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I just like being alone! I need the quiet to write!  sam

posted by sam444 on May 25, 2010 at 7:54 PM | link to this | reply

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FORMERSTUDENT, I know, it freaked me right out!

posted by dsm_tchr on May 25, 2010 at 5:36 PM | link to this | reply

Amazing all the types of terms associated with love. I never gave thought to there being so many diverse types and feelings and things that were though to be love but were not really.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 25, 2010 at 5:31 PM | link to this | reply

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Darson, right, who doesn't like not being badgered?

posted by dsm_tchr on May 25, 2010 at 4:00 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Consummate love
Inspired woman2010, thank you for the visit.  I'll be over again soon!

posted by dsm_tchr on May 25, 2010 at 3:59 PM | link to this | reply

Consummate love
Wow! really good blog. I know I have finally found my consummate love. I was in a infatuation love and a self destructive and controlling relationship before getting to the good love that I feel I can accomplish anything. He feels the same way too. My husband and I are grateful for each other and grateful for not having to keep looking for each other. :)) Keep Inspiring!

posted by Inspired_Woman2010 on May 25, 2010 at 3:52 PM | link to this | reply

There are things to be said for the loners, too. For the most part, they have some level of peace and are not badgered emotionally on a daily basis. But if you're gonna love, take it all the way. That consummate love thing sounded like the best option to me. It's what I'm shooting for. Nice post.

posted by Darson on May 25, 2010 at 7:51 AM | link to this | reply

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CORNCRAKE, I have no doubt you are correct!

posted by dsm_tchr on May 25, 2010 at 4:27 AM | link to this | reply

Quite interesting dsm . I wonder if it has a lot to do with being in the right place when one is young, just a thought.

posted by C_C_T on May 25, 2010 at 12:56 AM | link to this | reply

Thinking about all that makes me glad I've NOT had so many relationships

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on May 24, 2010 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

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shobana, thanks for the stop-n-chat!

posted by dsm_tchr on May 24, 2010 at 8:05 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Teach
  • wiley,  i think you and kabu have it down to an art!

posted by dsm_tchr on May 24, 2010 at 8:03 PM | link to this | reply

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lustorlove, lol!

posted by dsm_tchr on May 24, 2010 at 7:55 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Looking at my own relationship with my partner.....
waterkat, your close friendship implies intimacy.  sharing secrets, hopes and dreams?

posted by dsm_tchr on May 24, 2010 at 7:53 PM | link to this | reply

Dsm - so many kinds of love with different meanings. I think it begins with loving oneself first. Thanks so much for sharing this - very enlightening and your visit, and lol.

posted by shobana on May 24, 2010 at 7:50 PM | link to this | reply

I cant see any of my problems in this at all

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2010 at 7:05 PM | link to this | reply

Real love has to start with loving God and self before one can truly love
another.....then all the good stuff is possible. Romance..trust ..intimacy...friendship...companion...parent ...child....

posted by Kabu on May 24, 2010 at 7:00 PM | link to this | reply

Teach
Without the kind of love where God- as one understands Him/Her- as the first part in the love between two people to give faith to that love, it isn't going anywhere good.......

posted by WileyJohn on May 24, 2010 at 6:55 PM | link to this | reply

Lol kingmi....Don't ask me for advice on this subject!  I'm definitely NOT in a position to be of any kind of help.

posted by lovelyladymonk on May 24, 2010 at 6:28 PM | link to this | reply

Looking at my own relationship with my partner.....
 I find that there is a little mixture of a few of these different qualities.  For example we have the close friendship, but with committment, and a little romance thrown in, but without the intimacy. What type of love would this be called?   

posted by WaterKat on May 24, 2010 at 6:17 PM | link to this | reply