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iSiSeyeS
LOL.....................you are my sister anyway.....................hehehehehe...................I am always here for you

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 9:36 AM | link to this | reply

RachelAnna
yes that is my fears ...because she may not want too...I don't want to cause her any trouble....thanks for reading.........and yes that is an idea...wow why did I not think of that......I must find out the mothers name...............thanks Rachel

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 9:35 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony,

How exciting!  I am an only child myself, so I can barely fathom what it would be like to have a sister or brother.  I don't think I ever learned how to share my toys.  hehe.

If you don't find her (and I really pray you do find her), I'm open for sister/sister adoption just you know!

xoxoxo

iSiSeyeS

posted by myrrhage_ on October 8, 2004 at 9:28 AM | link to this | reply

Wow!

Ask your dad.  If nothing else maybe you could get a bit more information, like her mother's name or something.

I think it's normal to want to find siblings.  You have a genetic link, your feelings are natural.

Find her if you decide you want to, but be prepared that she may not want the same.

posted by RachelAnna on October 8, 2004 at 9:23 AM | link to this | reply

jamryn
thank you very much for reading........this is going to be so hard.........

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 8:38 AM | link to this | reply

If you can get ahold of birth records that would be a good place to start.  I agree to sit down and have a talk with Dad  when he's sober enough to do so. Get as much info . as you can.

posted by jamryn on October 8, 2004 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

tremacc
thank you so much...............its so weird................

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 6:09 AM | link to this | reply

I say yes.   Ask your dad.   At least get her last name and I'm sure you can round up the rest.   Such is life.   I am excited for you.  Good luck.

posted by Tremac on October 8, 2004 at 5:58 AM | link to this | reply

Melodystar
thank you for your encouragement.......hope you are ok?

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 5:46 AM | link to this | reply

I think you should. you never know until you do. Take care .

posted by Melodystar on October 8, 2004 at 5:43 AM | link to this | reply

hugz_n_kisses

I suppose we will never know unless we try

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 5:37 AM | link to this | reply

yeah together, luike that idea :)

i dnt know my dads relatives anymore, i dont know, like u say, maybe she doesnt want her sis to be fount but still maybe she does

posted by hugz_n_kisses on October 8, 2004 at 5:28 AM | link to this | reply

hugz_n_kisses
maybe we should go on a chat show together..........

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 5:24 AM | link to this | reply

hugz_n_kisses

yes it is.......and........its scary to don't you think?......knowing there are a part of us out there somewhere...and it could be anybody at all....................I really want to find her ...but have not got a clue......maybe I should track down my dads realtives first maybe they might no something..................take care

maybe you should do the same...ask your dads relavtives or something.....if you find a way to find them please let me know

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 5:23 AM | link to this | reply

yeah wsweetie, me thinks avbout such chat shows too xooxoxoxox

posted by hugz_n_kisses on October 8, 2004 at 5:23 AM | link to this | reply

yes you should track her down, i have a sister from my dad too, shes younger and from parixws, i think she must be 12 orso but i have only kno her as a baby, i only know her name and she moved, so i dont know how to find her either

geez its like becoming a fashion that parents only tell you when theeyre older xoxoxoxoxo

posted by hugz_n_kisses on October 8, 2004 at 5:20 AM | link to this | reply

Witty_Woman
oh and I mean acrossed the water as in east london....so on

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 5:17 AM | link to this | reply

Witty_Woman
lol.............. sound normal?........if you could see me I am shaking like a leaf...thinking what the hell...........I am not surprised about my dad having affairs as he has had many and he had another daughter....who I met but she was suddenly took away from me and went to heaven.....so maybe this is a sign to go and find my other sister...............but like I said I have nothing to go on...........I don't even know if her mum picked my dads last name for her....................oh how frustrating..how can I find somebody when I dont actually know what I am looking for.............I feel in shock and numb .....and its not helping me with ideas ...maybe I should go on one of those chat shows....lol

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 5:16 AM | link to this | reply

Passionflower

I know......its excellet news......although I am worried thinking does she want to be found?

but I do wish it was that simple about my dad..but he is an alcoholic and never stops drinking..getting a normal conversation out of him is usless...............thanks for reading and commenting...hope you are ok?.......take care

posted by _Symphony_ on October 8, 2004 at 5:12 AM | link to this | reply

Well, you sound amazingly normal considering that news!  That's incredible, out of the blue like that.  When you say "other side of the water", do you mean America, or more close to home?  You could try doing a search on the internet for her if you know her last name, that would be a start.  Otherwise you might be able to trace her through official records.  It's harder with women of course, because more often than not they've changed their surnames.  Anyway, best of luck with it - could be an exciting venture!

posted by Witty_Woman on October 8, 2004 at 4:46 AM | link to this | reply

Oh my Gawd! This is amazing news! You should totally go find the girl. You have to. You just can't not know about her now that you know about her. Try to catch your dad when he hasn't had much to drink and make him tell  you all about her.

posted by Passionflower on October 8, 2004 at 4:43 AM | link to this | reply