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I will get up when I want.......you hear me!............hehehehe

posted by _Symphony_ on November 10, 2004 at 8:54 AM | link to this | reply

xandri

thank you ever so much for your wonderful comment and for all the advice....but I have done it all before...my mum is very set in her ways....if you don't agree with her then she wont speak to you and hold a grudge......we have had many falling outs over it, we spoke about it and she changed for a bit, but now as I got older I realise she will never change...so I have to accept her for who she is...even if I don't like her all the time

thank you so much take care and enjoy your day

posted by _Symphony_ on November 10, 2004 at 8:53 AM | link to this | reply

Jay9 don't!

you will make me cry.......I am going to miss reading you and your comments and..........everything Cry 




everybody is leaving it is so sad

take care........please stay in touch

posted by _Symphony_ on November 10, 2004 at 8:50 AM | link to this | reply

Ca88andra .......lol
go ahead....rant away....I be listening

posted by _Symphony_ on November 10, 2004 at 8:49 AM | link to this | reply

redlunar lol
thanks for understanding

posted by _Symphony_ on November 10, 2004 at 8:49 AM | link to this | reply

hi Symph--let's see where were we, oh yeah "get up that's an order."..

posted by scriber on November 10, 2004 at 4:26 AM | link to this | reply

It's time to have that talk
Hey your an adult now. Her job is done, and she obviously did a wonderful job, as you seem like a very balanced and interesting person. Maybe it's time to take her out for a nice lunch and have a talk about what a good job she's done ... and suggest that now it may be time to change your relationship, and that she needs to start treating you as an equal, and accept that your going to make your own mistakes ... but not to worry because you have inherited that wonderful judgment from her....
Sounds scary I know, but once it's out there, things will get better. She may be a little skitish for a time ... But you deserve respect and you have the right to ask for it!

posted by xandri on November 9, 2004 at 10:43 PM | link to this | reply

Going to miss reading you!

 

posted by Jay9 on November 9, 2004 at 10:10 PM | link to this | reply

Don't get me started on my parents....

posted by Ca88andra on November 9, 2004 at 5:22 PM | link to this | reply

Symph - it is a drag having a domineering mother, I have one too. I think
it does set us up to rebel against authority: all the better to produce a strong woman!  red

posted by redlunar on November 9, 2004 at 5:17 PM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious

I know  Cry....I want you ro stay too...................this damn time zone thingy!

but you must get some rest...so take care and sleep well 




I was going to say sleep like a baby...but whoever came up with that stupid saying should be shot!

like a baby sleeps..............sheesh

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 1:17 PM | link to this | reply

MerryAnne
lol...........now yeah I can agree on that too.............its ok for me to boss others around but not ok for them to me....hehehe

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 1:16 PM | link to this | reply

Bye Symph..... I DONT WANNA GOOOOOO!! I wanna stay and play!

*sniff* bye bye :o(

posted by Tanoolicious on November 9, 2004 at 1:11 PM | link to this | reply

Symph,
I am stubborn like that. I hate it when my husband tells me what to do - but that doesn't stop me from ordering him around... LOL!

posted by MerryAnne on November 9, 2004 at 1:08 PM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious thanks for the chat
wow that time for you already.................get some sleep and sweet dreams...and Iwill have my fingers crossed for you to have some good ideas for your boss..................take care and night night

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 1:07 PM | link to this | reply

ouch..... it hurt and you got another one? You brave symphy you!!!!  Im gonna get another one.... cant decide yet!!!

Symph im off to bed... its 1:06 am... OY!!! Cross your fingers for me, i have an idea for my boss that i hope they will like.... ill tell you about it tommorow and show it to you MUAHAHAHA!

Gniteeeeeeeee   *hugs*

posted by Tanoolicious on November 9, 2004 at 1:04 PM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious

yes it was so painful...but it was my first....so I was well you know..lol.....it is right at the top of my thigh and never imagined it could hurt so much and when I felt I was going a little funny...I told the man and he asked If I wanted him to stop...I said no if I faint carry on....and he did...I am so glad of that...hehhe

I have 2 on either side of  my shoulders with my childrens name on them which never hurt at all...............1 on my ankle which did hurt also..........but I could tolerate it...and then I was stupid enough to have another one on my other thigh...but amazinling I was a lot stronger this time round..........lol

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 1:02 PM | link to this | reply

omg you passed out?? Wow was it that painful???? Ok no tattoo on my thigh then.,.... maybe lower back....  or above the butt.......   hehehehehe

Oh yes if we wanted to, we could RULE THE WORLD! muahahahaa

posted by Tanoolicious on November 9, 2004 at 12:52 PM | link to this | reply

AnnAndBenjamin
thanks ben

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 12:28 PM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious ...........LOL.............

thank you so much for sharing..............I use to have bright bars for my eyebrows but now I have a see through one....which is hardley noticable................so go for it..............the needle scared the hell out of me for it though as it was massive.....I changed my mind and left....then 2 hours went back trying to be brave..........as for the tattoos.....my first one I had on my thigh and my gosh it was so painfull I passed out and he carried on...thank god.......lol

I am so scared of needles............but then after giving birth to two children I don't think anthing can be any worse..........lol........so now I have more.............hehehe

 

your hair sounds great.......yes I defiently thing we are erm er.............

think of us meeting and going out.....wow how dangerous...............hehehe Thumbs Up 




posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 12:27 PM | link to this | reply

Do only the necessary,

leave off the rest,

if they are for the luxury.

Ben

posted by A-and-B on November 9, 2004 at 12:19 PM | link to this | reply

hehehehe Symph, like me!!!  I wanted to get my eyebrow pierced but I thought that they wouldnt hire me for having a pierced eyebrow... but I might get it done in the summer!!   Almost a year ago i went on vacation back home with my sis, and came back with a tattoo and a nose ring...  in the summer i cane back with the nose ring removed and pierced the other side of my nose!! hahahaha

I'm getting a few more tattoos... one on my ankle and one that wont show  for the special ... LMDAO imagine it says "CONGRATULATIONS, YOU MADE IT!"

ooooh bright red?? Cool!!!  I had blonde hair, black hair, blue black hair, reddish, purpley red, light brown, and my original hair color is light brown and gets blonde streaks from the sun.... heheh are we on a road to self destruction??? LOL!

OOOOH 5 tats!! Thats so cool!!! I overcame my fear of needles by getting a tattoo... i used to burst into tears when i saw an injection, so i got the tattoo done and didnt make a sound.... only facial expressions and squished my cousins hand beyond repair!!  

WE IS SO EVIL!

posted by Tanoolicious on November 9, 2004 at 12:19 PM | link to this | reply

scriber
I will do more than that when I get my hands on you

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 12:11 PM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious

lol.....................exactley the same as me.................I had my eye brow pierced a long long time ago in my rebel stage...my mother nearly passed out....even dying my hair bright red....remembering my hair is pretty much pure blond........hehehe.....another shock for her.............

and tattoos wow...I have 5 tatoos.....only smallish ones not in obvious places...but again she hated it and I loved it................... Evil 


thanks for sharing


posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 12:11 PM | link to this | reply

Symp--don't you dare jump my bones...

posted by scriber on November 9, 2004 at 12:05 PM | link to this | reply

Sym you remind me of meeeee!    Ill do something when i am ready!

Sym, I absolutely HATE anyone telling me what to do and do the opposite most of the time.....   no way, you cannot get a tattoo.... Tania gets a tatto....  I did it for me and not to spite anyone but my parents sometimes think i did it to bug them... ah yes i wil ink my shoulder forever for my parents !!  *snort*

posted by Tanoolicious on November 9, 2004 at 11:59 AM | link to this | reply

scriber

right you have had it I am coming to get you this instance!

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 11:56 AM | link to this | reply

Passionflower

lol..................I agree I would rather learn from my own mistakes for myself...well er erm actually I have so far....hehehe..........oh I SO miss your honest comments............take care

 

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 11:55 AM | link to this | reply

hugz_n_kisses
thank you very much

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 11:53 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY--keep your hands off of me...

posted by scriber on November 9, 2004 at 11:53 AM | link to this | reply

theinnkeepersdaughter

lol............I was a waitress and I did not go down to well either...........I did some bad things.....must'nt share..........hehehe

thanks for reading

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 11:53 AM | link to this | reply

RachelAnna
lol...........yes I suppose thats true..............glad your feeling better

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 11:52 AM | link to this | reply

scriber
lol..................maybe.....what you have in mind

posted by _Symphony_ on November 9, 2004 at 11:51 AM | link to this | reply

Sometimes our elders have great wisdom to share with us that will keep us from making the same mistakes they made when they were our age. But mostly, it's just bullshit!

posted by Passionflower on November 9, 2004 at 11:45 AM | link to this | reply

do what you wwant indeed, its your life, go for what you want xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

posted by hugz_n_kisses on November 9, 2004 at 11:43 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony....
I have the same problem.  I worked in a cafeteria.  A man asked me to bring him his coffee and I said "What do I look like, your waitress?"  I did not do very well there...

posted by theinnkeepersdaughter on November 9, 2004 at 11:38 AM | link to this | reply

I think everyone is like this to a certain extent...
We like the idea of free will.  But, most of us have to do stuff we are told.  Not me of course, but most of us.  :)

posted by RachelAnna on November 9, 2004 at 11:36 AM | link to this | reply

Symp--if i tell you NOT to do something will yu do it?

posted by scriber on November 9, 2004 at 11:32 AM | link to this | reply