 AM | link to this | reply

Raven_Dark
thank you so much for reading and sharing

posted by _Symphony_ on November 25, 2004 at 3:37 AM | link to this | reply

MerryAnne

posted by _Symphony_ on November 25, 2004 at 3:37 AM | link to this | reply

symphony

you can't change me. 

i've tried! tg

posted by tbgroucho on November 24, 2004 at 7:08 PM | link to this | reply

You're welcome Symphony
I hadn't seen the picture of your daughter before. I see beauty runs in the family:)

posted by jollyjeff on November 24, 2004 at 4:05 PM | link to this | reply

I can totally relate..

Really, I have NO friends where I live, and I've been here for two years.  I don't know anyone here, and sometimes I wish I had a girlfriend to call up and invite over to talk to, to hang out with, whatever.

But, I have to settle for my long distance friends.  I don't really feel like I have a whole lot to offer a friend.  I am very into my family, my writing--things that don't involve a friend.

And, I've been burned too many times by "friends" that I don't really know how to trust women.  Ugh...

posted by RachelAnna on November 24, 2004 at 3:28 PM | link to this | reply

***hugs*** Sym

posted by Tanoolicious on November 24, 2004 at 11:58 AM | link to this | reply

Hi Symph. I'm a single mom, and also a workaholic. It is difficult for me
to make time to develop friendships too. I know what you're saying. You should however, schedule at least "outings" as they will take you away from your worries for a while. I regularly schedule these for the sake of my own sanity!

posted by KlaraRoberts on November 24, 2004 at 11:50 AM | link to this | reply

I understand you feelings!

My social life is zero at this point. lol.   I think being social is important even if you have to force yourself to be social a little bit,  it will pay off.  It was great reading your post and your kids are beautiful!  

posted by Narcosis on November 24, 2004 at 11:38 AM | link to this | reply

I;m just saying you deserve friends
who can give you REAL hugs and kisses.

posted by MerryAnne on November 24, 2004 at 11:35 AM | link to this | reply

MerryAnne
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnoooooooooooooooo, please don't say that, it could break my heart, I do know what you mean about going movies with friends and so on

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 11:23 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony,
you know I adore you, but you really deserve to have "real" friends. Somene to go to the movies with, have coffee with, gossip about the neighbors with, commiserate about the horrid school play costumes with. We are good substitutes - but we are really only so many characters on the screen.

posted by MerryAnne on November 24, 2004 at 11:20 AM | link to this | reply

beachbelle

lol....yes thats true...they wont stand a chance....

thank you beachbelle, but it is so much easier being myself here

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 10:55 AM | link to this | reply

sarooster

thank you so much thats right, we are like a community of friends because we care about eachother so much and as you say come to know and like.

thank you

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 10:53 AM | link to this | reply

symphony
How does a "real" friend stand a chance among all your "virtual" friends?
Oceandancer is right. Friendships develop. The key is to let them.
Be yourself just as you do here.. ;-). Take care.

posted by beachbelle on November 24, 2004 at 10:48 AM | link to this | reply

We do all seem to be friends here!

Most of us are concerned about the people we have come to know and like. I think you should take a hard look at yourself and really find who you are. When you are satisfied with that and the direction you want to go then you can work on things such as friends. Keep plugging away though.

posted by sarooster on November 24, 2004 at 10:47 AM | link to this | reply

katray
sorry, I forgot to say...yes I agree......people here relate and understand me .......and I love you all

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 10:42 AM | link to this | reply

katray, thank you so much

you are wondeful

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 10:40 AM | link to this | reply

Oceandancer, thank you so much I never thought of it like that
you are great

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

Great, thought provoking post Symphony
Amazing - often I feel like friends here understand and relate on a much deeper, real level than those around me physically. I just had lunch with a casual friend and it was all light and fluffy, fun yet not the same as the bonds on Blogit. Take care and have a lovely week-end friend.

posted by Katray2 on November 24, 2004 at 10:24 AM | link to this | reply

Hey, Symphony!
Yer doing grand. It's so great you're here!

They say it's more difficult to make friends as you get older, but not impossible. You'll find them when you least expect, I think. Sometimes they sneak up on you over time, and suddenly you realize, Hey! This person is my friend.

posted by Oceandancer on November 24, 2004 at 10:13 AM | link to this | reply

David1Spirit , thank you.....
yes it would be very awsome.........I hope one day that could come true....have a blogit reunited...lol...something like that

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 9:24 AM | link to this | reply

roofpig13 ......lol
well, if you ever get to pass by.....think of me.....I loved to meet you

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 9:23 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala, thank you so much for your wonderful friendship! and everything

posted by _Symphony_ on November 24, 2004 at 9:22 AM | link to this | reply

You have plenty of friends here!

Someday we may all meet somewhere; wouldn't that be awesome!  

posted by David1Spirit on November 24, 2004 at 9:04 AM | link to this | reply

I'd love to meet you in person, Sym... but I don't think I'm coming to the UK anytime soon.  Even though I'd love to one of these days.

posted by roofpig on November 24, 2004 at 8:51 AM | link to this | reply

Sometimes I think my "virtual friends" are more real than my real physical
friends.  I hope you find what you're needing in your "real" world...meanwhile, we're all here for you and love you!

posted by Ariala on November 24, 2004 at 8:39 AM | link to this | reply