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Re: mariss9
It could be.. you might be right.. I am not sure if it was my doing!!
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 22, 2013 at 10:18 PM
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I can see trying to restore someone if you think it was your doing, but if they are too far gone, it may be best to give up before you demonetize with them. They could have been that way before and deceived you.
posted by
mariss9
on July 22, 2013 at 9:25 PM
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Re: Annicita
Indeed you're right.. This person....
I couldn't help them.. nor they could help me.. This person is close to me... but as you said, you can bring the horse to the water, but you cannot make it drink.. Have a nic week you too...
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 22, 2013 at 5:16 PM
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Re: That's the origin of a buddy.
Oh.. is it??
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 22, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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There is a lesson in there for you saif....you can't change anybody but yourself...you can be there for them but you can't change them....most people when you try to change them become adamant that they don't need to change....the question is how important and valuable is this person in your life? does this person contribute or tear down or destroy? Negative people enjoy bringing you down to their level rather than you helping them come up to your level...be careful and have an amazing week!
posted by
Annicita
on July 22, 2013 at 4:24 PM
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That's the origin of a buddy.
posted by
BC-A
on July 22, 2013 at 12:03 PM
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Re: Blue_feathers
Yes, we need to release the demon within...
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 22, 2013 at 11:57 AM
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Re: Dr_JPT
Oh.. What a situation! I hope your brother has found a way...
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 22, 2013 at 11:56 AM
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sometimes you just have to get it out
posted by
Blue_feathers
on July 22, 2013 at 9:31 AM
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Hmmm... I think of that analogy of Frankenstein. There is no hope for some monsters who develop after good will. They become arrogant and out of control. It happened with my brother. He got one of the Orphan Annie types who was homely in facial features. She got in the family and was the helpless type and everyone helped her. Over time my brother started waking up. Then she became obsessed with him. Later enlisted her daughters. Finally he blew up and under the Florida he was run out if his own home though he tried starting in 2010 to get that incorrigible daughter out of his house to no avail. Be careful. Zebras cannot change their stripes.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on July 22, 2013 at 9:28 AM
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Re: Sinome
I think I will follow...
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 22, 2013 at 1:54 AM
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I agree with Kabu... the key is unconditional love... the only way. xoxoxo
posted by
Sinome
on July 21, 2013 at 8:14 PM
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Re: This is very cool..
It's never too late.. :) Welcome. .
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 21, 2013 at 5:27 PM
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Re: MsJudy
You're most welcome..
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 21, 2013 at 5:25 PM
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Re: lovelyladymonk
I can'r say more...
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 21, 2013 at 5:25 PM
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This is very cool..
I don't know how I missed this blog? Your writings are captivating and heart felt!
posted by
SomeoneElse
on July 21, 2013 at 3:52 PM
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I really liked your poem! Thank you for sharing it.
posted by
MsJudy
on July 21, 2013 at 3:47 PM
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I can identify with this so well, Saif...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on July 21, 2013 at 2:29 PM
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Re: Kabu
Thank you Kabu.. It is indeed the only way for peace...
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 21, 2013 at 11:47 AM
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Re: C_C_T
I couldn't agree more... I want to change things.. If only I coul go back..
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 21, 2013 at 11:46 AM
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Re: FormerSudentIntern
Let's hope so.. I hate to watch it..
posted by
Saif_AlKindi
on July 21, 2013 at 11:45 AM
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Dear friend i think it all comes down to unconditional love...it is the only way for peace, first within ourselves and then to spread to others we come in contact with.
posted by
Kabu
on July 21, 2013 at 11:37 AM
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It is all in the mind Saif, we walk with whom we will.
posted by
C_C_T
on July 21, 2013 at 10:35 AM
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Hopefully that person can get rid of that demon.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on July 21, 2013 at 10:05 AM
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