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sunny
that would be a struggle, and I wish you strength, he is exhausting you.  I hope you have a peaceful and happy Christmas.

posted by mneme on December 23, 2006 at 5:26 AM | link to this | reply

MandaLee
Because he won't let go.  I don't live with him, so don't have to see him too often, thank goodness. It's just the phone calls that get to me the most.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 22, 2006 at 10:13 AM | link to this | reply

mneme
Thanks. I'm not married to him, so basically my only issues with him are getting him to let go, and also dealing with him for my son's sake.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 22, 2006 at 10:12 AM | link to this | reply

Timmy
Hahaha.  That would be a really great idea!...but I don't smoke  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 22, 2006 at 10:11 AM | link to this | reply

Bel

The sad part is that he is local. It's a toll call for him, but when he pays his bill on time, it's included in his service.

He needs to let go soon. He knows this.

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 22, 2006 at 10:10 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny
Make it clear to him that he needs to limit his calls to discussing things involving your son. If he feels the need to talk to you about anything else, it will need to be on HIS dime.

posted by bel_1965 on December 22, 2006 at 7:27 AM | link to this | reply

sunny
Yup, sounds like an ex alright. As for your stress......I find that smoking a big fat one does the trick.........ffffffffffffffffffftttttt......'ere

posted by TIMMYTALES on December 21, 2006 at 11:04 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny,
any of these are grounds for divorce in the UK, and in Australia you could take out an AVO (apprehended violence order).  I do sympathise; these guys never let up.

posted by mneme on December 21, 2006 at 6:28 AM | link to this | reply

sunny, if you are still with your abusive bf, why? don't be afraid to
leave.

posted by Amanda__ on December 21, 2006 at 6:19 AM | link to this | reply

Star
Thanks so much. Hopefully I will be soon.  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 20, 2006 at 8:21 PM | link to this | reply

 Afzal  

Know that I love you with all my heart.  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 20, 2006 at 8:20 PM | link to this | reply

hey sunny, hope u are feeling better

posted by star4sky5 on December 20, 2006 at 8:16 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny,
If it's you I am willing to consume any poison provided it gives my honey some relief. You have to suck the poison out in emergency when some one you love is in risk of loosing life due to a snake bite. I am here my love ready to do anything for you.Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on December 20, 2006 at 8:16 PM | link to this | reply

kingmi
I'm sorry to hear that. It's good to know that you were able to break free from it and find peace for you and your children.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 20, 2006 at 8:15 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal
Thanks, sweetheart. I know that you are so very kind and loving.  You are so very sweet to me. I'm being poisoned by him right now, intentionally or not doesn't even matter at this point.  What's even worse is that I feel like I'm poisoning you with the negativity as well. I love you.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 20, 2006 at 8:13 PM | link to this | reply

sunnybeach, My marriage was full of this crap. I'm so
Glad to be free! So are the children.

posted by kingmi on December 20, 2006 at 8:11 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny,
I promise to stand by you at all critical times . I love you more than any one in this world . I just can't wait to talk to you .Just after one hour from now I will send the link for you. Anxiously waiting to be with you .Yours.

posted by afzal50 on December 20, 2006 at 7:52 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal
Thanks. You know that I haven't been feeling well.  This happens when I let all the stress in life break my barriers and let the negativity get to me.  Then it becomes very hard to break free from.
With me in a weakend state, he is able to take even more advantage.  So know that your love and support are very important to me at this time. And that I sincerely appreciate everything you do/are to me.  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on December 20, 2006 at 7:17 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny,
I can't bear to hear any longer .I just want to be near you to help you out of this mess. I am feeling very sorry for all this state of affairs which you are facing and passing through . I need to talk to you over this . I shall send the link exactly after two hours . Know that I shall always be with you . I have an unending love for you . I want to see happy always . I liked your morning sms .Thanks.I miss you.

posted by afzal50 on December 20, 2006 at 7:07 PM | link to this | reply