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Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on July 25, 2010 at 9:50 AM
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I cannot imagine the amount of sadness and frustration you are feeling right now as these events unfold. I pray that everything works out for the best.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on July 24, 2010 at 5:10 PM
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Oh no and I thought I was having a bad day, have you spoke at all to the airlines, maybe they will work with you. But then again why would they care they dont lose anything. Good luck solving this problem, I cant blame you for thinking like you are
posted by
Lanetay
on July 24, 2010 at 10:09 AM
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Kabu
Get on the plane!! Wiley says go....there's not a dang thing you can do for him by being there. I've had so many outpatient surgeries while my hubby sat home watching TV I couldn't even begin to tell you! I'm not comparing him to you, just telling you that a once a year trip that involves going to see all those folks you left behind versus waiting around when Wiley himself tells you it's unnecessary....don't do that to yourself!!!! You're not lovin' him any less by thinking about him from Australia!!
posted by
Krisles
on July 24, 2010 at 9:26 AM
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Re: Kabu, my heart aches with you...I know that place, that feeling, that
Ariala....there is something just plain wrong about this picture.....LOLOL
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on July 24, 2010 at 8:22 AM
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Have you thought about Cancellation Insurance?
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posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on July 24, 2010 at 8:21 AM
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Kabu, I know you will make the right decision because it will come from
both your head and your heart...it must seem like a "Catch-22" situation, but try not to look or think of it that way (I know, much easier said than done)...praying for you (and Wiley) to see you way through this, and I know you will.
....
posted by
Rumor
on July 24, 2010 at 8:07 AM
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Kabu
Go and enjoy your trip! Wiley is gonna have Day Surgery, not the kind where you get strapped down, get pumped full of stuff through twenty-seven tubes (yep, twenty-seven, I counted them once!) and have ten docs and fifteen nurses hovering around...Not that he would mind the nurses, probably...
But in any case, he's gonna have fun, and will likely win a bundle at the Hull Casino to boot! He is certainly welcome to any of the money I lost the last time I dropped in there...
posted by
Nautikos
on July 24, 2010 at 6:38 AM
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Well, Kabu's dilemma made me a bit anxious by proxy,
knowing the push-pull of emotions that come with separating even for a brief time from loved ones. But Wiley's response did bring a happy tear. Sweet girl, you will drive yourself crazy if you worry about every possible thing that can go wrong. It ought to be clear by now that someone is watching over you and Wiley, and things will work out as they should.
posted by
Pat_B
on July 24, 2010 at 4:39 AM
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Kabu, my heart aches with you...I know that place, that feeling, that
sadness, but like Wiley said, he will be okay and it is just day surgery. Still, we support you whatever you decide. But just know the BL is always there to cook for Wiley. 
posted by
Ariala
on July 24, 2010 at 4:09 AM
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My Heart is Truly with You....
posted by
WaterKat
on July 24, 2010 at 1:09 AM
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Tears
Kabu: I must agree with WileyJohn..and as you yourself said the hospital system is kinda screwy so you could end up staying for not. I do understand how you feel, you want to be there with him for yourself as much as for him/LB
posted by
MsJudy
on July 24, 2010 at 12:37 AM
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Kabu
{ Oh boy that would have happened with me if my aunt had been still alive when I went into the hospital. She passed away a year before or else my mother would had been in your dilemma love. BC-A, Bill’s RJLst
posted by
BC-A
on July 23, 2010 at 11:29 PM
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Re: Kabuiepie-;)
Poor Kabu this is a horrible feeling, one gets to a point where one can't make a decision. There is no easy answer to this one. Although which ever one you take will be the right one we cannot live two lives at the same time.
posted by
C_C_T
on July 23, 2010 at 10:20 PM
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It's so tough to choose between...
posted by
Straightforward
on July 23, 2010 at 10:05 PM
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Sorry you were upset with such a dilemna. Maybe it will be alright anyway either way you choose, will offer up a prayer.
posted by
mariss9
on July 23, 2010 at 9:49 PM
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Kabuiepie-;)
Ach no upset darlin' it's day surgery, I'll stay in the Comfort Inn which I can commute from to and fro to the hospital by cab, and you've heard the expression; "While the cat's away etc......" I may even have a supper in the Casino.
So dry your eyes darlin', I looked after meself for many years, and life is too short to make a mountain out of a mole hill. We knew all about the aussie return trips before we married, so smile and remember we have Blogit friends that are like family and I won't be alone hear? I love you.
posted by
WileyJohn
on July 23, 2010 at 9:24 PM
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