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daisysface
thank you ever so much for sharing that with me.....I am sorry that you can relate..but its nice to know we are not alone...............thank you and take care

posted by _Symphony_ on October 12, 2004 at 4:07 AM | link to this | reply

Melodystar
thank you

posted by _Symphony_ on October 12, 2004 at 4:06 AM | link to this | reply

jamryn
thank you

posted by _Symphony_ on October 12, 2004 at 4:06 AM | link to this | reply

katray
thank you for sharing...

posted by _Symphony_ on October 12, 2004 at 4:06 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony... Do keep us posted..  (i've seem to fallen behind my blogging by a week, so i'm just trying to catch up..).

This almost sounds like my dad.   He quit his job when he and my mom divorced because he did'nt want to pay child support.  He made his money in bar, hustling pool.   After I moved, I had no way of contacting him. And he had no way of contacting me.  I've searched and searched for him the past 16 years, with no luck.  I dont belive he's still alive,  though he could be.   I've tried going into the old bars my mom said he hung out at, but no one seems to know of his where abouts.

It's exciting to find out you have a sister!!  I grew up an only child, though I suspect my father had a child with the woman I last knew him to be with, though I have no proof.   Maybe one day the truth will surface.

Good luck!!! 

   Crystal

posted by daisysface on October 11, 2004 at 5:07 PM | link to this | reply

Wish you lots of luck! I hope you find her. Take care.

posted by Melodystar on October 11, 2004 at 8:16 AM | link to this | reply

Recharging one's batteries

every now and then is a good thing.  Go get'm girl.  This just might be the right time to re-unite familey members.        

posted by jamryn on October 11, 2004 at 7:43 AM | link to this | reply

How sad and yet strangely hopeful Symphony. Sad about your father (and how I can relate to that from my own experiences with a disturbed father) and exciting news possibly about an unknown sibling. Best wishes on your journeys and for peace and joy.

posted by Katray2 on October 10, 2004 at 4:41 PM | link to this | reply

AnnAndBenjamin
thank you

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 2:18 PM | link to this | reply

Good luck,

a needle from the haystack pluck.

Find a new sister,

by finding the older sister.

Benjamin.

posted by A-and-B on October 10, 2004 at 2:12 PM | link to this | reply

tremacc
you know?............your right.....I never thought of it that way....thank you so much for that..................take care

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 12:52 PM | link to this | reply

This is good, Sym.   Yes, go and see your dad if you are moved to do it.  For all we know, he may need this as much as you do.

posted by Tremac on October 10, 2004 at 12:49 PM | link to this | reply

tbgroucho
thank you very much ........

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 12:44 PM | link to this | reply

WHAMENATOR
they certainly are............anything for them

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 12:43 PM | link to this | reply

of course good luck in finding her
not easy -- but easier today than ages ago... this magical web... bye! tg

posted by tbgroucho on October 10, 2004 at 12:38 PM | link to this | reply

That is all you can do!!!!!!!!!!!

It sounds as if your children are a huge source of motivation to persevere.

Peace and Love,

Miriam

posted by WHAMENATOR on October 10, 2004 at 12:36 PM | link to this | reply

WHAMENATOR
thank you so much...................I will do my best

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 12:33 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony, hang in there!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love,

Whammie

posted by WHAMENATOR on October 10, 2004 at 12:32 PM | link to this | reply

RachelAnna

thankyou so much for your concern and understanding...but what I said to hugs.................I will be ok.........I have learned a skill to never let things bother me..well not to show anyway..........take care

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 12:29 PM | link to this | reply

hugz_n_kisses
thank you ...I will....sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me.............something my Nan use to say...that I chant now and again..when I am feeling weak when I am being thrown abuse

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 12:28 PM | link to this | reply

Good luck!
And, if he gets abusive, remember to leave, or close your heart to it!  :)

posted by RachelAnna on October 10, 2004 at 11:59 AM | link to this | reply

good luck, sweetie xoxoxoxoxox take cafre tomorrow please

posted by hugz_n_kisses on October 10, 2004 at 11:47 AM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious
I am always here for you.............and your doing really good....I am proud of you

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 11:14 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks Symphony... right now I dont feel strong but dont have the strength to deal with the problem so I just dove into my work ... thanks sweetie {{hugs}}

posted by Tanoolicious on October 10, 2004 at 11:09 AM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious
yes I just read your reply in your blog....I am glad you are hanging in there...you are very strong..well done.........and good for you to carry on at work to take your mind of things..............take care

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 11:03 AM | link to this | reply

Kelli
thank you very much..............up and down with depression huh?.................are you keeping up with me........lol

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 11:02 AM | link to this | reply

Yep.... Im alright.... like I said... hanging in there....    I was very busy with work today I just dived into work and didnt take a break so I wont think of anything... It helped alot

posted by Tanoolicious on October 10, 2004 at 11:00 AM | link to this | reply

symphony, glad you are doing well!

posted by Kelli on October 10, 2004 at 10:59 AM | link to this | reply

Tanoolicious

thank you very much........me too

I hope you are ok?...............take care and look after yourself

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 10:58 AM | link to this | reply

ooooh symphony, Glad you and your children had such a greart weekend...

Best of luck sweetie, I  hope everything goes well... {{hugs}}

posted by Tanoolicious on October 10, 2004 at 10:56 AM | link to this | reply

Witty_Woman
thank you very much....................I believe I do

posted by _Symphony_ on October 10, 2004 at 10:56 AM | link to this | reply

Best of luck.  Sounds like you might need it.

posted by Witty_Woman on October 10, 2004 at 10:52 AM | link to this | reply