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this is true. You never know... ;)
posted by
-blackcat
on April 23, 2017 at 12:36 PM
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That doesn't have to be online dating. Some people meet online elsewhere sometimes. ;-)
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 23, 2017 at 11:52 AM
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Maybe. I don't have the answers but I feel like it would end-up as whatever the people involved allow it to become? Maybe I should write a post about it. LOL My friends recommend online dating because it's how they found their spouses, but I haven't tried it yet. I guess we'll see! 
posted by
-blackcat
on April 23, 2017 at 10:55 AM
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Well, maybe it's actually easier to fall in love online. Or even just getting attracted by a person online. But it may end-up as a socalled cyberspace relationship.
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 23, 2017 at 9:28 AM
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hmmm... well, falling in love in general is a risk. It's always a game of head vs. heart... I'm not sure if online or distance or any number of things matter as much as connection? Is it any less difficult to fall for the person next door? I don't know... I could ask the same question...
posted by
-blackcat
on April 23, 2017 at 7:03 AM
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So, letting him fall in love online would be better?
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 22, 2017 at 10:25 PM
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Re: kas
I see your problem but I don't think you should silence the brave, smart and even charming side of you... this alter-ego sounds like a good guy.
posted by
-blackcat
on April 22, 2017 at 6:29 PM
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I think he's the brave part. Well, he doesn't have to worry. If he messes up the stuff I'm the one who's blamed.
The reason why I might have to silence him is: He could meet somebody online (living far away) and end up having a crush on her.
You see my little problem about him?
But again, he's the brave and smart (even kind of charming) part of me.
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 22, 2017 at 1:32 PM
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Re: kas
lol... what is the issue with your alter-ego? Is he braver than the rest? Why would you try to silence him? It sounds like he's got your best interests at heart. 
also... YES! I think you know it's time to let her go. We all have past loves that inspired us and that we learned from, but we can't live in the past or move backwards. I also think it's a little bit of a defense mechanism, (ie. to stay in the mode of "what might have been"). We can easily use it as an excuse to keep us safe because the unknown is scary.... and I'm speaking from experience.
posted by
-blackcat
on April 22, 2017 at 7:31 AM
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I don't know if it was a good or a bad weird. It just felt weird. But you can call me Kas if you want to, it's alright.
About this girl from the past, I guess I should move on and think "she may have inspired me for some poems and lyrics, but it's time to move on and see what the future brings me instead".
I'm just a bit (kind of) worried. My alter-ego could get attracted/charmed by somebody who is not even nearby. Afterall, the guy doesn't have to worry about his looks or things like that. And if that happens, what can I do to convince the S.O.A.B. to keep it to himself?
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 21, 2017 at 3:38 PM
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keep chatting her!
posted by
Annicita
on April 21, 2017 at 3:19 PM
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Trouble is Kasper people change. Most seemed to when I looked them in the eyes.
posted by
C_C_T
on April 21, 2017 at 9:39 AM
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Re: kasper
Is it a good weird or a bad weird? I'm not sure what prompted me to call you kas... it just felt right. But I understand associations and mixed feelings so I can call you kaspy if you prefer?
I didn't realize that you had already chatted her. I don't think you're a coward. That was brave! If it didn't go anywhere, maybe it's not meant to.... but I know it's tough to move on. Been there! But it'll happen... when you least expect it. :)
posted by
-blackcat
on April 21, 2017 at 5:53 AM
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I like that. A "crush"...I haven't had one of those for a long, long time. I miss them.
posted by
TAPS.
on April 21, 2017 at 5:28 AM
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First, I would say, it's a bit weird to see you call me "kas". Last person I remember calling me that, was my sister who was also the person I loved the most in all the entire world.
But back to the subject, I already tried to start a chat, and she also replied. But of course, I did it in without mentioning anything like what you mentioned (something from the past or something like that). If you want to, just call me a coward. Hehe.
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 21, 2017 at 12:05 AM
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Fine poem! The reality of some things can be hurtful at times! sam 
posted by
sam444
on April 20, 2017 at 4:19 PM
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Re: kas
yes... you could move on, but part of you is obviously stuck on the what if.
Does she appear single? Why not start a chat on FB messenger? Say "hey I just saw (something appropriate from fb or your past-- make something up) and it made me think of you. Wanted to say hi and hope all is well!" and see how she responds. At the least, you may have your answer. Or you may get a real friend back. Or more...
I've had it happen to me and it has rekindled a few friendships! 
posted by
-blackcat
on April 20, 2017 at 1:32 PM
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First reason, it's a long time ago.
Second reason, we don't really meet up. We're FB friends and that's all we are now.
Maybe I should just go on and tell myself it's time to find true love somewhere else. 😃
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 20, 2017 at 1:23 PM
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why can't you tell her now?
posted by
-blackcat
on April 20, 2017 at 12:55 PM
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I just never told her.
posted by
kasperhoe
on April 20, 2017 at 12:53 PM
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Someone missed out on a really special guy. perhaps she just didn't deserve you. You write your feelings so well love.
posted by
Kabu
on April 20, 2017 at 11:13 AM
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I do hope she at least likes the poem/song, because it's very nice. And you will meet someone just for you! 
posted by
Sea_Gypsy
on April 20, 2017 at 11:05 AM
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