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Jemmie
It will be difficult for a long time and then it will ease but then there will be moments it will come back and from what I can tell that will always be the case. I think that in your case it is very tough because of the suddeness and things unsaid. Although my father was young when he died we at least knew it was coming and had the chance to say what we wanted and needed to say. Thinking of you.
posted by
beachbelle
on September 29, 2004 at 3:28 AM
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jemmie
the more i read of this situation the more i sympathize... the more compassion you are generating, more wishes for your healing from people you've never met...let that remind you of the power of your words, and how they can reach out to others who try to reach you in return...
i cannot comprehend your loss -- my grandmother died at 87 after suffering a stroke and I still feel the pain of her loss -- but I can gently remind you that I am here, and so are many others. tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on September 28, 2004 at 9:17 PM
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No, words cannot
but you are doing a great job of expressing what you feel. Keep going. We are with you.
Mike
posted by
kingmi
on September 28, 2004 at 1:14 PM
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Does it Ever?
I doubt it ever will. Just reading your post makes me want to grab my dad and never let him go. I can't even imagine losing him. They say it gets easier with time, but that sounds so trite doesn't it. Keep taking one step ahead each day and be glad you have the memories.
posted by
Debbie4824
on September 28, 2004 at 12:28 PM
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