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Good timing, it being SPRING and all

posted by WindTapper on March 29, 2008 at 12:23 PM | link to this | reply

Cleaning is therapeutic, never mind the smell.

posted by vogue on March 29, 2008 at 6:03 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Soon it wil smell like Mr Clean!

Whacky, a cousin came to visit in the 70's and cleaned my house as I was terribly depressed and overwhelmed....she scrubbed walls, made the house move in new again. Wonderful. And, she did it with Mr. Clean, so I fixated on that smell.

The schools or someone used to use Pine sol, the old flavor and it means CLEAN to me, so, I use it for the smell that means I have been doing something positive around the house.

posted by benzinha on March 28, 2008 at 12:24 PM | link to this | reply

Re: actually, some of us hate it, but there are times when I want to
clean my life away and forget all else on Earth, so you are right.....thanks for reading and commenting, hope26.

posted by benzinha on March 28, 2008 at 12:22 PM | link to this | reply

Re: thanks, sam444, I need those well wishes.

posted by benzinha on March 28, 2008 at 12:21 PM | link to this | reply

Soon it wil smell like Mr Clean!
That's good!
=^. .^= Bo is smiling about something. I am too! A rose from me!

posted by Whacky on March 27, 2008 at 10:18 PM | link to this | reply

Grandma's love to clean

posted by hope26 on March 27, 2008 at 4:29 PM | link to this | reply

I wish you well!  sam

posted by sam444 on March 27, 2008 at 3:41 PM | link to this | reply

Re: the mouse

Here is what my daughter, you remember her,what she does. She leaves the house a mess and explains why, then goes on with life.

Her in-laws are fabulous enough to side with her and to upbraid their son about not being a helpmate....especially when circumstances are really yucky.

I hurt myself once, terribly after having my uterus removed, trying to be all that I was not and should not have been.....and it messed me up forever in a way, giving me painful adhesions and other residual things....don't pick up, don't move furniture, don't mop, don't lift large clothing baskets, don't don't don't.

Sit and have tea with her and talk about the weather and leave the mess to the gods.  Maybe she will take pity and hire a maid or stop talking over tea and pitch in. You never know until you leave the mess for them to witness.

And, unhelpful husbands who lose wives over small things like, no compassion, no empathy, no partnership and sharing the load behaviors and side kick behaviors, well, they do get kicked to the curb as the black girls say, and the fellows still wonder why...."but, honey, why? I haven't helped out for years, so why does it suddenly make you insane this time?"

posted by benzinha on March 27, 2008 at 2:10 PM | link to this | reply

the mouse
Yes, I need to do this. The cat brings in all. And my MiL arrives Saturday, and I've no chance

to scrub because of recent surgery, workload, doing our taxes. And my husband and looks upon the chaos and blames me, and I look on upon the chaos, where I spend my life yet have not time to clear, because I must make up the money to keep us because his wage is too small, and yet now he is given a chance to make a good wage using his skill, he refuses to take it. So  I wrote to the woman, and said let me see how I fare at the job please.

And i wonder that he can hate it so like this yet not allow change. Perhaps he fears I will go, and he is right to fear that.  And I am awake because a small child wet a bed, and she cried in the night, and when I took my body, which is not yet meant to lift or stretch so, I found the sheets and protector had been put on so lightly that the mattress is wet through too. And so often amid a scene like this, I come out and narrowly avoid stepping on a mouse. I feel like the mouse right now.

posted by Azur on March 27, 2008 at 9:45 AM | link to this | reply