My husband and I have been trying to conceive for alomst ten years now. We both have a child from a previous relationship, and both of our mothers have lots of children (Christmas is really busy around here!). We don't understand why we together can't have a baby between us. Niether of us want to go to a doctor about this, due to both expense and distrust of doctors. What should we do? —Disappointed Roan: Dear Disappointed, obviously the infertility problem that your husband and you are... Sign in to see full entry.