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hey there maxine, must feel good to have an hour free from kids. they can really tire you out . thanks for your comment on my journal essay dear disease. im staying off the computer alittle bit more so i can use my brain and do some writing, but i come back to look around several times a day. I just need a bit of a break. question: who was that person that can analyse dreams? i take it you posted that but i didnt get the name? okay have a great day, it is terrible weather here rain. love andblessings tammy
posted by
tammyjean
on April 15, 2004 at 7:27 AM
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Thank You
| Let me know I would love to hear about your experience, It is a very serious problem and one that many ignore. |
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posted by
StrickGold
on April 15, 2004 at 6:59 AM
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Passionflower has a point. When people are hurting, they often lash out the people they love most. Hope things get better between you. ta-ta.
posted by
Eric-Charles
on April 15, 2004 at 6:32 AM
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Maxine:::Your life's not so difficult. Every family has trouble and arguments. Just ask anyone. It's completely normal to get into fights with brothers, sisters, cousins, etc. It happens to all of us from time to time.
The next thing I would check is to ask around and see if she's going thru some really painful crap in her personal life. Maybe she's sick. Maybe her husband is leaving her. Maybe something awful is wrong in her life that's caused her to lash out like this.
Next, you didn't do anything wrong, so stop feeling bad. Just calmly tell her how she hurt you and that you can't understand why she did but anytime she's ready to air it out, you're open for it. This can be a good time for you two to strenghten your ties, though it doesn't appear to be on the surface.
Relationships of any kind that make it thru crap like this always come out stronger on the other side.
posted by
Passionflower
on April 15, 2004 at 5:54 AM
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hi maxine, you are a good writer and you have such a warm heart, keep your chin up. I just posted an essay called Dear Disease under my Journal blog. id love your opinion and you might be able to relate well to it, i encourag you to read it and give me your opinion. good day mate!! blessings. tammyjean
posted by
tammyjean
on April 14, 2004 at 10:56 AM
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thankyou beachbelle
this does make sense. but im so hurt at the moment, maybe after a couple of days I might feel different but there was no need for her to be this hurtful, I would never treat an enemy the way she treated me. so im confused just because lifes to short its ok for her to put me down and make me feel bad about myself. im not to sure if that is true although I do see what you are saying so thankyou for your advice take care love maxine
posted by
_Symphony_
on April 14, 2004 at 6:23 AM
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I think it's because she's like family that she resorted to that - my family's the same way. But beachbelle's right, if at the end of the day you can trust her to be there for you, then just find a way to put the argument back into proportion and make up.
posted by
JadedMind
on April 14, 2004 at 6:23 AM
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Maxine
If there was a life or death situation would you be there for your cousin and would she be there for you?
If the answer is yes why let something come between you? My oldest friends are brother and sister and are now not speaking over a disagreement and subsequent misunderstandings. I refused to take sides and have remained friends with both but I think it is crazy.
posted by
beachbelle
on April 14, 2004 at 6:17 AM
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