Five questions, five answers...5 by 5. I am having a real problem with trusting. I don’t trust my husband, I don’t trust my son and I really don’t trust my boss. Why are people so untrustworthy? —Shanika Roan: Shanika, everyone is trustworthy. The trick is to understand what you can trust a person to do and what you can trust him not to do. Let’s say your husband goes to work regularly, brings home a check and makes sure your bills are paid on time. You can trust your husband to be responsible... Sign in to see full entry.