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telynor,
Thank you for your kind comments. I really do appreciate it.
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 11, 2004 at 10:51 PM
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Thank you, Ariala, I hope she does too! And WileyC,
You brought tears to my eyes with your comments. I know it's her problem, but unfortunately, her problem is my sadness. Still, I go on with my life cause what else can I do? Thank you
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 11, 2004 at 10:49 PM
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My heart ached while reading this. As a previous commenter said, this is NOT your problem. You tried, and she refused to reply. I hope some sort of resolution comes through for you.
posted by
telynor
on May 10, 2004 at 9:47 PM
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spitfire
My heart cry`s for you
However, I would be told by Dr. Margaret(my loving psychotherapist) when I tell her about some of my kids, "John, that is their problem, not yours."
Spitfire, this is not your problem, it is your mum's, and only she can solve it. Pray for her, just that. Turn it over to Himself(God, however you know that entity).
Love your man, love yourself and NEVER allow any other person to take that love away from you.
I am a father, old man, live, love,be happy and just PRAY for mum.
posted by
WileyJohn
on May 10, 2004 at 7:09 PM
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Spitfire, wow, that is truly sad...I'm sorry and hope she'll come around.
posted by
Ariala
on May 10, 2004 at 5:12 PM
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Pecan-
Thank you for those comments..actually, they do make perfect sense. A friend of mine who is very close with her mom got married and her mom suddenly became very aloof and cold towards her. She got over it quickly (the mom) but she told me that maybe my mom was doing the same thing. I just don't get it. A couple years ago, I flew home to Chicago for her 60th birthday party that was catered and we had it at a nice clubhouse. All attention was on her and I was happy for her. Mom loves M and knows he is so good to me and we love eachother so much. He even bought gifts and wrote a personal letter to her, to my dad, and one to my brother just to assure them that he will do his best to take care of me and that they have nothing to worry about. I mean, come on! How much cooler could he be? Then for her to not even say goodbye to us when she left the wedding? She's got problems that I don't know if I can help her with.
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 10, 2004 at 4:59 PM
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Katray-
Holy crap! What a potty mouth that Twain moron is! Temper temper!! Thanks for re posting it for me. I couldn't find the comments before. Wow. He needs help
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 10, 2004 at 4:53 PM
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On second thought...
Maybe my blogs are whackier than I realize and it isn't showing up for anybody else!?? 
Here is the post:
Thursday, April 29, 2004
I'VE JUST BEEN CALLED A TRAITOR AND DOG DOO DOO...
on this blog:
Monday, April 26, 2004
Repost
AND THE BEAT GOES ON...CIVILIAN DEATHS IN IRAQ OVER 10,000 SINCE
THE START OF THE WAR LAST YEAR...
OVER 10,000 innocent men, women and helpless CHILDREN.....This number is courtesy of Amnesty International and reflects slaughters committed by rebels, insurgents and coalition troops - smart bombs that proved tragically, fatally stupid, a "shoot first, ask questions later" mentality and mistaken identities.
posted by katray at 2:51 PM Comments (5) (link)
It never ceases to amaze me how stupid some people are....
And, lonebutte, who gives a rat's ass about Iraqi civilians? More than likely, they support the enemy and should be killed. Better them than any Americans or coalition soldiers. What about the innocent American civilians who were slaughtered 9/11? Another fucking, piece of shit traitorous liberal enemy of America heard from. You, too, can go and fuck yourself!!
Posted by on April 29, 2004 at 2:21 PM (link)
another virus among us
You traitorous, liberal piece of dog shit. You are one of the enemy within. But, you know, try as you and your moronic, liberal friends are, you won't bring down the USA. Go fuck yourself!!!!
Posted by on April 29, 2004 at 2:16 PM (link)
Where's Passionflower?? According to her, the proper response would be: "Eat sh** and die!! But perhaps I should say: " EAT ME AND DIE!!!" (YUMMY) 
...What a way to go, lol...
Seriously, some Bush supporters are obviously desperate, deranged souls who can't handle the truth staring them in the face. Instead of intelligent, reasoned disagreement and debate, all they can do is spew insults and nastiness. Because they having nothing else to defend their man with. Yes, I understand your anger and frustration, Twain. You're just directing it the wrong way. BECOME A DEMOCRATIC LIBERAL!!! Living well is the best revenge, believe me!! 
posted by
Katray2
on May 10, 2004 at 7:25 AM
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That is so sad Spitfire. Kind of reminds me of my situation with my mother, who is not well either...by definite choice. You made as much effort as possible, all you can do is hope she will reconsider. You are wise not to allow this to negatively influence your life. I know it hurts deeply though...
Btw, thanks for reading my blog. There seems to be something weird going on between my two blogs: The Beat Goes On and Blogit Roasts and Toasts. I posted Twains comments in Blogit R.&T., yet the majority of comments to it appear in The Beat Goes On. The post with his lovely remarks are showing on my computer in Blogit R.&T., if you want to give it another try:
BLOGIT ROASTS AND TOASTS - 10 days ago
I'VE JUST BEEN CALLED A TRAITOR AND DOG DOO DOO... - on this blog: Monday,...
On Blogging - Popularity rank: 533
I suppose I did something whacky to cause this, but I have no idea what, lol.
posted by
Katray2
on May 10, 2004 at 7:12 AM
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Hey Sis,
She may have some issues with your happiness right now. That day was centered all on you, as any wedding should be centered on the bride (or brides--tee hee). Maybe she is dealing with the fact that her baby is, in fact, now on her own and won't ever NEED Mom again. Maybe she is losing it a little. Regardless, you can only love and hold your head above water. Don't let her pull you down.
posted by
CatLadyintheAttic
on May 10, 2004 at 7:08 AM
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Thank you, BB,
I will be kind to her in my thoughts and no, I won't let her drag me down. It's her decision to live in the light or darkness she chooses.
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 10, 2004 at 2:12 AM
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Spitfire
I wish that I could say something helpful. Continue to be yourself and be kind to her and if she doesn't respond well so be it.... ..... and yes don't let it drag you down.
posted by
beachbelle
on May 10, 2004 at 1:26 AM
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Thanks, PassionF,
I know. It sucks.
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 10, 2004 at 12:47 AM
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I feel for you. I have some people in my life like this too. There's nothing you can do when you try to reach out, discuss the issues but they refuse. It takes 2 people.
posted by
Passionflower
on May 10, 2004 at 12:29 AM
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