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Not angry? Really?
You sound angry, with hurt feelings fueling it. Resentment... also understandable. And the only way to fix it is to communicate. Which could make a lot of the bad feelings evaporate like mist when the sun comes out.
Your friend needed time away from the relationship... Now you do. Sometimes time and safe distance is what starts the healing. But communication is what grows the relationship past the tangled bits.
posted by
Ciel
on June 9, 2015 at 12:47 PM
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Sometimes people blame someone they know will forgive them, rather than someone who they know will not.
posted by
C_C_T
on June 5, 2015 at 11:53 PM
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You keep saying you are not upset but clearly you are. If it was so silly in your mind for them to be upset why not be the bigger person and just let it go?
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Annicita
on June 5, 2015 at 8:40 PM
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Give it time love and do see your friend if he does come out next year. Take things slow, know that you have done all you can, and remember that life is very short...xxxx
posted by
Kabu
on June 5, 2015 at 11:20 AM
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Here is to hoping that things solve themselves.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on June 5, 2015 at 10:19 AM
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We are going through similar situations. gchat or text me if you need to talk. I know this hurts.
Prayers and love.
posted by
Amanda__
on June 5, 2015 at 8:27 AM
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