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Wham- I think that's what goes through all females' mind the first time!!
I remember thinking how uncomfortable it was and wondering what the hell was the big deal? Are we
doing this right?!
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 9, 2004 at 5:42 PM
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Hollee, I guess he assumed you wouldn't know he was that awful
with nothing to compare him to. That's nice of his new wife to say he still is awful!! Geez!
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 9, 2004 at 5:40 PM
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Poor Hollee! SpitFire...I remember the day....after school we hitchhiked
to his house, and his parents were not at home. He had a squeaky twin bed, and I remember thinking, "This is what people are so crazy about? It kinda hurts. Oh, well, Duffy seems to be enjoying it." In no time at all, I was loving it, too!
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on November 9, 2004 at 6:12 AM
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Lost it to my first husband on our wedding night--took five tries--it was
awful--he was awful--still is awful from what his new wife says. I can't stand that he was the man with whom I shared the big event. Gives me chills to this day.
posted by
Hollee
on November 9, 2004 at 6:06 AM
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That's awesome, Whammie. I had the same experience and
in fact, the same age. I really don't regret it either.
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 9, 2004 at 1:32 AM
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I was very lucky in this....I gave my Virginity to my first love
for Christmas. I was only fifteen, and I look at my niece and realize that she is going to be fourteen.
It was puppy love, but love nonetheless, and so at least that made it special. Better than losing it to just anybody.
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on November 9, 2004 at 12:54 AM
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That's okay, Alf. I'll go delete the dups.
That happens sometimes; never figured out why!
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 8, 2004 at 6:08 PM
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IsSanityNear, first AND last? Hmmm.
Sounds kinda scary!
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 8, 2004 at 6:06 PM
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Well, Alfy, you were just being a typical teenager!
(Just like most of us!)
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 8, 2004 at 6:05 PM
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tg, that's a great way of looking at it! Builds up the experience and
brings more exitement, I'm sure! As far as your post, hmmm, I'm surprised I missed it. I'll go check it out.
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 8, 2004 at 6:04 PM
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IMO, tremacc, I think it's a nice gesture and all to wait for marriage,
however, I think it is much better to have other experience with other people first. Same with living together before marriage. It's like a premarital test. Sometimes, we find out beforehand that we're really not compatible and thus, saves the couple from a divorce or miserable life together.
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 8, 2004 at 6:02 PM
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Oh, Rach, I'm sorry it was that way for you.
I hope I didn't dredge up yucky feelings for you.
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 8, 2004 at 6:00 PM
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Now that I think about it, the last three were all "new"
I think I don't like competition .. or I'm a jealous gal.... or I got lucky. Oh, and don't be TOO impresses, he was 18 when i met him. :)
posted by
IsSanityNear
on November 8, 2004 at 2:45 PM
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It's quite admirable though, he's got my respect.
posted by
A_Norseman
on November 8, 2004 at 12:51 PM
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It was a shocker for me, Alf
as I was quite "not new" when he got me. lol
posted by
IsSanityNear
on November 8, 2004 at 12:50 PM
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Totally Wacky ISN. I wonder what that's like?
Oh and sorry for the Dupes Spitfire.
posted by
A_Norseman
on November 8, 2004 at 12:47 PM
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I'm with Alf on this one
Too early, but not altogether unpleasant. As a sidenote - we saw each other again 10 years later and the spark was still there, so we had been on the right track... oh well. I married a cuter one anyway. And, BTW, I was his first and last, wacky, huh?
posted by
IsSanityNear
on November 8, 2004 at 12:43 PM
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Spitfire...
The who and where are not relevant to me. I don't think that matters much in the grand scheme. I do regret being so young though. I was 14. Honestly, if I could live my life over I would insist my parents send me away, away to a land where there were no females so that I could concentrate on things that were more important.
posted by
A_Norseman
on November 8, 2004 at 12:39 PM
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Spitfire...
The who and where are not relevant to me. I don't think that matters much in the grand scheme. I do regret being so young though. I was 14. Honestly, if I could live my life over I would insist my parents send me away, away to a land where there were no females so that I could concentrate on things that were more important.
posted by
A_Norseman
on November 8, 2004 at 12:39 PM
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Spitfire...
The who and where are not relevant to me. I don't think that matters much in the grand scheme. I do regret being so young though. I was 14. Honestly, if I could live my life over I would insist my parents send me away, away to a land where there were no females so that I could concentrate on things that were more important.
posted by
A_Norseman
on November 8, 2004 at 12:39 PM
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i've posted about losing mine
you can read it and decide if i've any regrets
http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/tbgroucho/165314
That being said, with two little ones keeping us busy, our virginities are growing back, so we're looking forward to that being like new next time it happens. tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on November 8, 2004 at 11:31 AM
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Yep.
Quite honestly, I wish I had waited for marriage. In hindsight, I can really see the beauty in that.
posted by
Tremac
on November 8, 2004 at 10:09 AM
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Hmm...
Lemme think about that... Um, YEAH!
I regret it. Then again, it was against my will so I didn't have a whole lot of input. But, I don't know that the first time could have been all that...comfortable...the first time anyway. So. I guess I'll chalk it up to a life lesson.
posted by
RachelAnna
on November 8, 2004 at 8:36 AM
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