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Another example of their rudeness and disrespect, vogue. You don't deserve to be treated like that. I'm so sorry...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on May 6, 2008 at 8:32 AM
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I hope that you'll have a more enjoyable time soon, love!
posted by
BC-A
on May 5, 2008 at 3:52 AM
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You're so dear Vogue ~
~ sorry but you know what you get a big hug for being so wonderful ~
~Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on May 4, 2008 at 11:00 PM
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What is friendship?
When a friendship goes listing because things are lopsided and out of balance, it's like being the featherweight trying to play on a teeter-totter with the heaviest kid in school. You always get left up in the air and the trip up there can knock your socks off or bruise your butt. And when they jump off their end, you return to earth can be abruptly fast and knock the wind out of you. It just doesn't work! Find someone else, hon, on which to bestow your time. (I would have been telling them to, "Hey, get a room!") Good posting!
CEE
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on May 4, 2008 at 7:29 PM
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vogue
What can I say. For one thing, you're too nice. I know that at one point I would have either said something, or just left, or both. I can put up with a lot, and I've had (and have) my share of crazy friends, but I cannot stand people who are totally inconsiderate! These people clearly are!
On the other hand, there's no reason to be depressed about it. You're making the right decision. There's no point in burning bridges, so talk to them on the phone, but let it go at that... 
posted by
Nautikos
on May 4, 2008 at 6:31 PM
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Boy-oh-boy
Do I ever know what you are speaking of. Lets just say that I have had an experience oh so similar to this one recently. But because I am being stalked here on the blog I shall just say, I know what your feeling luv
posted by
SEEDLINGS
on May 4, 2008 at 4:41 PM
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Vogue
I would have very nicely made some pointed remarks. If people start to stick their tongues down each others throats in my presence, be warned I am not SHY! I will say things like 'oh dear we had better get the meal soon you two are so hungry you are dribbling on each other's faces!'
So rude. They should have stayed home and gone to bed. Cross them off our list and be busy if they call.
posted by
Norwood
on May 4, 2008 at 3:47 PM
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They are inconsiderate and I think having contact by phone may be the best answer. sam
posted by
sam444
on May 4, 2008 at 2:02 PM
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Sounds like it's right about time to "divorce" these toxic friends. When you're not getting anything but grief out of a friendship, it's time to close the door on that chapter. I'm sure that you've tried. Move on to others who appreciate you!
Mal
posted by
gapcohen
on May 4, 2008 at 12:52 PM
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So sorry to hear about that awful night..Hope things work out for you..
posted by
Wigopa_
on May 4, 2008 at 12:49 PM
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maybe it was all an act, to impress you, but its like a first date, once you see the person up and close, maybe they arent what they seemed
posted by
Lanetay
on May 4, 2008 at 11:23 AM
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vogue
Sounds like pretty rude behaviour to me... If a couple is out for the evening with someone else (even if it's another couple) they should save the cooing until later and enjoy the company of the people they chose to go out with in the first place. Sounded all very strange to me....
posted by
Troosha
on May 4, 2008 at 10:53 AM
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That sounds like a horribly awkward evening--funny on a sitcom, but horrible in real life. On the other hand, I hope that I can stay out dancing until 2 in the morning when I'm 60.
posted by
jmh256
on May 4, 2008 at 10:19 AM
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Such friends are quite common nowadays and it's better one stays
away from them and of course it's not easy to guess anyone's character until you share some moments with them like you did . God bless !
posted by
afzal50
on May 4, 2008 at 10:10 AM
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This is an experience for you!
posted by
Kayzzaman
on May 4, 2008 at 10:07 AM
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Wow, what an uncomfortable evening you must have had! I'm sorry and
as for your friends, they sound a bit self-absorbed and insensitive...
posted by
Ariala
on May 4, 2008 at 10:05 AM
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