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InherentR, I also think it shows that
we are
not a bunch of morons. We're definately "onto" him and all his alter ego's here. Hopefully, he'll just get the hint that he is unwanted and unwelcome here and just GO AWAY!
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 9:52 PM
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Good post Spitfire, I agree with everything
I think we've shown that we do look out for each other and we do care. That's stronger than whetever the person behind EminemsRevenge could hope to achieve.
posted by
InherentRights
on July 29, 2004 at 9:45 PM
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You're right, Original InF,
We do look out for each other. Most of us, if not all, probably had no idea as to how much joining some blogging site as a member and/or reader would come to influence us. It never even crossed my mind when I joined that I would actually become friends with so many that I would actually come to care about as if they were friends I met "in person."
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 9:37 PM
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Of course, Quirky, you shall overcome this...
and it is always healthy to forgive those who trespass against us. In my personal experiences so far from this life, in all its betrayals, bad times, and lessons learned the hard way, I have learned to forgive. However, I shall never forget some of those experiences. They keep me aware and alert to any future times that may come my way and for that, I am thankful because I am more prepared. I am more understanding as to the negativity and dark souls that will always remain. That’s what balances life. It’s our choice how to react to such beings and what, if anything, we take from the experience. You, my friend, are doing just that. 
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 9:31 PM
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Spitfire,
Good post...I agree, there are many bloggers here with good hearts. We need to look out for each other...I think many do.
posted by
Original_Influence
on July 29, 2004 at 7:01 PM
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Spitfire, thank you for posting this. You have made some excellent
points. Re: the blogger who said this is not a safe place to heal, I guess I agree...when anyone decides to write about deeply personal and painful issues, there are always going to be people who see a weak spot that they can stick a knife into. They do so for many varied reasons. But they need to be forgiven for their heinous acts, regardless of motive. That is the only way true healing can continue. As for katray's comment: I hope the rampage of this evil is really over. There is a recent comment in Quirky's post that makes me wonder."--no it is not over, the blogger who made that comment in my post is just another alter-ego of the blogger who seems hell-bent upon destroying my spirit, for reasons only he knows. But you know what? He isn't going to, because I won't let him. I will find forgiveness in my heart for him, too, and there isn't a darn thing he can do about that, because that is MY choice, not his. Thank you again for this eloquent post. Love, Julia
posted by
Julia.
on July 29, 2004 at 6:04 PM
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Well, Scriber, yeah, I did in college, but
what or who are the "gang girls"??
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 5:46 PM
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Spitfire--go girl, you must have studied psychology--the gang girls.
posted by
scriber
on July 29, 2004 at 5:33 PM
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Scriber, you're welcome even though I have nothing to be thanked for.
This whole ordeal just enraged me, but I wanted to shed some light on what kind of person we're dealing with and that most of us here are like a family in a way. We care about each other and when something bad happens to one of us, there is an overwhelming number of us lending support. The positive always beats out the negative.
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 5:08 PM
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I know, HolyG, I hear ya there.
Just keep an extra eye out for similar sounding names and "personalities" learking around. There are many suspicious ones that are obviously the same person. I pray they aren't this most recently booted asshole, EminemsRevenge. God, ya think some of these jerkoffs would get a frickin' life! Nothing better to do than this kind of crap?
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 5:04 PM
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That's what I heard, CherryDidi.
I'm not sure if it's still up, is it? I figured Shaycom 86ed it by now.
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 5:00 PM
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Yeah, it sure does, Katray.
As many of us know, there are certain bloggers that have multiple accounts. The names and "personalities" are usually a give a way.
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 4:58 PM
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Spitfire70--thanks for bringing this up again. love Scriber
posted by
scriber
on July 29, 2004 at 4:29 PM
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I couldn't believe it when I read what had happened. Now I am the first to defend freedom of speech, or to support using humor to lighten up a serious situation. For instance, I often mention in my posts how depressed and beaten down and unhappy and broken-hearted I am. Even to the point of "not wanting to be here anymore." (But not thinking of actually doing something rash!) Now I would probably laugh my ass off if somebody posted a picture of someone in a straight jacket or something. But this person definitely crossed the line, in a
big way. This was something very, very serious. Something luckily none of us could imagine having to go through. Doing or saying something in kind of poor taste and regretting it later is one thing. But doing something that heartless and mean-spirited is unfathomable to me.
posted by
Holy_Grail
on July 29, 2004 at 4:20 PM
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the cut up body was in my comments page oc my journal :(
posted by
hugz_n_kisses
on July 29, 2004 at 4:18 PM
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Excellent Spitfire
You're so right. It is scary and I hope the rampage of this evil is really over. There is a recent comment in Quirky's post that makes me wonder. Evil runs deep and unknown sometimes.
posted by
Katray2
on July 29, 2004 at 4:09 PM
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SanityS, I have and she is recovering. She's much better
than yesterday. Oh, and btw, keep a look out for other blog names with interesting similarities floating around.
posted by
SpitFire70
on July 29, 2004 at 4:04 PM
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His blogname should have been a clue to us all how LARGE an Assh*le he is. I truly hope Quirky is alright and if you have contact with her, giver her my best wishes and my hopes she doesn't leave.
posted by
SanitySlipping
on July 29, 2004 at 3:59 PM
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