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Symphony
If you really are looking to keep things sweet, then I suggest you sit down in front of a lot of porn movies, and learn how to master the blow job technique. Then everything will always be tickety-boo forever and ever....;)
posted by
chris2303
on June 19, 2004 at 2:00 AM
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Congratulations on a happy closure. In future, be practical. He can't be doing this all the time everyday. He needs some space too. Don't be afraid of losing happiness. There are good days as well as bad days. As long as we work towards our goals, they become more attainable. For you, this showed that its a matter of your learning to speak up. Your mother, your husband.........I think Symphony is set to change her world!
posted by
mariantonia
on June 18, 2004 at 8:47 PM
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Symphony, just so you know...
Love_Writer is Shawn. He is talking about me. I don't want him talking about me in his posts so please don't encourage him to. It's good to know though that people will be there for him anyway. I want him to write too, because I know he can make friends here just like I have, I just don't want him writing about me like he did before.
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posted by
RAYS_OF_ME
on June 18, 2004 at 6:45 PM
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love_writer
writing is great for getting all your feelings out and unburdening your soul............please write ...you will feel so much better........and as passionflower said to me when I first came here was.......dark feelings bring out great writing...or something a long them lines anyway...........but I promise you will feel heaps better...........we are all here for you...........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 2:21 PM
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someone got a Papst? I'm feeling like crying in it
posted by
scriber
on June 18, 2004 at 2:20 PM
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Thank you symphony
I'll think about writing tonight. My memories haunt me because I have done so much wrong and can't go back. All I can hope for is to learn from them and change myself for the better.
posted by
love_writer
on June 18, 2004 at 2:17 PM
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love_writer
you sound like a great person........men are judged wrong sometimes.............but not all are bad and that is such a shame for you.....you can write...let your feelings out like you are now ,in one of your posts...you can do it...I promise you can....I be here to read you........and its great that you are reading , as that is great therapy for learning......I have leanred a lot about relationships by being here........when I first came here I was very depressed...blogit has helped me and it can help you..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 2:12 PM
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I wish that I could write
but I'm a man and everything that I try to do out of love just comes accross to someone as trying to hurt her. I didn't really mean to I just love her so much and don't want to lose her. We had a lot of problems too but we never really talked or listened to each other and that was the worst thing we could have done. I'll read you and some others here everyday.
posted by
love_writer
on June 18, 2004 at 2:08 PM
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love_writer
thank you for sharing and reading and commenting.............you found a great place to write get feed back.....and as well as get lots of great friends.........take care..........you are great
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 2:01 PM
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thanks Sue9457
you are great.....thanks for reading and commenting and advice take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 1:59 PM
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You ladies inspire me
And amaze me. I love reading everything here that you write. I wish that I knew about blogit a long time ago. I learn about my mistakes and what women really need and want here. I can't write anymore, but I hope you don't mind me reading. There's a special someone here that has given me so much and If she's reading this then I'd like to say "thanks"
posted by
love_writer
on June 18, 2004 at 1:53 PM
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Hi symphony
If you love him and he loves you, u can always make it better again.
Try this 5 tips to make him fall for you.....
Make him feel good about him, so he start feeling in control, so he be good to you. ..
Show him affection with respect as if he deserves it all, he will fall for you.
Instead of saying I like to do this way, say it how would you like me to do this..... his opinion, u don't have to do, but when he hear you consider his opinion, the man's world is for you.
Look at to his eye and say, you look good today, you made it......
Even if he is coming late, ( you can eat early, give little space, when he come,say you were waiting and try to eat dinner together)........I am sure he will fallllllll right for you, because he wants your attention. Men are attention seekers........hope no man heard me.
posted by
Star5_
on June 18, 2004 at 1:45 PM
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thanks AngieK
thanks for reading and commenting..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 12:54 PM
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It is nice to know that he is making an effort for you.
I hope it lasts
Somethings are worth fighting for, and a marriage is one of those things. Take care!
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on June 18, 2004 at 12:12 PM
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LOL
YOU defiently are..........................LOL
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:59 AM
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we were just born sexy
that's all
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 11:55 AM
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The_Joo
thats right we can't help it
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:53 AM
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hello rays
thank you so much.....for everythink you always give me great advice and you are right as always.....I think you are a wonderful person and you ever thought about working as a councellor or something simular as you are good at giving advice........thank you so much for everythnig..........you are fantastic.........take care and keep smiling your beautiful smile...........
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:52 AM
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Hi Symphony,
There is nothing wrong with holding onto happy memories. That is one of the reasons of life, is to hold onto happy memories. Life passes by us so quickly, if we didn't have happy memories to hold onto there would be no reason for living. If I didn't have my happy memories with my mom I probably would have committed you know what, for they kept me tied down to knowing the kind of person I need to be today because of her.
You and your husband sound like to me, that if you keep trying to spend time with him, you guys won't have barely any problems. If you are on the computer a lot though, instead of spending time with him when he comes home from work, he might hate that you do that and think that blogit is more important to you than he is. So to keep up the romance and to keep future problems from happening, make talking, cuddling, and spending time together a habit. Tell him all the time how you love holding him as your watching t.v. and how you have missed him all day. He will be surprised with happiness and enthusiasm if as soon as he walks through the door you give him a big hug. Do it atleast a few times a week, to let him know you missed him all day and let him realize you love being with him and miss the romance that you used to have when you first fell in love. This will all come into play in his mind and he will start being his old, happy self again. You just have to make the effort to spend time together, alone, without being sexual, as much as possible.
So did you guys spend time together last night? Made love or watched a movie together? Spill the juice. 
posted by
RAYS_OF_ME
on June 18, 2004 at 11:48 AM
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I think everyone just,..............
want us, we can't help that we are soooooo sexy. Can we???? - the joo
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 11:43 AM
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I think so
too............if this carry's on.............we will end up having a big orgy.................LOL
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:39 AM
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LMAO
Loved the comment to shavonne. Can't quit laughing
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 11:35 AM
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I think shavonne want us too
sounds like she's jelous????
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 11:34 AM
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sorry shavonne
Im not gonna have dick anymore as apparantly I am a lesbian now with the Joo...........thanks for reading and commenting
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:33 AM
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thats great joo
tell him to meet us very soon.
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:32 AM
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If I hear about one more person gettin some dick I'm going to puke.
Congrats
posted by
Shavonne
on June 18, 2004 at 11:31 AM
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scriber ready for us now
I think the trampoline changed his mind too. lOl- the joo
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 11:30 AM
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LOL
im laughing my fucking head off here.............if only you could see me now....that sounds good.I would love to have a go
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:27 AM
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I have a trampoline too
that could come in handy,
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 11:26 AM
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ok The_Joo
there is a change of plan...........I am coming to yours instead........so unpack again and I will be there as soon as I can.....LOL
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:24 AM
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congratulations Runsatdawn
not all marriages are bad and endless.........my aunt and uncle have been together for 50 years.........to me thats a miracle as I don't think I could put up with my husband for that many years....
thanks for reading and commenting...........all the best ........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 11:23 AM
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that sounds great
however I live on a private drive no traffic, 3 bedrooms, and park close to , and dishwasher, oh ya i live by scriber. lOL
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 11:20 AM
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Thanks for this heartfelt post
I am getting married in Nov. I love my fiance but we argue sometimes. I just hope we can have a happy marriage
posted by
Runs_at_dawn
on June 18, 2004 at 11:18 AM
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yes its quite big
I have a front garden too..........so they will love it for sure
and there is a park opposite,so when we want some alone time..........we can chuck them out........LOL
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 10:37 AM
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we can be each others
"better" half I like anything, I don't have to cook. LOL How your yard big??? With 4 kids, we will need a big one. LOL- the joo
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 10:34 AM
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great idea
Bring your dishwasher..............I hate washing up...................how did court go, did it go well?
whats your favorite food.........I better go shopping to make an impression on you......like try and woo you.............LOL.........................you flirt, you bring out a side of me.I never knew excisted...
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 10:31 AM
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sexy
I had court today, I'm still in those clothes. ( not so sexy. lol) do you have a dishwasher???? If not I'll bring mine- the joo
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 10:27 AM
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today I am just wearing a nice silk short dress..................LOL
I love the sunshine.......YAY
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 10:25 AM
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Sunny here too
So.............what ya wearing? LOL- the joo
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 10:23 AM
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yes your kids are fine
im doing my job properly..........lol...........yes it has been very sunny today..............love you
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 10:15 AM
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you got sunshine???
how are my kids??? LOL- the joo
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 10:08 AM
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how are you today????
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 10:07 AM
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thats good joo
because when you are happy I am happy toooooooooooo
............LOL
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 10:03 AM
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That's great
Glad to hear your happy, makes me happy too then.- the joo
posted by
The_Joo
on June 18, 2004 at 10:01 AM
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thanks EccentricShock
only time will tell..............thanks for reading and commenting...........have a great day...take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 9:11 AM
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MEOW ;)
Good luck Maxine. I hope he continues to try.
posted by
EccentricShock
on June 18, 2004 at 9:09 AM
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SCRIBER
would you if I did that to you?
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 8:42 AM
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Symphony, be seductive, selective; soon he'll set up and beg like a dog.
posted by
scriber
on June 18, 2004 at 8:39 AM
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thanks scriber
I remember.........thank you ....for reading and commenting have a great day......take care....lol
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 8:35 AM
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like I said, Symphony, be calm, intelligent, sexy, and you will win. love
posted by
scriber
on June 18, 2004 at 8:31 AM
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wordsmythe
thank you for reading and commenting..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 8:28 AM
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tbgroucho
you are a lovely person thank you ever so much.......I liked the warning to my husband ...........lol........I just have to work harder...no actually my husband should work harder.......compromising huh? thanks for reading, commenting and all your wonderful advice you have giving me...........you are very special....take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 8:27 AM
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You've said it right...
Marriage is hard work and takes lot of compromise to make it work.
posted by
word.smith
on June 18, 2004 at 7:56 AM
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it's work this marriage thing
I hope he did it because he cares about the marriage not because England won ! Here in the states there are lots of statistics that attempt to correlate the viewing of the Super Bowl with rises in domestic abuse! Anyway, both of you must be vigilant if you want this to work. I'll put this in my Groucho Quote Blog next time, but here's a warning for your husband from Groucho, this from the film Horse Feathers :
"why don't you go home to your wife? On second thought, I'll go home to your wife and outside of the improvement she'll never know the difference!" Cheers! tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on June 18, 2004 at 7:23 AM
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You-look-fabulous
thank you for the tip........I will keep that in mind...............thank you for reading and commenting....take care and enjoy your day....
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 7:11 AM
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Yeah, and when my husband gets that blank stare in front of the TV,
I have to remind myself that's he really is just tired from work. Then I just sit up close, rub the shoulders - a tired man always appreciates that.
posted by
TARZANA
on June 18, 2004 at 7:03 AM
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Anytime sunshine!
posted by
Jay9
on June 18, 2004 at 5:49 AM
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thanks Jay9
thank you for your advice..for you commenting and for obviously reading me............it means a greal deal thank you again .............have a great day.............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 5:46 AM
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Happy that things workd out last night. I think you need to focus on the
happy times now. He has read your letter and knows how you feel so give him some time to prove he can try and improve. It might not be so easy for him either. Treasure the special moments and try remember them if things get rough. Marriage is a constant effort and it takes two. RIgth now it seems he is trying. Try give him the benefit of the doubt.
posted by
Jay9
on June 18, 2004 at 5:41 AM
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thanks Ariala
I sure hope there will be more special times...........thank you for caring..............you are a wonderful friend
take care and enjoy your day
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2004 at 5:23 AM
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Sounds like a happy ending to a rough time...wishing you lots more of
these special times...
posted by
Ariala
on June 18, 2004 at 5:20 AM
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