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Wiley, fabricated debates don't do it for me

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 4:11 PM | link to this | reply

Yes quetzal it is hard to put the blade away. I liked you life rings post

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 4:10 PM | link to this | reply

yes ,indeed...
there is an art to persuasion.  a difficult thing to remember, however, once the blade is already drawn!  thx, too,  for visiting my piece on Life Rings.  i'm new to this gig and really appreciate the feedback. :)

posted by quetzal on May 1, 2005 at 4:02 PM | link to this | reply

MayB
Well, I guess I'm a whimp writer, I stay away from debates, and I especially  keep away from any writing that needs to  be nasty to survive.

posted by WileyJohn on May 1, 2005 at 2:58 PM | link to this | reply

Yes m'!

posted by majroj on May 1, 2005 at 8:03 AM | link to this | reply

thanks Ariala

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:36 AM | link to this | reply

Katray, you're right. it reminds me of children wanting attention

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:35 AM | link to this | reply

ThomasFranklin, thank you

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:26 AM | link to this | reply

kingmi, subtlety is best the way to deliver a strong view

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:25 AM | link to this | reply

great analogy -- tiger princess

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:10 AM | link to this | reply

Majroj, if it's me and I am angry I am in the right

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:07 AM | link to this | reply

Ca88andra, hit 'em with the vinegar later ;-)

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:03 AM | link to this | reply

Ha ha

posted by Azur on May 1, 2005 at 6:02 AM | link to this | reply

Dur... tehe

posted by cmoe on May 1, 2005 at 5:54 AM | link to this | reply

10 seconds and the joke's on you...

posted by cmoe on May 1, 2005 at 3:07 AM | link to this | reply

I was always told that one can attract more ants with honey than vinegar.

posted by Ca88andra on May 1, 2005 at 12:08 AM | link to this | reply

good point mayb

posted by littlemspickles on April 30, 2005 at 10:05 PM | link to this | reply

What if the angry person is right?

Not impossible.

 

HUMOR can be better than making people see gentle reason, and can be more vicious than your basic invective.

 

 

                                                                

posted by majroj on April 30, 2005 at 9:38 PM | link to this | reply

It reminds me of the tale of the sun and the wind where they made a bet to see who would get the guy to take his jacket off and the sun won through gentle coaxing.

posted by tigerprincess on April 30, 2005 at 9:33 PM | link to this | reply

Yep. Just so. I try not to be nasty, unless provoked so far that it's the only way to get someone to back off and leave me alone. By that point, I figure it's a lost cause. Motorcycle Diaries was a great film, precisely for the points that you mention. Eventually I will dig up the memoirs about that trip and read them. My watercolour instructor from last year recommended the film, came in one day just raving about it.

posted by telynor on April 30, 2005 at 8:15 PM | link to this | reply

Most people who read up on both sides of a debate take a more cautious line.  Great points!

posted by kingmi on April 30, 2005 at 7:45 PM | link to this | reply

I like that line 'exist only in their minds'. I could use that as an idea in fiction.

posted by ThomasFranklin on April 30, 2005 at 6:24 PM | link to this | reply

Good work, great points made...laugh it off when you can, that's what I do

(after I've gotten as many posts out of the ridiculous stuff as I possibly can)

posted by Ariala on April 30, 2005 at 5:39 PM | link to this | reply

So true May

Writing fueled by undisguised rage is devoid of meaning, 99 percent of the time. It can be an easy trap to fall into, especially when sharing your political or religious views. Strong emotions can overtake the pen, but all you will have is a piece that doesn't work, doesn't inform or enlighten.

posted by Katray2 on April 30, 2005 at 5:03 PM | link to this | reply