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This is true. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

posted by Chaltuu on August 24, 2004 at 6:22 AM | link to this | reply

What worked for me
Accepting criticism is not easy, and it is even tough on me if I receive it from people I don't trust.  The best way I've found to accept it more graciously and less personally is to find a critiquing group, build a relationship, and give your best effort.  And, for goodness sake, avoid those who spend more time giving two second critiques in return for your detailed critiques.  9 times out of 10, it doesn't get any better.  IF they are too busy today, they will be too busy to do it right tomorrow.

posted by Whim on August 24, 2004 at 6:14 AM | link to this | reply

Celeste - Kenneth Tynan said: A critic is a man who knows the way

but can't drive the car.

I think of that whenever I read a scathing criticism - not just of my work, but of others. When I calm down, I look at the critique objectively - or I run it through the shredder and burn the critic in effigy.

posted by Hollee on August 24, 2004 at 6:09 AM | link to this | reply