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mariantonia
thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 1:50 PM
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He's probably ashamed of himself. Hiding within himself. Natural reaction. You got to make a police report about that slap and keep the paper safely. You may need hard evidence to produce in court one day. Leave for a while. Telephone and check on him in the house , office or his pals if you're still so concerned.
posted by
mariantonia
on July 31, 2004 at 1:44 PM
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Original_Influence
thank you so much, there is so much that I need to do, but I cant get motivated to do it, thank you for all your support, and for sharing and your advice you are wonderful, I gave them a kiss from you............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 12:17 PM
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Symphony,
Take it one step at a time...it took time to get to this point so it will take time to get to the next. There is no pressure to do it all at once...so take a breath and do something relaxing...play a game with the kids or have a cup of tea and a snack...then you will feel better. Take care! Give the angels a kiss for me!
posted by
Original_Influence
on July 31, 2004 at 12:12 PM
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InherentRights
thank you so much take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 11:07 AM
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Melodystar
thank you.......take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 11:07 AM
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jamryn
thank you for your advice, take care and have a nice day
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 11:07 AM
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Please Symphony, do what's best for you and your children
I know you know what to do; I hope you find the strength to do it
posted by
InherentRights
on July 31, 2004 at 7:34 AM
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It is always hard to to walk away from someone you love. Only you know. Take care.
posted by
Melodystar
on July 31, 2004 at 7:32 AM
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Change is always difficult - we don't want to appear as if we made the wrong decision. We get stuck in our comfort zones - like a big woolie blanket. No one can change things for you but you can act responsable and decide what will be best for your children. Change coule be something good for all of you - husband included. Even to the point of staying together or not.
posted by
jamryn
on July 31, 2004 at 7:28 AM
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SKY5
I am ok thanks for asking, I am still confused and looking for answers but the truth is I already know the answer. thank you so much for everything and all your support................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 6:08 AM
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how are you?
posted by
Star5_
on July 31, 2004 at 6:06 AM
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how are you?
posted by
Star5_
on July 31, 2004 at 6:06 AM
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sassyass_64
thank you so much for sharing , you seem very happy and have no regrets, thank you so much for everything take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 6:05 AM
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SUGARBABY
I was'nt questioning you, I was wondering if you can only hit once and never again. which seems to have happened for you you are very lucky. enjoy your day take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 6:04 AM
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Fly like a bird
You are young and need enjoyment in your life in order to give your kids 100%. I did it years ago. I walked out of a miserable marriage and never looked back. I became a statistic. The single Mother, but I was free to do as I pleased. I got to know myself, healed, and found the love of my life. I also learned that I had a love of writing. All those pent of feelings came pouring out onto paper. Good luck, you deserve it.
posted by
Sherri_G
on July 31, 2004 at 6:00 AM
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Yes that's right. He is scared to be alone, he knows where I stand on this.
posted by
SUGARBABY
on July 31, 2004 at 5:58 AM
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SUGARBABY
so he has never hit you again since?
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 5:54 AM
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I know how you feel. My husband did that to me once in the past 7 years. Basically I threated to leave him if he did it again. And he hasn't.
But don't forget you still love him. When you see him again, try to think of the good things he has done for you.
posted by
SUGARBABY
on July 31, 2004 at 5:52 AM
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Ca88andra
thank you so much you are very kind............have a nice day...take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 5:49 AM
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Symphony, only you can decide to change your life, there is nothing anyone can do to force you one way or the other. In the end you have to face whatever fears you might have and just do whatever it is your intuition tells you to. Stay safe....
posted by
Ca88andra
on July 31, 2004 at 5:39 AM
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tbgroucho
thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 5:38 AM
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symphony
. there are many reasons why you don't want to let go. But keep thinking clearly and do what is right for you and the family. I think this is over. So sorry. anything i can do send a line. tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on July 31, 2004 at 5:37 AM
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Whim
straight to the point huh?..............I understand what you are saying though but I will say, that this was the first time and maybe there might be a next if he don't help himself. but ending up dead I don't think so....and my children are very protected by me................thank you anyway................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 5:31 AM
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I usually am.
posted by
Whim
on July 31, 2004 at 5:20 AM
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Whim
yeah I know............wow that was blunt!
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 5:18 AM
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CherryDidi
thank you you are very kind
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 31, 2004 at 5:17 AM
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Leave. Don't think about it, just do it. Violence tends to escalate. The longer you stay, the better the chance of you or the children ending up dead. Not to mention what staying in that situation is doing to them.
posted by
Whim
on July 31, 2004 at 5:12 AM
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go on a relaxing holiday with your kidss, there's no harm in that, thenn see
you know youre always welcome with your kids
i really think going away on a holiday is rightfor you all, it dooesnt matter whereto
hugz
posted by
hugz_n_kisses
on July 31, 2004 at 5:07 AM
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