Five questions, five answers...5 by 5. When is it right to have sex? Only when you're married? Are you a bad person if you don't want to get married? —Wally Roan: Are you a bad person if you don't want to get married? Of course not...marriage is not a prerequisite for being a "good" person and it is certainly not the only kind of "permanent" commitment that you can make to another. When is it right to have sex? Pretty much whenever you can. Getting married is a public commitment and a legally... Sign in to see full entry.