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That sounds just awful, but I'm glad to hear that you were strong enough to walk away. I can't imagine if something like that happened to me what I'd do. I'd like to think I would handle it with as much strength as you've described. : )
~ A. Winters ~
posted by
A.Winters
on August 17, 2004 at 10:03 PM
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just read your story
Melody, I just read about your awful experience in your first marriage. I just want to say I am very sorry to hear of all you went through. But your light continues to shine through your posts- no one can extinguish that.
posted by
Psych_Scribe
on August 10, 2004 at 6:59 PM
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Daisysface, ther really is no logical explanation for what people do. It was very hard to get over considering I was very young when I married him. I hope your experiences were just a bit better. Thanks for reading.
posted by
Melodystar
on August 4, 2004 at 8:19 AM
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just thought i'd say..
you are a beautiful and strong person for not letting this taint your life forever... there's never a logical reason of why some people do some things.. but then again, i guess those people are not really worthy of being in our lives...
i have some horror stories about my first marriage.. nothing that could scratch the surface here.. but i'll be posting the disturbing stories at some point i'm sure.. none that most people would even believe, but it's not fiction at all..
all the best to you!!
posted by
daisysface
on August 3, 2004 at 3:17 PM
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Eccentricshock, There is always hope and you have to have faith. Thanks for stopping by.
posted by
Melodystar
on August 2, 2004 at 2:41 PM
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melody. It's nice to know there is hope after being crushed. Having a child is such a difficult decision, adding health risks to the mix, yow! Good luck with your decision. I waited until my husband was ready to have kids, and here we are -- me and my 2 kids
posted by
EccentricShock
on August 2, 2004 at 2:35 PM
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Scriber, it is very heartbreaking, so I am doing it in segments.
posted by
Melodystar
on July 15, 2004 at 9:24 AM
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Star--Do you plan on writing about it? love scriber
posted by
scriber
on July 15, 2004 at 9:22 AM
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Scriber , the exception did happen but things happen and people get confused So I am not sure at this point.
posted by
Melodystar
on July 15, 2004 at 9:19 AM
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Star--I assume you are planning to write about a rare exception. love s.
posted by
scriber
on July 15, 2004 at 9:13 AM
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Scriber, your words ring so true!
posted by
Melodystar
on July 15, 2004 at 9:04 AM
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Star--Men are bastards...with possible exceptions. love Scriber
posted by
scriber
on July 15, 2004 at 9:02 AM
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guess thats why I have no female friends.
posted by
homegirl
on July 10, 2004 at 6:28 PM
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I am ok , thanks for asking. I try minute to minute. Thanks for all the support.
posted by
Melodystar
on July 8, 2004 at 2:27 PM
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hope you are ok?
take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 2:22 PM
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Melody
Yikes! Sounds like a best friend I once had!
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on July 8, 2004 at 11:36 AM
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truth
Your morals and ethics shined light on their darkness, good thing you found out sooner than later. My Dad cheated on my Mom, secretly for 15 years with three of her best friends. He finally found a rich Sugar Mama and deserted us. Even though he was cheating on his wife he hurt all of us.
posted by
QuailNest
on July 8, 2004 at 11:19 AM
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Good that you found
true love after that experience. 
posted by
word.smith
on July 3, 2004 at 9:37 PM
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So sorry Melody.
I've had similar experiences myself. We are much better off now though! Take care
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on July 2, 2004 at 10:14 AM
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