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That was quite a tale to tell, but I am no good at giving advice. Hopefully time will heal the wounds.
posted by
TAPS.
on July 10, 2017 at 3:15 PM
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oh yes I forgot....welcome back!
posted by
Annicita
on July 10, 2017 at 1:16 PM
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I say let it go. Yes you are hurting but it will pass with time. We change, we grow sometimes together and sometimes apart. You can let her know that you are hurt she didn't tell you herself but what would you gain except that?
Maybe one day she will apologize. Maybe one day you will forgive her. Maybe just maybe you can move on with your lives together as friends again or separate.
posted by
Annicita
on July 10, 2017 at 1:15 PM
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Hello
I am new here. I have been reading blogs here and commenting when I can. I came across your blog and read it a few times to get a real understanding of it. I am really sorry for what you're going through. I know this is a cliche' but time heals all, and I think in time, your best friend will realize that there has been a misunderstanding on her part.
posted by
LLB67
on July 9, 2017 at 1:43 PM
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What a story! I think I'd be hurt, really hurt. I'd just let it be, at least for now.
posted by
Sea_Gypsy
on July 8, 2017 at 9:16 PM
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First welcome back. Nothing like good old \blogit for sympathetic company.
Love I am old and have seen friendships come and go. Mainly because most of my friends died in their sixties...are we ever going to have party one day over that bridge!!!
Two friends that I just adored let me down so badly....I tried to keep going...it is best to just let go.
Who knows all those years ago she may have wanted your ex. for herself. without realizing it properly.
The last friend that hurt so bad...she had given me a lot of gifts and I packed everything up and gave every itty bitty thing away or threw out. it is over and there are nicer people around who are not back stabbers...and bloggit is aleways here. Sending hugs.
posted by
Kabu
on July 8, 2017 at 12:27 PM
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Wow. I can understand very much how you are feeling. I imagine I would feel the same way if a bestie of mind connected with a former girlfriend of mine.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on July 8, 2017 at 9:55 AM
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She might easily be secretly afraid to renew old emotions. Sometimes a clean break appears to be the easiest solution. Obviously you do not feel this way for some reason, but why live in the past ,you are reasonably happy now and usually one solves one problem and another takes its place.
posted by
C_C_T
on July 8, 2017 at 7:15 AM
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