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Miss N, thank you for you support.

posted by kingmi on January 22, 2006 at 5:25 PM | link to this | reply

Kingmi...
I agree... it is a cult in every sense of the word. This coming from a person who is totally INdependent.

posted by Transcendental_Child on January 22, 2006 at 3:29 PM | link to this | reply

mir1, Thanks for reading and commenting...........Have a great day!

posted by kingmi on January 22, 2006 at 11:17 AM | link to this | reply

Jack, thank you for that sensitive and compassionate expression of empathy!

posted by kingmi on January 22, 2006 at 11:16 AM | link to this | reply

Hi Kingme,
It isn't easy to admit; "I am an alcoholic/drug addict etc", I admire these people, who are honest and brave enough to do it. I come from a typical, quiet family - my parents don't like strong alcohol. Neither do I. The same conerns drugs. I suppose I am quite strong and that's why when I feel a bit depressed I never think about drinking vodka or taking sth stronger to feel relaxed and better.When I'm stressed, I sleep longer, I try to be more creative or I take up sports, meet friends.

posted by mira1 on January 22, 2006 at 4:57 AM | link to this | reply

Kingmi,
It is an incredibly complex issue, but you are right.  Few involved in such a situation ever seem to quite understand.  Unfortunately, denial and psychological game-playing are not limited only to substance abuse situations.  They are parts of any dysfunctional human interaction.  Dependencies of a million kinds are rampant among mankind.   jack

posted by Jack_Flash on January 22, 2006 at 12:28 AM | link to this | reply