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Thanks for the positive comments, Jemmie!
Unfortunately, Jem, you've proved one of his points (I know you didn't intend to, but it's a fact, whether we like the idea or not). He takes a sort of preadolescent pleasure in seeing to it that normal people are sickened by his ideas. (He calls normal people "nillers," and the resemblance of that word to the racial epithet is deliberate on his part. According to him, normies are little better than trailer trash, complete with the engine block in the front yard.) The only way not to fall into his trap is to avoid being sickened by what he says, even if what he says is sickening. You can go from there to pointing out exactly how abusive his material is. (Trust me, that drives him, and people like him, absolutely nuts, and there isn't a thing he can do about our viewpoint.)
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kidnykid
on March 4, 2004 at 1:53 PM
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kidnykid
I have always believed that you have an excellent blog here about abuse and abusers. It has helped me a lot in trying to help my friends who are in similar relationships as the one you experienced. I do worry about you, however. You mentioned a few times that you've visited your ex's website. Long ago, I went to see it for myself and was so sickened that I had to leave it within a minute or so. I worry that your visits there may be making you relive your pain, and I'd hate for that to happen!
I'll continue praying for you and thinking good thoughts. And you are certainly right about what goes around comes around. He'll have even more bad karma coming to him.
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Jemmie211
on March 3, 2004 at 2:09 PM
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