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Yeah -when you're young! it makes sense. i don't reckon taking love too seriously too young.
But eventually, we all want to connect on a deeper level with someone. when that time comes then it comes -you are guaranteed to know it when it does.
my motto is - that whatever i decide, whomever i choose to spend my life with, if ever, i will choose the one that satisfies me spirit, soul, body, mind and will -->UTTERLY, ETERNALLY, COMPLETELY...TOTALY!!! i would expect the same from my would be spouse.
don't compromise. EVER.
good thoughts from me
Cheers
posted by
poyaty28
on July 27, 2006 at 12:31 AM
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Are we brothers in a previous life?
Can I quote you on my blog? I love that last post. Simply the dream of every heterosexual male......or at least me.
posted by
DaveInCharleston
on July 7, 2006 at 1:31 PM
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Interesting - is it safe though?
posted by
Sabsline
on June 5, 2006 at 5:48 PM
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Jollyjeff
I am so happy I found you again. Thi is the most honest post I've ever read. Know what? By golly I want the same. LOL
posted by
WileyJohn
on April 1, 2006 at 10:01 PM
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That's funny tigerprincess
because I've often joked that my ideal girlfriend would be someone with multiple personality disorder LOL
posted by
jollyjeff
on February 19, 2006 at 10:37 AM
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That sounds like pretty much the same reason I want date
more than one person flocalgirl
posted by
jollyjeff
on February 19, 2006 at 10:36 AM
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It sounds like the key for you is to find a woman that is so fascinating to you, and has so many facets of personality ( like someone with Multiple Personality Disorder) that you're too busy with her to even desire other women.
posted by
tigerprincess
on February 18, 2006 at 9:04 PM
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My favorite quote is:
"You can have it all, just not at the same time".
Ironically it was Oprah who said this, but it is very true. I have found myself dating multiple people at the same time, but probably not for the same reasons as you do or want to. I could experience different things from different people. I have never found a man that has everything that I desire. But it was short lived and a lot of work, so now I am just really picky on who I feel is worthy of my time and emotion. So, just try not to wear yourself out, and since you're playing the numbers game, maybe you'll win the lottery :)
posted by
flcowgirl
on February 10, 2006 at 2:20 AM
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Jollyjeff--- Good luck with that. I tired it once. With intensive therapy,
I might recover in another 50 years or so.
posted by
Jazwolf
on February 1, 2006 at 8:40 PM
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What a kwink-E-dink
I want exactly what you want! Simple enough............you would think!!!!!!!
posted by
ALWAYSALOVER
on January 31, 2006 at 3:30 PM
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Thought I'd found her hope
but she left me for another man
posted by
jollyjeff
on January 25, 2006 at 12:25 PM
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Love
Why do you need so much women, just look for your soul-mate she will love you forever.
posted by
hope26
on January 24, 2006 at 3:53 PM
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Not familiar with that term cling?
posted by
jollyjeff
on January 23, 2006 at 8:40 AM
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Hmmm...You're a
slider...Don't worry, you'll snap out of it one day!
posted by
cling
on January 22, 2006 at 1:21 PM
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That's it Mira1
That was what I was saying---part of me wants that one-on-one relationship, but I'm attracted to many different women
posted by
jollyjeff
on January 19, 2006 at 9:04 AM
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Hi Jeff,
I seem to understand you - that's a dream of a man and men are not monogamic by nature (our culture makes them love one woman all their lives). Am I right?
posted by
mira1
on January 19, 2006 at 9:01 AM
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Jeff
I understand, but not today! Good luck with that my friend!!
posted by
Offy
on January 16, 2006 at 2:33 AM
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People have
limited capacities for romantic love, which requires attention. You can spend it all in one place, or you can spread it around. But our allotments don't allow for depth
and breadth. My experience has convinced me that anyone who claims they can achieve deep romantic relationships with multiple partners is either lying or dillusional. And it profits women to invest in relationships with men who are going to stick around, especially if those women want children. So it doesn't surprise me to hear that a majority of women more often seek to establish and maintain a deep relationship with one partner.
posted by
thirtysomething
on January 15, 2006 at 5:38 PM
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Fair enough
posted by
Azur
on January 13, 2006 at 2:46 PM
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Gotta say
I kind of resemble this 'want.'
posted by
ALWAYSALOVER
on January 13, 2006 at 2:44 PM
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Jeff
Ha ha! I could go for the same thing except with men! I've noticed that I really do much better in relationships when I date more then one guy at a time, it's just not as easy to meet single men now as it was when I was younger.
posted by
jojostar
on January 12, 2006 at 10:30 AM
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You made me laugh.
posted by
Nancy-R-H
on January 12, 2006 at 9:37 AM
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Thanks for pointing out the typo DrJPT
I fixed it. We'll have to see if we can get some women to chime in on this. My sense is that there are more women looking for "Mr. Right" than there are men looking for "Ms Right" I once read a survey which showed that 70% of women in college considered themselves to be in a serious romantic relationship whereas only 40% of the men said the same. So there must have been a lot of relationships that the woman considered serious and the man didn't
posted by
jollyjeff
on January 12, 2006 at 9:30 AM
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Interesting!! Do the Women Want the Same??
Should your opening word change to "A"?
posted by
Dr_JPT
on January 12, 2006 at 9:13 AM
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