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Ca88andra
yes you are defiently right..........thank you so much, I suppose it is early days for me thinking this way.......thank you so much have a wonderful day...........take care

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:32 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony, I've got to be honest here. There is loneliness even with happiness. I'm going through that emotion right now. But it doesn't have to be forever. I'm certainly not planning to spend the rest of my life alone, even if I end up making more mistakes. Hey, life is for living, right!?!?

posted by Ca88andra on August 31, 2004 at 4:29 AM | link to this | reply

WHAMENATOR
lol..........thank you so much for your wonderful commnent, you always tell me like it is, and thats what I love about you thank you so much, you are a fantastic friend

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:27 AM | link to this | reply

INCUBUS
lol.............ok thanks

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:26 AM | link to this | reply

Original_Influence
thnak you

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:25 AM | link to this | reply

RachelAnna
thank you so very much that is a wonderful comment, and yes I think and hope you are right........thank you

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:25 AM | link to this | reply

hugz_n_kisses
thank you

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:24 AM | link to this | reply

tbgroucho
thank you so much you are very kind, take care and have a lovely day

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:24 AM | link to this | reply

Odysseus
lol..........in my M/A blog they are fantasies not real............

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:23 AM | link to this | reply

scriber
thank you very much

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:22 AM | link to this | reply

markd
lol.............no that was not crude at all, I know what you mean, but there are no nice mature men around here, only you of course........hehehehe...........thank you so much for saying not all men are the same........take care

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:22 AM | link to this | reply

mariantonia
thank you so much for my comment...........I love reading you even if it is polite or not........sometimes I might not like something you have wrote, but I still will read you........thank you so much take care

posted by _Symphony_ on August 31, 2004 at 4:20 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY...........

My last several romances have been horror stories.........just when I thought I could do no worse........y'know.

I realize that while I was trying to pick men as opposite from my Dad as possible, I was picking opposites with similar (controlling, dominating, insecure) personalities.  So different, but at the core, still the same.

Probably my best two relationships have been my Puppy Love and The Guy Who Got Really Controlling and Weird.  Have I ever nurtured a healthy Romance?

The moral of the story here is that you have your children.  Find your own identity!  If you find a Good Man, then that is a major blessing, but in the meantime, rely on yourself, and learn to claim some Vitamin D when you need it, and/or else become very good at doing it yourself!  The latter is less headaches anyway!

posted by WHAMENATOR on August 30, 2004 at 8:10 PM | link to this | reply

The way I see it
if the main character of Cast Away can be happy with a Wilson soccer ball at campfires and in caves, all the lonely hearts of the world have a fighting chance.

posted by Zachary.N.Miles on August 30, 2004 at 7:47 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony,
As long as you are happy, you will be fine!

posted by Original_Influence on August 30, 2004 at 5:27 PM | link to this | reply

You won't be lonely
you'll be busy getting to know yourself again, and learning to love yourself, also.  It's a process, and who knows, when you're on the other side maybe you'll be ready to love another man again.  Never say never, don't limit yourself that way.  Just enjoy the here and now, and worry about the rest later. 

posted by RachelAnna on August 30, 2004 at 3:26 PM | link to this | reply

you qwont be lonely whenn we join you :) xoxoxox

posted by hugz_n_kisses on August 30, 2004 at 3:24 PM | link to this | reply

symphony

at this point in your life, you need to celebrate you and love you.  You are going through a very important phase of self-discovery and the last thing to worry about is whether or not you'll ever marry or be with another man again. tg

posted by tbgroucho on August 30, 2004 at 3:24 PM | link to this | reply

With all that stuff in your MA blog......

I'm pleasantly surprised.

posted by telemachus on August 30, 2004 at 3:21 PM | link to this | reply

Symph--right love, the key word is happy; what kind of life is it if one
isn't happy? 

posted by scriber on August 30, 2004 at 3:09 PM | link to this | reply

Just remember: not all men are alike.

And plastic toys can't fill our place forever. 

Sorry - that might've been crude, but my points is this: we're not all the same and one day, sooner or later, you'll undoubtedly come across somebody a lot better and more able to look out for you.  Take it easy.

posted by markd on August 30, 2004 at 2:54 PM | link to this | reply

Take it easy for now. Its too soon for permanent decisions. Don't be trapped in Love Rebounds. Means jumping from 1 love relationship into another because of the need for a man.

Continue to make friends; not necessary lovers.

Thanks for reading my fiction. There's the new, "polite" fiction blog if you're interested. I'm happy you keep in touch although you're so busy out working  & at home. Your timing has changed so I can't "meet" you when you're online.

Take care. This is an important phase in your life.

posted by mariantonia on August 30, 2004 at 2:29 PM | link to this | reply

PJDEONILES

thank you very much for your comment..........I am free to do whatever I choose for me and my children that is best that is right .....thanks for reading and commenting have a lovely day, look after yourself and take care

posted by _Symphony_ on August 30, 2004 at 1:46 PM | link to this | reply

I hope you will never be too lonely. Whatever U believe or don't-Providence
Providence or the Craetive Energy will create syndergies for you. You loved a man who left the best of himself in your two children. Feel him through them, and make them the best THEY can be. You will not be able to do whatever U like with them-- they have free will too. keep on keeping on SYMPH darrrling!

posted by Budd-Himoschris on August 30, 2004 at 1:43 PM | link to this | reply