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Tanoolicious
lol...........it is true though...because they do say you cant pick your family but you can your freinds..but that does not mean you have to like your family
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 1:54 PM
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Well you spared me hahaha
posted by
Tanoolicious
on October 14, 2004 at 1:27 PM
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Tanoolicious
LOL
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 1:25 PM
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hahahahah youre right................. now if you said "because he;s your father you have to like him" i would have said "awwwwwwwwww do i really really have to?"
posted by
Tanoolicious
on October 14, 2004 at 1:21 PM
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AnnAndBenjamin
thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 1:20 PM
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A family may have a dysfunction
but we continue to function.
Ann
posted by
A-and-B
on October 14, 2004 at 1:19 PM
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Tanoolicious
I am so glad that you are in control of the situation...you are very brave...........like I always say....just because he is your father does not mean you have to like him...........I wish you all the best
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 12:54 PM
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Symphony its okay... if we didnt see the good and bad sides of people, no matter who they are to us, then we wouldnt knwo what sort of person they really are.... Symphony I think he treats me like this because he found out that he cant control me and make me live the way he wants... im imdependant and stubborn and like to do things my way and dont like being controlled.... Right now Im not talking to him, I think it will be a week soon, we pass each other in the house without saying a word.... I really dont care... Thanks
posted by
Tanoolicious
on October 14, 2004 at 12:44 PM
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Tanoolicious
I am very sorry he treats you like that......I wonder if you ever had children he would act differetly towards.you..lol...that don't mean to go out and do it..I was just analizing parents...........hehehehe....
......they say treat people how they treat you...so maybe you should try that and see where that gets you...............good luck sweetie...............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 12:34 PM
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No symphony, I dont think it makes you sound horrible at all...... I get jealous of the way my dad always jokes with my sister and stands up for her when me and her fight and the whole way he treats her. I wish he would treat me that way, then I feel like im a horrible person..... {{hugs}} dont feel bad
posted by
Tanoolicious
on October 14, 2004 at 12:31 PM
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Tapsel-T
thnak you so much for undestanding,. reading, commenting.............yes I think your right...it is like a second chance for her.............thank you.......take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 12:06 PM
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SYMPH - Often it happens that the most awful parents
make wonderful grandparents. It is like a second chance for them after failing miserably to be the parent they know they should have been. It is not unusual to feel a bit jealous (or just wishful for what might have been) in that situation. You have chosen to be very mature about the situation but I know it is still difficult for you.
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TAPS.
on October 14, 2004 at 11:39 AM
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hugz_n_kisses
yes thats right....crap indeed does make you who you are.....mistakes, experiences...they all add to making you more stronger and wiser..............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 11:02 AM
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mysteria
hello... how are you?........thanks for reading and relating........its so nice to share with others who feel what I feel too......thank you so much.....I am sorry you and Rachelanna both can relate....they do say count our blessing but it is hard...I agree............thank you.....take care and all the best
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 10:59 AM
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lol, but enjoy the company
you knpow, crap makes you who u are, its made me who i am, im grateful for it in a way
xoxoxoxoxoxox
posted by
hugz_n_kisses
on October 14, 2004 at 10:59 AM
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I know that jealousy thing too
I have a bit of trouble staving it off sometimes. I see the love all over and it does remind me of how I have missed out. Things could always be worse they say count your blessings...Sometimes that doesn't work though. I love your photos! You look so sweet and pretty just like a symphony. Checking in cause it has been a while. Glad to see all is well for you...Lover, Mysteria
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mysteria
on October 14, 2004 at 10:55 AM
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RachelAnna exactley
thanks for relating and understanding.................when I wrote that and read back on it just then.. I was thinking of changing that bit...because I thought it made me sound terrible...but then I thought hey..sym write honestly! so I did.....and I admit it really is hard....watching my mum and my children because my mother was a terrible mother..she will even admit that herself..............but now..............she is perfect and my children love her so much... which brings me back to reality.........thanks for reading and sharing..................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 14, 2004 at 10:52 AM
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I can relate..
My father has a very close relationship with my eldest daughter and every now and again when I see them together I feel jealous! Of my own daughter! She has with him what I always longed for. But, like you, I snap back to reality and realize she's lucky to have the relationship--they both are.
posted by
RachelAnna
on October 14, 2004 at 10:45 AM
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